Hey folks, a little etiquette question here. I'm going to Hawaii or Mexico and I thought, well I have the best times with the ladies I've seen already so why not ask one to join! What are provider's expectations in that kind of situation? Is it expected that a client pay for everything? Is it fair to expect that some "time" be paid for and the rest just be for the pure enjoyment of it all? You ladies always have the best answers so I figured I would just go to the source. Thanks!

Yes, you pay for everything. I haven't done it, but from what I read:

The lady expects to get some sleep and a few hours of private time each day.

The ladies who do it frequently have mult-day rates posted. No freebies, other than the volume discount.

You may also want to check out Hobby Vacations. Why have the same lady for the whole week when you can ....

Wow.  Are those Costa Rican providers for real, Tokai?  Yeah, that would be a fantasy vacation to get all of those girls in one location... but wouldn't clients all be competing for the same girls...how does that work?

Because he just said he wants to go with one of the gals he sees. He must enjoy their company. Duh.

I have and yes...you do pay fr everything. I can afford to go on vacation and pay for it myself.
If I am going with a client, its on you and then theres my time. You pay for that as well.
Don't confuse that even though we may greatly enjoy your company, this is a business. This is how lines get crossed and misunderstandings happen.

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Those all inclusive vacations are a bad value however. For what you spend at one of those joints,typically a grand a day you can stay in a palace and see six or seven ladies a day.

The Dominican Republic has many of these type of resorts too. It is even a worse value there, many ladies from the DR travel to Costa Rica because they can make more money there, and Costa Rica is a bargain by American standards, and it's legal. so much for the argument that legalizing the hobby is a bad thing.

I am no expert on the DR as I have not spent a grat deal of time there, but I have been to Costa Rica at least fity times in the last three or four years. HighRoller is correct when he says that it would be a fantasy vaction to have all those ladies in the same location. Try the Blue Marlin, there are literally hundreds of girls that work there, a true hobbyist's dream come true.

In answer to your main question-

Yes, you pay a daily rate which is often times 1/3 to one half their regular 24 hour rate if you book enough days.  You pay their airfare, and you pay all their meals- just like you would if you took a girlfriend.  

Most want you to pay them for their airfare and they make their own reservations for privacy concerns.  All the ones I've travelled with know me well and I've made the reservations as I already knew their info anyway.  

If you are taking one out of the country, they'll need passport and by the time you've filled out immigration forms next to each other a couple times, seen each other's luggage tags, etc- you'll each know the other's full info anyway.

If you are taking one out of the country- you are violating some more serious laws- so you two better have good mutual trust!  I have done so and it hasn't been an issue.

Not all providers travel, but the ones who do can be a lot of fun, particularly if it is one you have history with.  It is actually my favorite hobby activity- the companionship is much more real and intense, the lack of impending end to the time for a few days is delightful.

Caution though-  both of you need your boundaries tight and intact.  Travel can change the relationship- and trust me from experience- it doesn't end well.  That being said, with great boundaries and no after travel expectations, it is great fun!

Oh really?  I guess I can kind of surmise it, but what are some issues or ways that it could not end well?  I would love to take a favorite on a nice vacation, but wouldn't do it if there's going to be complications or it would change our fun vibe we have going now.

Some guys like CR and DR because they can get anything cheap, it's not really a "dream" to most. It's just something cheap, so they can brag.

The bad news if there is a crossing the line if the boundaries weren't well defined and tight prior.  I had one wonderful vacation with a very favorite and we both thought we fell in love on the trip- won't go in to the reasons but it ended badly not too long after return home.  The old story that is talked about so much on this board.

On the other hand, have travelled since where the boundaries were well defined and had a wonderful time and still see the provider for very pleasant 'reunions' whenever she is in my town or me hers!

On my last vacation in Vegas, I met with my ATF who like me was thousands of miles from home...one of the best evenings between us ever!  Hope this happens again!  

I am going in a vacation with a "friend" tomorrow for 3 days of fun in FL.

He was a gent about offering to let me see others while I am there but I decided, just to enjoy him and a swinging vacation!

He is paying for everything including my time.

Yep darling if you would like to take a provider on a vacation, you have to PAY for everything.
You may get a discount if she knows you.

madeline