If the agencies you're contacting are asking for info you don't feel comfortable giving, just keep searching for others or for independents who will work with you on getting verified. Also, it would be helpful if TER would bring back the Whitelist function, IMHO. I just checked and the menu option is still there but it's not currently available. In the old TER days the Whitelist entries I had from reputable providers helped me schedule with quite a few new ones. Fingers crossed for the return of that functionality!
do one of two things that box themselves into a corner when they start reviewing. The first is that they take the "guidelines" literally. Over the years, I have had many new members who just started reviewing tell me they can't give a girl a "10" because they only have ONE to give, and they want to save it until they have that "once in a lifetime" experience. Likewise, they take the other guidelines literally, often interpreting them in ways that were not intended or else make no sense. They will argue with me and say, "It SAYS Once in a Lifetime" so they believe once they give a 10 for either looks or service, they can't give another one to someone else without putting a stain on their integrity. Its crazy.
The second thing is that they end up getting lucky and seeing a girl who is obviously a nine or a ten on their first provider visit. Then they give her a 6 or 7, so that they have room to give higher scores if they see better providers later on, but then they see ones that are not as good and start giving out 4's and 5's. They have effectively locked themselves into a grading system that makes their own reviews irrelevant, because mongers are looking for girls who are 8-10, and usually don't even read reviews that are 5 - 6.
This is why you see language that shows a positive session coupled with a low score. Its the way some reviewers are using the system that creates these discrepancies. Its the same thing with reviewers who hand out 10's like candy. They lose cred because the odds of a single reviewer seeing 50 "Once-in-a-lifetime" providers out of 60 total just isn't possible. After awhile, most members stop reading reviews from guys who give everybody a 10/10.
I posted on my local board years ago how to interpret my reviews. I don't like giving low numbers, so the numbers I use are only 1, and 7-10. Obviously, a ROB needs no explanation. But for me, an 8 is average, a 7 is below average, a 9 is above average, and a 10 is in the top 10% of all the girls I have seen. I feel there is no need to beat up a girl who is below average by giving her a 5. Its enough for me to say she is below average. I'm not here to hurt anyone's business regardless of how bad the session was for me. She will get a 7, which is below average for me. There is always a possibility that someone else will have a better time with her.