Just wondering ladies what a typical week is like for you,when you are working?(Not traveling,but working in the area where you live).Thank You.

I try to keep my private life separate from my provider venue. Time restraints are seldom a problem for those who plan ahead but last minute phone calls can be a problem at times.

If i'm not working I like to sleep late, enjoy my morning coffee and read the local news on TER. I'm a lady who loves to go to lunch with the girls and do find time to do that often. I wish I could say I get up and exercise every morning but just haven't been with the program lately.

Kisses Haley

Damn, wish I could have one appointment per day.  How great would that be?

I have a career, so for me at least, i provide when it fits into my time constraints..a GOOD  week (when the economy was good) is seeing 3 gentlemen a week, now it's one a week for me, because i provide in the evening and the weekends only and that's hard for a guy that has to be home at a specific time after work..rarely during the day because of work.
Jay

Fix breakfast for the kids and drink coffee on the run as I take my kids to school every morning. (Otherwise, they'd have to be up by 4:30AM to catch the 5:40AM bus!) Immediately afterwards, I'm off the the gym for some cardio and weight-lifting..followed by a quick shower, laps in the pool and hopefully a little sunbathing, if time permits. Afterwards, another shower...cleaning house, laundry and running errands. I've mastered the juggling act of picking up the kids from school, preparing dinner, attending their football games all while maintaining a hectic and flexible work schedule...generally consisting of 3 appointments per day, with most being 1.5 hrs - 2 hrs dates. Then off to bed for another 6AM wake up call! Life is GOOD!!!

Only fair for us to ask you the same question.

We are humans with lives too you know.  I understand the curiousity but what does it matter?

Many have kids, "regular" jobs, go to school, but bottom line is we all have lives...just like you!

However, being 2 teenage boys, their 'hormones are raging' like mine (lol) and I'm guessing a hot little nanny might not be the best solution!

There is a flip-side to my hectic weekday schedule though. Since my kids are teens, they're rarely home on the weekends. Which means mom gets to do whatever the hell she wants. I can sleep in til noon if I want, go to the spa for the day, take weekend trips or just run around naked in the house all weekend!

Hell, I feel like it's recess time everytime I'm with a date! LOL I'm very fortunate to have the flexible schedule that I have. How many civie ladies can say the same?!

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Trust me when I tell you..... you don't even want to know!  Just try to imagine throwing 5 really thin glass balls up into the air and keeping all of them from hitting the ground.  Now, add two 5 pound weights to that and you have an idea of what we typically deal with everyday-  so don't even start with a whole week!
....-and it was fortunate you inquired about : "when you are at home"  not when you are traveling...... traveling adds more juggling, time schedules and added personalities- Let's just say any provider  that has been successful for 8 or more years could probably run time management for half of Congress and the country would get more accomplished. LOL


-And then of course..... most of us also have a "real"  life -LOL-  that is, the one everyone actually is a witness to and what people normally see.

Fair enough!  I work during the day at finding interesting and sometimes humorous ways to service Taliban and Al Qaida targets. (OK, perhaps you might not find humor in this, but I am a retired military lifer, and those people have really pissed me off) I see a couple of ladies per week. And as is already known from a former post on GD, I cohabit frequently with a lady in the biz. Actually, I need to slow down - I can't sustain the pace at my age.... '

Any lady out there who finds a way to live a life of balance and self fulfillment while working in this biz - my virtual hat's off to you.

Cheers

Gregory

What do you do in your spare time?

I guess you could sat you are a busy little "Beaver"

Thank You
XLIII = 4

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I didn't know the answer....that's why i asked the question....Now i know!....Thanks for your response....I wasn't trying to insult you......
My typical day....going to work and trying to keep premature babies alive.

I could teach time management classes to congress in a heartbeat. There is nothing typical about being a provider. It's hectic at times, has its perqs at other times, but it's a double life. Need I say more?

Hugs,
Ciara

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I'm retired from school system.  So my week is taken up mostly with working out at the YMCA, elliptical, weights, and lots of swimming.  (I was a swimmer as a kid and continue competing today.)  Lots of time on computer, naps, watching football on weekend.

Basically, just enjoying not having to get up early anymore and, oh, I almost forgot the most fun thing I do, seeing beautiful providers.  Only problem with that is not enough money and too many lovely ladies around the Tampa, Florida area.

Swim

go to ATM, see provider, come home, eat, shit, shower, sleep.

Repeat daily.  (I wish.)

8o)

I keep pretty busy and that works well for me.  

I work full time weekdays and I am studying sexuality through a part time course.

In my spare time, I like to learn, explore and meet new people.  That is one of the things I love about dating professionally  

A lot of my lady friends either work, study or have businesses outside of the industry.  I find that different interests help to keep my life balanced so that I can be good company to those I meet in any sense.  

I'm interested in finding out about others...

Cheers!

I on the other hand have 2 college age girls. Of course I wouldn't want to trade them in, but boys are a lot cheaper and more maintenance free than girls. The amount of money I have to spend is 3x vs any boy.

To give you a real world example, think about your teenage boys upcoming prom. All you have to worry about is renting a tux, buying a corsage, and paying your portion for a limo. Rather simple. Here is a list from my wife on my girls expenditures when they went to a prom.

- Dress
- New bra for the new dress
- New shoes
- New earings
- A full morning getting their hair done
- Manicure and pedicure
- Spray-on tan
- Bikini wax

A lot more shit I can't even remember. Total cost for 1 girl.....$1000. Priceless - not at that price.

Both are in college, which in itself is expensive. But every week I am transferring funds into their accounts for some of the same stuff noted above. Now throw in that teenage girl attitude.

Though I hear from other parents that your kids will finally wake up in their mid to late twenties, apologize to their parents for the hell they gave them, and thank them for all they have done. I guess that is the priceless momeent I am waiting for.

Call me if you want to swap kids.

Let me think. I wake up at 8am every morning. Drop my angel off at school. Then I go to the gym for an hour of cardio and weight lifting. I come home watch CNN for a while. LOL have about 4-5 appts a week. Cook dinner, get my angel bathed and to sleep and then watch CNN some more..

Oh did I mention I save the world from exstinction every Weds & Friday lol

my life is as typical as any other I guess.
I have 3 kids, 2 teens and one off to college, so I have some time to relax, spend on me ect... but I also have a huge old house lots of rooms always in need of something and cluttered at the moment.
My kids are my main livelyhood and my joy as well.
I love being a mom and love hanging out with them when, since they are teens they are busy, but when they are around I love our time together, goes by fast so I intend to enjoy it while I still have kids home.
I too cook dinner every night, or mostly, drop them off at school at 7am every day pick them up not always but often, they are walkers anyway. Teaching my "baby" to drive, so thats a real adventure, all three have stressed me out in this department and all three have dinged up a car of mine in the process. lol.... Taxi cab them to and from work, friends movies, and so on.
I feel very fortunate and blessed that I am able to be the parent I truely want to be for all three of them. This business has been why I am able to do all this without a complete hardship and without comprimising my family values.

I am a soccer mom and love it. I appreciate my Gentlemen, and the help they give me to be able to accomplish this level of happiness.
I planned when I got into this biz to successfully graduate 3 from high school and on to college, one is graduating from college in the spring, my middle child, and oldest son graduates from high school with high honors this spring as well, and hes off to college, and the baby, well hes a sophmore at the moment so will be a junior next year, and then he will graduate from high school in 2yrs. then he will be off to college.

This aspect of my life although it allows me to live the rest of my life more freely, and gives me many more choices as to how I choose to spend my time, well its like margin notes on a page...it's a very small part of who I am. It's been a means to get to where I want to be, not my whole life. By standards of glamour and luxury my life is not "all that" it's pretty boring really but it's what I want it to be. I guess I just like "ordinary". Ladies in this biz for the most part, are just like you. We just have, well an interesting group of friends...
If it makes you feel better feel free to picture me naked all day in heels just primping and waiting for you...lol

I love my life, and I mean LOVE it. I am so blessed, I want only good things for my children and thanks to this business and the many sweet men I have met and some, who are now my dear friends, and Ladies I have come to know I am a better person for it all. I am more fulfilled, happier with my life and at peace with the choices I make. Life is good!
Ladies and Gentlemen...I thank you!

( God...so sorry to drag all that out..but anyway, you did ask)

play safe all...
Nicole




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Hmmm...it varies Lungman because most of the time when I'm home, I am off with one of my "friends" for an extended length of time. And to me I still feel as if I'm "traveling" due to the fact I am "home" but I'm not.

I rarely see new friends when I am home unless I have incall provided or plan on being in the area for a couple of weeks or longer.

which is all of about 2 minutes and 38 seconds per day....I masterbate!!!! LMFAO

I wake up at 4 am, to prepare a high protein breakfast for my boyfriend.

I wake him up at 4:30 am, for a BBBJTC or a quick fuck before he eats and heads out to the gym.

My Mom always told me to NEVER let my man out of the door with full balls, so I've been following her advice for years

I shower, and go to my yoga classes before heading to my private incall place.

I get there, check my mails, return phone calls and get confirmations for my appointments.

I call my boyfriend, to let him know about my schedule for the day, so he's not worried about me.

Being a backdoor girl, I do my daily anal cleansing ritual, shave my kitty, wash my hair and take a looooooong bath.

I pick the lingerie sets I will be using, based on my clients preferences and I get dressed for my first session.

I do space my appointments a lot, I am low volume and just see 3 guys max a day, which gives me plenty of time to go to the gym, shop and do other personal stuff "in between".

I take looooong baths between appointments, it helps me feel relaxed and horny for more action.

After my last client, I clean my incall place and I make sure is ready for the next day.

I go back to my condo, where my boyfriend has dinner ready for us. We eat while I tell him about my day and the way I got fucked by my clients

He gets horny listening to my stories and, many times we start to fuck in the middle of the dinner, on the top of the table, kitchen counters, living room - after, we take a shower or bath together and have more sex.

We fuck for a while and go to sleep, completely exhausted.

Of course we do other things when we have the time, but basically this is my typical day.

BDG


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>>come home, eat, shit

I had to read that twice.  The first time I read it just a little too fast and missed a very important comma....

I would have wondered about our friend Mr. Fisher

lol...I agree with the additude boys verses girls, my oldest is a girl and she ran me ragged emotionally in her teens, was still quite the princess in her early twenties, but now at 26 she's starting to come around.  I believe they do not see the whole, "you were right" deal til their own kids are wearing them out. We are not there yet.
My boys, both teens, aside from being slobs, and the too often fights that brothers have, getting better though, I have pretty much no complaints. They are both honor role, no additude, no wacky raging hormones, they both work, they are easy.
I totally agree and would raise 5 boys to one girl any day.  Of course they are by nature more distructive over the yrs. Broken lamp due to football, a couple of broken windows including the neighbors, railing to the basement, broken screen doors, broken screens, too many to count and so on. Yet its all good since my mental health is in tact...who cares. lol...

Work 8-10 hrs a day

Try to figure out when you will have some time for hobby

Call a provider whom you have researched and wanting to see, no answer, leave a message.

No call back, get impatient

Call someone else, get her on the phone, they tell you they don't take same day appointments, oops, you don't when you get some free time

Call someone else, no answer

Call someone else, they tell you they are booked

Time runs out.

Off to wondering when you will be able to get some free time

Some of us travel, some of us are in jobs where unknown crisis is normal (techies).

And the story goes on!

Sophie, after reading your schedule, heck I would pay for your services and just watch you sleep during our session...cause you deserve a NAP!!Hang in there sweetie!!

I wouldn't swap both boys for one girl, let alone two!

Girls are definitely more maintenance and cost a lot more than boys. I was raised being the only girl with 3 older brothers. I would venture to say that I cost my parents more heartache and money than all 3 boys put together! I look back and wonder how my parents ever put up with me, I was a total spoiled brat. I refused to wear anything that wasn't high-end and demanded a brand new sportscar when I turned 16. I remember my dad instead bought me a 1962 Chevy Nova, the car was in mint condition. Under no circumstances would I drive that car or even sit in the passenger seat. I claimed that it was a grandmas car and that I'd rather walk verses putting one foot in that car! Needless to say, within a week I had a new Mustang sitting in the driveway. Damn I wish I had that 62 Chevy Nova right now! LOL

I can tell you, I still haven't changed. I'm still that same girl that has to have high-end and the best of the best. The only difference is that I have to pay for those things myself...well, unless daddy buys it for me.

With that being said, I count my blessings that I had boys verses girls. I don't think I could afford 2 girls plus me!

Thanks Alex....very interesting!..I've learned alot by posting the ? that i did!...Thanks ladies!

wake up at 8. Get the bfs lunch ready, grab the dog, take her for a walk, then get in the car, head to coffee shop for work for a few hours. Head back home, walk dog again, take a much needed nap, then prepare dinner.  Talk to my mother on the phone for wayyyy to long. Eat, watch some six feet under, walk the dog, Again! Get some tea ready for bed. Then passout hardcore.

For a day that I have a client, I do pretty much the same, except no coffee shop. I like to only see one client per day. I feel it makes the expierence more personable. I know I'm pretty boring, or maybe I love my dog to much haha.

But my weekly fun for myself, is checking out a good local show/band in my local city. Life is good

wake up at 8. Get the bfs lunch ready, grab the dog, take her for a walk, then get in the car, head to coffee shop for work for a few hours. Head back home, walk dog again, take a much needed nap, then prepare dinner.  Talk to my mother on the phone for wayyyy to long. Eat, watch some six feet under, walk the dog, Again! Get some tea ready for bed. Then passout hardcore.

For a day that I have a client, I do pretty much the same, except no coffee shop. I like to only see one client per day. I feel it makes the expierence more personable. I know I'm pretty boring, or maybe I love my dog to much haha.

But my weekly fun for myself, is checking out a good local show/band in my local city. Life is good

I have a great life as an independent designer, married to a wonderful wife. She is the most giving women I have ever met, however there are places sexually she will not go. So when business takes me to other parts of the country, ir gives me the chance to experience what it is like to make love to a different woman. Seldom as special as with my wife, however there have been some wonderful women that I will remember in my mind for the rest of my life, either for their ability to fuck, or for their beauty, or for their brains, or for their kindness.

Well when the hobbyists actually show up (or at least have the courtesy to call if they can't make it...  which most don't.), I tend to see 2 - 3 a day, some times as many as 5 on a busy day.  I am kept very busy, and have been thinking of making a set day off for myself.  This is what I do full time, and even at my prices it pays REALLY good!  I have set hours, which allows me to take care of things outside the business life.  Though like anyone, when someone makes it worth my while, my availability alters...  And it also depends on if I am in a bind financially at the time.

Breakfast for my two children, to school with them, to my office job, errands on my lunch break, after school activities, go to incall location = 4/6 clients a week, home to check homework, put my children to bed. Looong bath and to bed.

Absolutely busy normal life.

Raquel

Hmmmm....typical day....I wake up at 7 AM, make breakfast, get my daughter ready for school, drop her off at 8:30, get back home, shower, take 1-3 appts, in between time, I clean my house, shower, get things ready for dinner, pick my daughter up at 5, make dinner, give her a bath, get ready for bed, and I'm up at 7AM the next morning!