The provider had a great time and wants to go for a second cup with the hobbyist.  But the hobbyist doesn't want to go for the second cup.  It's not a question of physical incapacity, he doesn't want to, and states no reason, just seems disinterested.

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Id be elated and tell him to invite 10 friends over just like him LOL

Maybe you should take a new handle.  CiaraHasEnvelopeNoNeedForFun.   LOL

How often have any of you guys felt like you didn't need/want a second cup, but the provider (Whether out of real desire or a fear that if she doesn't get the second cup you'll be dissappointed with her.) insists so you get into it and sure enough, it comes.

I have had this situation on a few occasions.

Most of the time I was glad that she wouldn't take no for an answer.

I guess his cup doesn't runneth over-----

I'm just normally a one round kind of guy. I have however, been with a few ladies who were sexy enough, and determined enough to coax that second time around out of me. Every time that has happened, it's been absolutely amazing.

I'm with u on this one, if he insists he is done, smile and say next!
I am sure that the fun will come with one of the ten!

That wouldn't be the Ciara we know and love.  She's always up for fun.

As any of the ladies who have seen me know one is about all I can muster.

There have been some exceptions (and you know who you are) that have been able to help get me to the promised land twice.

Ciara, I don't think with you sexiness or fun would be the problem....but my own physical incapacity.  LOL

There isn't a physical problem, but perhaps a spiritual or motivational one.  The "fun" just wasn't there, for whatever reason.  In my case, it wasn't the lady's fault.  After I arrived, the anticipation disappeared, and I just wasn't very fired up for the encounter.  I likely could've had more than one round, but my mind just wasn't into it.  I can't explain why the fire wasn't there; it just wasn't.  It happens sometimes.