Let's say you're going to go shopping with a provider you have seen before.
You have the option to go shopping first and then have the session, or vice versa.
Which would you do and why?

Every woman knows the 5 minutes after a guy nuts is the easiest way to get the credit card, so I vote after, just like I do with dinner. You'll buy us more once you cum in our mouth. Just saying. If you want to "get comfortable," try the library. Even better...a mattress store.

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Listen up Chuck. The downside to shopping IS the shopping. So dont do it. EVER. And will ya stop worrying about what makes the woman happier please? Pretty please, if that helps?

shopping first

So the best way to a man's wallet is through his penis?

Posted By: London Rayne

Every woman knows the 5 minutes after a guy nuts is the easiest way to get the credit card, so I vote after, just like I do with dinner. You'll buy us more once you cum in our mouth. Just saying. If you want to "get comfortable," try the library. Even better...a mattress store.  

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In your case, shopping first makes sense if you went to an adult superstore.
That way, you can use what you bought I suppose.

Yeah that is pretty much how it is, but what if you wore him out so much that he fell asleep? Then what are you going to do Ms Smartypants, Do a Weekend at Bernies?

The lady's happiness is just as important as mine; I am not a selfish lover.

if you have already seen the lady before, and your concerned which works better for her, simply ask her which she prefers.

Just a thought as a woman.

xoxo,

Steph

Be yourself truthfully. I know it is scary for some. Same rule applies to women.

Polls don’t work really work in real-life.

and then it's virtually impossible to drag me into a shopping mall. After all, I've already gotten everything that I want at that point.

Only gay guys and guys who haven't fucked yet actually enjoy shopping with a woman, The best time to get a guy to take you shopping is when you are promising him pussy afterwards,  A hard dick is a lot more generous than an empty sack. Once I've cum, I just want you to turn into a six pack and a pizza.

anywhere in public without at least knowing her via a session or two. Why in the world would you take one shopping? Not only is it mangina-like, you will probably end up paying for her shopping time and her items.  

but shopping is very mangina like, and I can only be talked into going anywhere near a shopping mall by someone I like a LOT. I mean are there really any non mangina, non gay men that really enjoy shopping with a woman?

Shopping with a woman is usually tolerated by men for one reason, and that reason is to get laid, once I've been laid I don't have any desire to spend money and time in a fucking shopping mall.

Yes, I am sure there are maybe a few guys, especially older ones that actually enjoy "playing dress up" with a woman, (hooker or civvy), but most of us only do it for the only reason guys do anything with a woman, to get into her pants.

The only time I will ever take a hooker shopping is either as a reward for OTC time,which means I am looking for more than just a hooker, or we have crossed past the client/hooker line and are already in an actual relationship, and yes I will confess that I have done this several times over the last few months, but I even told the ladies I took shopping not to expect it to become a regular thing, and that as a red blooded American male that I was only doing it to make her happy, and that if she wanted a guy who actually enjoyed shopping, she would need to find herself a gay friend. lol

to have a legal guardian appointed to oversee your finances, don't you?

8o)

1) If we were shopping for lingerie for her to wear during.
2) If we were shopping for toys to use on each other during.
In both cases it would be a great tease, and like foreplay.  But it would have to be OTC.  I will not pay a woman to shop any more than I will pay to watch her eat or sleep.  I've taken a good number of gals out to dinner afterwards, but always OTC.
As for shopping after a session, I can't imagine ever doing it unless it's like Gambler's example.  But I'm thinking he's a bigger mangina than I ever imagined. LMAO!

A provider who may have "earned" a perk as opposed to taking a hooker out shopping that you have never met and before a session. It would seem as if Business is looking for personal acceptance as opposed to john acceptance.

Here's a clip of you the last time you went shopping with a "date"

The "perk" she has "earned" is her $400/hr.

Damn. That's funny.

I think GaGambler is already getting plenty of extras if he is taking a hooker shopping. Personally, I wouldn't do it at all, but he as opposed to Business's reasons are different.

You want to make her happy? Do yourself a favor and pick her out a nice present or two. That way you show you care and appreciate her or whatever spin you want. That way there are limits and boundaries. To go shopping is too open-ended and subject to discomfort, resentment, and disagreements. You're just asking for trouble.

The only thing I am shopping for "after" I bust a nut is a pizza and a six pack, so save your mangina crap for one of the more "sensitive" posters like the OP.

Shopping AT A MALL with a hooker???  Like on Sunday after we got outta church??? Along with my pusher and his girl, like a double-date???  well...

and I let every woman I ever take shopping know right up front not to get used to it. If they want a sensitive guy to go shopping with, they need to go get a gay guy for a "buddy".

I will take a woman (civvy or otherwise) shopping a couple of times early in a relationship, but if you don't cut it out early, the next thing you know you are going to be one of those manginas that is constantly going to the mall, watching while his SO spends all his money on shit he doesn't even like. Fuck, you might as well get married in that case.

That video was supposed to have been destroyed by court order!  Plus, I never bone fat chicks and I never dress up as Santa any more.  Only as Satan.  Here's a photo.  That line works every time.  A real panty dropper

Sooo, no before or after.
Did take a lady to the cell phone store once, because she was traveling and lost her cell.
London is right, it was after an overnight and yep, I paid for the phone.
 

Oh, you missed the part where I said "easier to get the credit card." I did not mention you tagging along lol.

you better claim you are going out for pizza and beer. lol

Of course by the time you get back, I'll probably be snoring anyhow, so I'll never know until I get the CC bill.

You act like you're telling me something new bwahahahaa.  

If you really have this overwhelming need to spend some money for a totally worthless cause...how about if you take me to the mall where I'd be happy to buy (with your money) some electronics and shit like that.

Or will you let him wallow all day, hitting "send/receive" a million times waiting for that useless pat on the head? Of course you wouldn't.

met my SO at a meet and greet.  Our first date was a pay date that is still going after 4 years.  She has a regular job now and we have both moved to a different state together, but we still chuckle at our foibles in the hobby.  I never post anything really but I had to smile and reply to this one.  I know from my own experience how to make a man shop, even while I agree with Mr Gambler that shopping is not in the male vocabulary, unless....

Just drop them off...let them rummage for an hour or so...pick up and get a BBBJCIMNQNS as thanks  

Guess I may have to take this maid out in the back and give her a "what for".

Same letters in their names. They both wear red. you've never seen them together in the same photograph.

realize I'm a bit different when it comes to this issue.  Don't get me wrong.  Like anyone receiving gifts are nice and it's very thoughtful and kind of the gentleman bringing it.  
   
 But I would like for you to do your best to bring your A game and I will do my best to bring mine.  That is a sure fire way to insure that both of us are going to have a stellar time together.  If that occurs then my gift would be a return visit from you at some later date.  My time and companionship is expensive and I know you work hard for your income and making the right choice in whom you see is important to you.  
   
 If we have met let me say "Thank You" for your time.  If we have not I can't wait.

*Yawn*  It's been done.

I have to agree with you here nut. Nicki put herself on my to do list with that reply!

People actually 'try on' underwear? Never!