Just wondering if other ladies get this:

I have a website that CLEARLY states I do OUTCALLS only in the downtown Toronto area
BUT I continue to get gentlemen who email asking me to meet them in Timbuktu

Being a lady, I will respond to all emails even if the gent has not seen that part. I did in this instance and one gentleman slammed me for it...
I explained it to him (downtown downtown), yet he still thinks it is unjust and unfair.......sigh
(UPDATE: now how to you report a gent that now emails you calling you a "B---H"?)
This is really uncalled for..........

Why is it that some gents don't read the fine print or in my case, HOW TO BOOK AN APPT. page in my FAQ'S area??????????????????

UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!

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that you are finding out they are jerks before a session.

I can teach dumb but I can't fix stupid.

signs, policies or the fine print in contracts.
The first time someone starts using foul language I would put them on my junk mail list. If only we had a board where ladies could pick customers.
 It may be human nature, but it still sucks. And when poo poo like that happens it gets stuck in your head for a while.  Ever notice how your mind only calls witnesses for the prosecution?
B

every once in a while that "I am paying so I say what goes".

We see it occasionally pop up when someone doesn't get his way and wants to bash a lady.

They usually get strongly put down, but that doesn't stop them.

Unfortunetly, there will always be those "gentlemen" who demand you cater to them, no matter how specific you are with your rules.
It's all about them and what they want.
They have no class and don't deserve your company.

You have gotten some good advice here.
Ignore him, junk mail him, and don't allow him to contact you again.
He's not worth your time.

As far as your "update"...
it's inappropriate to mention names here, but let the ladies know on their board.
You may just be saving someone else a hassle.

Just my opinion...
B

Doll I am behind you on that one. I put together a very information packed site, possibly too much information, but what do you do. I want those who take the time to read what I have produced to know what the peramiters are, yet I get the same calls and I politely tell them to read my site. That is it. If I receive a call back that is fine if not then they read the information and realised that I did not fit their needs.

When people put their values on your "product" ("I'm paying an awful lot of money for this...why can't you just come out here!"), they lose track of what the seller has stated the parameters are.

The more you deal with the general public, the more you encounter people like this.  There are countless examples of them.  I have worked customer service in one form or another for 25 years, and I have seen so many that is never surprises me anymore.  

If you go into it thinking that there will be people like this, there is nothing you can do to make it better, and you just give a rubber stamp answer to someone like that, it takes the frustration out of it.  If someone isn't going to pay attention to you while wanting your product, they don't deserve any better.  Sellers aren't beggers.

Thanks Everyone!!!!!

What a great bunch of folks you are!
You know it happens, one TOAD to ruin my day,
but have had many Princes and you all proved that today! (Princess for DANI
Thanks for your support and just taking the time out
to acknowledge!

You sound sweet. I don't even respond sometimes if I am busy. It all depends.

Sara

What was funny was early on after my divorce, my ex's current hubby looked at me and said "well, you don't expect us to abide by the parenting contract do you?" lol!  the dude was totally appalled by my insistance that we follow the contract....  as it was what had been agreed to as fair (even though at the time, I did not find it fair).  

In so many instances I have found that people say "ok, tell me what you want" and then fail to listen... and wonder why I short circuit! lol!  

I recently saw a gal who had a lot of rules... but know what, I asked, she said no, and that was the end of it.... as for me?  I had a great time.  no hassle.... it is all about respecting someones offer of a contract for service.