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What is the correct thing to do?
NoFun. 1473 reads
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What is the correct thing to do when you are stood up by a provider?  A full No Call No Show.

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Fair_Use158 reads

That kinda goes for everything in life, I think, especially anything involving women.

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EdrienneCole138 reads

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NoFun.137 reads

How do you know if you are choosing wisely or unwisely?

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EdrienneCole116 reads

There seems to be an influx of men who seek the lowest common denominator on the boards lately and ..... wonder of all wonders... they are disappointed in their results.  Go figure!

If you are not getting the results you want, alter your selection process. It's not brain surgery or nuclear science, folks.  ;-)

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johngaltnh92 reads

By all means, if one continues to seek what he has always sought, he will continue to get what he has always gotten. If that is less than satisfactory, then his seeking should change.

However -- and here is the caveat -- I wonder how "lowest common denominator" is defined. What is the criteria that hobbyists are using that equates to seeking lowest common denominator? Price? menu items? Appearance? Are they just credulous?

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boris_md96 reads

Posted By: NoFun.
How do you know if you are choosing wisely or unwisely?
Read her reviews.

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Radcow144 reads

If she has not bothered to call you back or offer the minimum of an excuse and apology, out her to your regional board. Explain the circumstances so that you might save someone else the time and expense of seeing her.  Be matter of fact, don't embellish. The local guys with good common sense will avoid her.

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keystonekid158 reads

e-mail asking what happened?  If you don't get a good answer within 48 hours, you should post on your regional board about the situation.

A newbie should just move on.  Unfortunately, the odds of a newbie getting a response to a "where were you e-mail is slim and none.  Don't waste your time.

All veterans have a NCNS every once in a while, regardless of how well we select our companions.  Providers are real people with lives outside the hobby and sometimes sh*t happens.

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Claudius42310108 reads


had you seen her before? has there been contact since? is she TER, CL, BP, eros or from another board?

your story is so thin and lacking in detail that any answer would be speculative and reflect more about the mind set of the personanswering than your situation.

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literbike102 reads

We move on and don't book with that person again...you move on and don't book with her again. part of the game we play.

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hound_dog69111 reads

looking forward to that "bike date" with your wife beater ;-) If you ask nice I might even wear an "I'm the bitch" T-shirt

LMAO

Have a great weekend all!

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1949msog88 reads

Posted By: NoFun.
What is the correct thing to do when you are stood up by a provider?  A full No Call No Show.
Try to contact her and she if she has an acceptable excuse (must be that she was physically unable to contact you). If she has an acceptable excuse fine let it go. If the excuse is bogus or you can not contact her:  WRITE A REVIEW

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GaGambler86 reads

The ONLY recourse is to never book with her again, and/or let your local community know about flaking out.

I don't believe that if you are the one that has to reach out to her for an "excuse", that here would possibly be an acceptable one. If she truly had an unavoidable emergency  and was unable to let you know, the responibility is still on her to reach out to you. IMO NCNS is inexcusable unless number one, there is valid reason for the no show, and number two, the provider in question reaches out to you at the very first possible moment to explain.

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madman27480 reads

TER doesn't accept reviews for non events like NCNS.  That is a risk of the hobby.

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scoed84 reads

Try to contact her at the time of the NCNS. If I get no response check for a text or email. If there is not a text or email try to contact her 7 minutes later. If still no contact recheck email and texts and try to contact her one last time. If unsuccessful leave a message expressing concern, displaying annoyance at the NCNS, and officially canceling the session because of her NCNS. Then I go home. If she does not contact me in 24 hours drop her an  email expressing concern. If she does not contact me add her to my do not contact and let anyone who contacts me about her about her NCNS.

If she does contact me and if I find her excuse to be unacceptable I will treat it like no contact had been made and add her to my DNS list. If she contact me and has an attitude I will post about it on the regional board on top of adding her to my DNS list. If she contacts me and has a in my opinion a valid excuse for the NCNS and is apologetic, I may rebook and I would not put her on my DNS list or bring up the NCNS if asked about her. If she some how tries to make it right by offering extra time or a discount I would almost defiantly rebook.

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