You don't need a lot of pics but they should all be good ones. Quality photo imply quality service and crappy photos (see CraigsList) imply crappy service (see Craigslist). I don't like photos with blurred faces or even worse pics with big old photoshop circles covering the face. If the provider doesn't want to show her face then use some creative poses to obscure it.
The biggest thing for me is an accurate calendar. Please, please, please tell me when and where you're going to be so I can see how it fits into my schedule.
I've been away from this board for a few years but now I'm helping a provider friend out with her website. We got into a debate about whether sites with more pictures are better than ones with few/low-quality pictures.
My friend thinks that having a lot of good pics is like giving it away for free. As she puts it, "if you make it easy for guys to get off with pictures, why would he ante up the dough to actually see you?
My provider friend is in the "Model Material" range and extremely photogenic so she may be on to something.
BUT! My point is that having more pictures lets a provider build some connection with clients. Photos fuel desire. After the appointment, he can go to the site to admire the beautiful women he's just boinked. More photos help build business.
But what do YOU think? And something else: Are providers who don't show their faces at a disadvantage to those who do? Obviously providers conceal their faces for privacy. But does not seeing a face make you assume automatically that the girl may be butt-ugly?
So, more pictures or not? Looking forward to your response.
A hundred pictures are not needed. But about 10 good ones works for me. As for face shots, if the lady isn't comfortable with them, I won't complain. But maybe just one to give an impression. You know, maybe with a pair of sunglasses taken from the side.
reveal parts of the body are the ones that I think build the most interest.
Tease with a partially uncovered breast and a very high thigh slit dress and give a glimpse of a mouth and chin or an eye and forehead and you will show enough to know that they are not a burn victim, but not give away an identity.
I would rather see a lady who has high quality pictures that show a classy lady in a sexy or revealing outfit rather than a cameraphone photo of a completely naked lady taken in the mirror of a Motel 6.
JMTC
For starters, it should load right up. No long boring intoductions, and no music for that matter.
The print should be easy to read, large and contrasty. (No purple on black for example) For God's sake, no script.
Attention to detail: Good grammar, good spelling, etc. Treat this like your resume; to a large extent, it is.
Put down essentials. Do you know how many sites there are that don't even identify where the provider is located? And don't think you've covered it by listing your city if it's not a major city. Maybe everyone out there knows where East Mashugie is, but we don't. If you have a calendar, keep it up to date.
Have an easy way to contact you. We don't want to play detective. Make the colors vibrant and interesting. If you use drabs grays, greens and browns, what does that say about you?
Rate information please, no bigger turn off than to say that you'll discuss rates after we agree to see you.
Now on to the photos: A few very good photos beat a whole raft of poor ones. Unless you know you are a good photog., or your pal is, invest in a pro. It is worth it. There's nothing more erotic to me than a big smile and eyes that attract like a magnet, but I do understand some gals wanting anonymity. In that case, you don't have to be naked, but a revealing sexy pose with hot underwear will attract the guys. Make the photos fill the page if you can. I hate these tiny thumbnails that when you click on them they open up to 2 inches square.
I hope this helps.
I go to a ladies sight to find out the following:
1) rates.
2) best way and time to contact the provider
3) some example of services (GFE etc. and she does not have to use the usual descriptions but she should be HONEST about what is - and what is NOT on the menu).
4) some examples of what she offers in terms of time and events (dinner, lunch, in and out call, overnight, discount for extended time etc.)
5) region within a location...
6) something that demonstrates a bit of personality... an interesting photo showing her in an activity, a bit of her own poetry, selection of the type of site... etc.)
7) good quality frontal and side photo - partially nude (lengerie will do) In short - I want to get some idea of what her body is like... and I think that a classy photo - says she is a classy lady - a grainy poorly done photo also leaves an impression.
wrt face photo - I just take it with a grain of salt that for some - that is just totally unacceptable to show their face for privacy reasons.... just 'tis... and I have never not seen a lady because she veiled her face...
I would see a lady with only 2-3 good quality photos -without a face shot - over a lady with tons of poorly done photos where her body is poorly shown...
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I think a dozen or so pictures is plenty. I like to see some that are not highly polished glamour shots - nobody looks like their glamour shots all the time. A couple of nice but informal shots helps show what the lady really looks like.
I prefer to see a face - preferably with a smile - but if the lady doesn't want to show her face, some partial face shots (eyes, mouth) can be very nice without giving up her privacy.
As the other posters said, it's more than just pictures. Should be no spelling errors or incoherent sentence structure. I find it a real turn-off if the lady comes across as border-line illiterate. She can always have someone proof it for her. And, of course, basic info like rates, location, in/outcall. It's nice to see something that gives an idea of what the lady's personality is like.
is just as important, if not moreso, than how she looks, so blurred faces don't bother me. I find myself going straight to the "about me" page. If she is comparing herself to a fine bottle of wine, or a Rolls Royce, or some other inanimate object, I move on. Thanks, I don't drink and I have two cars.
Some that come to mind are:
Beverly Fisher--She has, without a doubt, the most entertaining website I have seen. She shows an extremely sensual side, a lot of beautiful pictures, and don't forget the sense of humor. She is #1 on my must see list.
Sherie (BlondeToPlay)--Again, very sensual young lady with a sense of humor and just sexy as hell.
And of course, Anabangbang--Who needs to say any more? Sexy, smart, funny, and that raw, sometimes brutal honesty. What a great site. Even if her name wasn't on the site, you'd know who she was from her posts on the boards.
So, yes the pictures are important, but not only the pictures. I like to know that I have a good chance of enjoying a lady's company also.
Well, I have a lot of quirks, but the one applicable to this question is that I will not try to see a lady who doesn't project warmth on her website and that usually is evidenced, to me, by a picture of her with a smile on her face.
I too am enticed by some warmth.
What makes YOU ... well YOU which is special!!
What little thing about you sets you apart from everyone else.
Not the CL phrases of 'best ever' or 'drop dead gorgeous' or 'one in a million' That self-serving tripe is 99 times out of 100 just BS. Even terms like GFE and PSE don't mean much.
Something simple like a smile on not just your face, but your whole body! Some indication that you are more than a photograph.
A couple sentences about what YOU like ... or what you are very good at faking.
First, I second everything stated by mrfisher, BizzaroSuperdude and dickus.
Second, I'd like to just add that as far as pictures are concerned, the most important thing to me is that they be *truthful*!
If a lady is 160 lbs., but her pictures make her look to be 105 lbs., I'll be *immensely* disappointed - and sadly have been - and you can bet I won't repeat - and I haven't.
Please ladies, be honest in your pictures, it'll be a happier experience for all of us, hobbyists and providers alike.
I see a lot of sites I have hard time figuring out where she's located. I try to make my site simple and easy to find information.
Rina, your site is very well done; Just the right amount of pics and all the information required to learn what is needed to move forward.
Love the link to your blogs.
The photography is very well done.
You don't need a lot of pics but they should all be good ones. Quality photo imply quality service and crappy photos (see CraigsList) imply crappy service (see Craigslist). I don't like photos with blurred faces or even worse pics with big old photoshop circles covering the face. If the provider doesn't want to show her face then use some creative poses to obscure it.
The biggest thing for me is an accurate calendar. Please, please, please tell me when and where you're going to be so I can see how it fits into my schedule.
I read each reply twice and the insight was terrific. The other complication with my lady friend is that she lives in a rural area in a rather small state where everybody knows everybody and she's practically the only one plying the profession. A rather gnarly marketing problem I'm working around and I'll share my ideas with you folks when I get the site together. Thanks for taking the time.
variety of pictures showing the lady in various types of clothing such as casual, nice dress, swim suit, lingerie, etc. If she doesn't want to show her breasts and other assets, there are creative ways to cover. For example, long hair can drop over a breast to hide it.