From reading many reviews, I would estimate 20-25%
of sessions end without actual sex [VS]. 250-500 donations.
Yet, high ratings are given for BJ, HJ, etc.
Maybe I just don't get it...
Is this fear of STDs, or what?

I like FS from time to time, but I also enjoy uncovered activities such as you suggest and do those and others.

As the good book says:

It's all good.

Personally I enjoy most all M-F sex...  and what goes on reflects that.  An ending happens when it happens.  Since many providers offer more than intercourse, ending with something other is not uncommon...  also because other things may not be available at home, perhaps more emphasis?  If I'm ready for an ending & she sweetly gives it to me, what's not to like.  

As a young man, I was prejudiced to intercourse; "Going all the way".  I have put asside my bias & more fully enjoy all a lady has to offer...  and all I can offer her.
 
I look at the totality of the experience & how much I enjoyed it when rating...  but don't get hung up in the numbers...  if you read the descriptions, IMHO you'll understand better.  
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First of all, I'm an escort.. I sell my valuable TIME as an entertainer and a professional  fun person to hang out with.. that is why people pay my fee.  ... Lots more fun about me than my pussy and and many more ways for a man to feel good about himself then getting his d*ck rubbed.

It is telling about you that this is your only motivation to spend time with someone.

Also ... Reviews are entertainment and shouldn't be taken literally.  The only accurate thing to discern from a review is it a person enjoyed themselves or not.  

the video clip because I get to hear your voice as you tell a little bit about yourself.

the journey than the destination.  Some guys have difficulty with a cover therefore they prefer BBBJ or another uncovered activity for the finish.

I would say your percentages are correct. I find that many of my regulars, most of them over 55, have trouble using condoms. They lose sensation, so FS is not an option for those guys. We do have a great time with other activities and the end resul is always the same, a great O for them, and usually many great O's for me!

the good ole 69 position... and WOW!  BELLS And WHISTLES!  why stop, if you are really blown away be a ladies skills?  

On other occasions, maybe due to type II diabetes, maybe due to some stress factor having nothing to do with the lady, or maybe due to any one of a hundred things I could not put my hands on.... I've gotten of in an alternative manner to FS.  BUT, If I have enjoyed myself, then the lady gets the rating she deserves - 7 and above... it is really that simple - and if things that i do not partake of are on the menu... well!  I take that into account when I give the score.

We're not ALL John "the Wad" holmes, but if you read some guys reviews.... well, you would think they are the star of the latest Jules Jordan video..

"I entered the room, pushed her on the bed, ramed my throbbing member down her tiny throad and gave her the first cup, in less than 3 min, then she 'touched' 'little john' and he sprang back to life, and I had her sit on my cock while we did reverse CG, CG, and then we switched to K9 and did that for 30 min, and I came buckets on her ass.... again, she got me hard, and we finished in her ass.... alas my time was up, and as I walked out the room, rushing to the next lady, my raging hard on could barely wait (the five min it would take to go to the 11th floor of the hotel from the 9th floor of the hotel) to have her kneel and jerk me off on her enormous tits as a prelude to the mish pounding I was gonna give her.... yada yada yada..."

does anyone believe that this group of balding paunchy middle and old age guys does that!?  help me here!

why can't he just stay with me on the 9th floor...until I drain him...and he has to be carried off...because afterall...we went for hours on end...until there was no more to give...I love sessions like that

I never went back to her because even though by all reviews (and this particular lady has over 40 pages of reviews, and they are almost unversally the same erotic sensual experience) she is consistant in her services... however, I would be very sad if the session were to fail to measure up to that particular session (Which occurred over 5 years ago, and is still emblazzoned in my memory).  

yea, sessions like that are rare, but man oh man, do they ever make the hobby great!  Only one civie experience even comes close... and that was oh so many years ago.

what an awesome experience he had...lol...and I agree with You...it would be hard to go back, because the expectation is there and if it were Not the same...there is a disappointment and then that Awesome memory will soon fade...whatever had gotten in to her...You reaped the benefits...and ohhh what a feeling so good for You for Not putting that pressure on her to perform...I always tell the guys...don't cum expecting to experience what someone else has...everyone is different and if we Enjoy each other and Not what someone else's review said about me...We Will have an amazing time...just be You...because I surly will be me

Not only do you have a very impressive web site, outstanding reviews, also you obviously are very articulate and have a great insight.

Alea, very impressive indeed.

some guys are so into performing like a porn star stud (the typical report of banging away for 30-40 minutes) that they get to the point that they're too pooped to pop, so the lady has to get them over the finish line with a little helping hand.

In my case, my first few experiences ended that way due from a combination of not being use to condoms and nervousness about the newness of the situation. Once, I just made it to BBBJCIM because the lady made it feel so good. But, the whole experience, each time, was very memorable.

Guys pay to get serviced or get some attention.  Some want straight sex, some want a BJ, some want to lick a woman's boot. Others prefer an attractive woman's company and the activities are just icing on their cake.  It's all in preference.

Yours is obviously to include straight sex.  If that's what you want, that's what you want.  The rest boils down to access and preference.  (Ok, that just sounded like Grissom....)

STD's and some guys fear that the provider has tampered with the condom. Eyeroll. Or honestly, sometimes they'll finish during a hj or bj that was leading up to intercourse.....oops.

I've had some hand jobs and blow jobs that felt pretty godddam "actual" to me. You gotta get out there and do some livin".

i have quite a few rendevous that got too hot and heavy that didnt finish all the bases lol.  But we both still had a blast! I made sure of that!

I don't think it's actually all that amazing actually.  I like sex but I LOVE oral sex. So does my ATF.  We may spend some time boinking in the traditional sense during an appointment but we sometimes don't. Trust me, 60 to 90 minutes of mutual oral mixed in with massage, goofing around and laughter can be pretty fucking amazing if both parties are into it.

Based on the amount of BS that my favs tell me they have read about themselves when guys have reviewed them over the years nothing really surprises me.

I wouldn't say there is really anything for you to "get".  We all pay our money and we all have different ideas of what constitutes a good time with a beautiful woman.

... I find it a shame that many people still only equate intercourse to sex. Sex is about an intimate connection with someone else. There are so many ways to have sex. Maybe some of us need to explore other avenues besides just the old "in out."

what we do.  In my "ute" I use to have a checklist in my mind...make sure to do this, that and the other as a measure of "was it worth".  Much more enjoyable to go with the flow and see how the story ends, let her be the author!

After I hit 50+, I gave up on intercourse with a condom in favor of oral and FBSM with a happy ending.  It's not that it doesn't feel good with a condom- that goes without saying, but I can't feel ANYTHING, resulting in a lose of erection.  I could be inside her or I could be in my shoe and it would feel the same.

This came as quite a shock to me since I'd been dating a civie girl without using a condom for 6 years and was still performing at a high level.  Then I started seeing providers again and couldn't perform at all.  It was a sad day, but that's life.