what women want absolutely most of all

is to not be figured out.

Cuz it's coming!

I'd say it's all about the

It's the simple...that's why You can't....

figure it out...lol...We want it All with a balance...that's Not asking for much...is it

I want what I didn't have yesterday and do not want what to ever here the word no.

Your book is done.

Someone who knows when to listen and someone who knows when to jump into action. As a woman I will test you.. I need to respect you. I need to know that I am always safe in your care. not just physically but, emotionally and financially. wine, me dine me. and yes 69 me. Be creative.

I need to see the tender loving side of you as well as the macho side of you..

Being handy around the house is important too.
You must have a sense of humor and adventuresome as well.

You must be healthy in mind and body and spirit or at least not any crazier then me.. Someone has to be the voice of reason...!

See it is a simple request.. really.....

being rich is a big plus too......

Too much to read.  Write on what they don't want.  Will fit into most comic books.
Basically, if you got it, they want it.  Once they have it, they will always return the "penis" to you! LOL  That is yours to keep, but not to use on her or anyone else, and especially not her.
Good luck with your book, and make sure you find a lady BEFORE you make the ba-jillion dollars, although ladies who go after ba-jillionaries are always sincere, loving, partners.  You know, like Anna Nichole Smith and her 1000 year old hubby!

In a relationship?

Well, a big thing that was missing in my past long-term relationship was motivation/goal setting. I'm motivated to get through school, start a career, and live a comfortable life. He was fine stuck in a stupid job he didn't like.

What else do I want? A man who is okay switching roles. I brought up the idea of being a stay at home dad when we start a family. There is no way our salaries match now and I know they won't when we're married. I'd rather have one of us raise our kids instead of bring them to his grandparents like his sister (that opened a whole new can of worms).

Anyways, to summarize my rant, women want a motivated man who can put his ego aside and just live life practically.

You mean all we had to do was ask. Damn, I've wasted alot of time.

From bottom to top:

Food, water, shelter, clothing.
Physical and psychological safety.
Friendship, acceptance, a feeling of belonging.
Recognition, appreciation, self-confidence, STATUS.

THEN, they want the BEST POSSIBLE MAN.

How each woman defines it is different. It depends on her personal values and social context.  But each woman wants and deserves the best possible man. Just ask her. She will use words like "deserve" and "worth."

WHO that best possible man is ... will change over time unless she specifically disciplines herself otherwise.

You can rest assured that her exes are NOT the best possible men. That's why they are exes.