yes there is, its called patronizing a prostitute. Its what all "hobbyists" or Johns are charged with. I dont have a problem being called a "John", thats what I am. No PC BS here.
Many guys here post and whine...Too much particiapation on the boards from White knights, HOES, Bitches...whatever you choose.
So let me get this straight.
The TER was originally intended to help you JOHNs from getting robbed by pimpes,played by bitches and all out beat up by the game.
Then it became a forum from a community that if it hits the light of day. Most would frown on you. So here you can hide in the shaddows. Give yourself a new name,and a new idenity.
You can either pick up hookers or have a lovely evening f@#king the hottest woman with no bitch at your door in the middle of the night asking Where have you been?
I remember why many girls years ago refused to have reviews. Many guys who were not very nice or gentlemanly wrote really rotten stuff.
I am not exspecting a white knight to save me. I do not, nor did I ever need Capt. Save A HOE!
But in the light of how bitchy guys are becoming. You may not wish to see 90 % of the ladie here. YOU FEEL ARE UGLIER THEN WHAT YOU CAN GET IN THE CIVVIE BAR.
Then by all means. Go to the bar! pick up you perfect 10 and deal with the BS drama that will occur is you f@#k her.
Yes you boys are right. We are here to f@#. So if you want it to be just a transaction... Be prepared the road you travel...
The road goes both ways.if you want your GFE PSE dates to go out the window... The girls can make sure you get what you want. A business transaction.. After all the guys said it loud and very clear. Johns and Tricks looking for HOES!!! It is just a business transaction...
Right?
I think you heard the little boys say these things. The men however appreciate all that the providers have to offer
what are you talking about? I can pick up the phone right now.
And meet a 9 or 10 young hot and passionate girl who will fuck the shit out of me.
Then go home to my lovely wife and beautiful home.
I pay for that get it? Its not a date.
Yes George...do believe that most pros do not want A relationaship and wash your undies...
But as We would rathwer f@#k the life out of you till you can't walk to your car.
And when you lay in bed tonight with your wifey in your home with your kids...
All the days work issues are behind you. And all you can remember is creaming up a hot young chick and pumping her hard.... Job well done...
that service deserves respect..not critisism.
My god. I need help.
Yea dude you can get sooooo many hot girls yet you play on ter all day and have 26 reviews LOL. Save it!
I was saying I call hot ESCORTS you knuckle head. (In reply to the OP's comments) And I don't review most of the escorts I see because it is redundant. I review ones that I think others might enjoy or want to gain knowledge. I happen to pay a lot for sex... so what? I don't want an affair and this is the easiest way.
And was I talking to you? Tommy? Your in denial if you think just because you have 8 reviews and I have 26 you are somehow better than me? Why does that even matter? I am not even sure if that is an insult to me. Go back to your cubicle and start typing some BS paperwork to satisfy your boss you troll.
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Tits above in case you can't afford anymore pussy you pussy!
1) Be respectful of others.
2) Try to not find fault with every woman, but instead fine what is good about her
3) Be truthful when reviewing, but be do not be mean
4) Women are just fine without is. They do not need us when we are there, only our money
5) If you do not think that thr women you can "pay for" are as beautiful as the civie women you can successfully pick up in a bar, then by all means, please partake in those beautiful civie women, and all their issues.
6) But the bottom line, is that it is a business transaction. The men pay for some time and entertainment, and then when it is over, the two parties part ways.
I agree with everything you wrote, BTW.
But then again luv women....of course...And guess what...All the dissrespecful women basheras will call you a Fricking White Knight!!!~
I was trying to make sense of it all. It's tough when pretty much every sentence has something misspelled.
Right, it IS just a business transaction and nothing else!
I could care less about GFE, DFK, BBBJ or conversation for that matter. I am there to put it in, get off and get out and that's it, she can go on to the next customer.
Sometimes honesty hurts but people always cry that they want honesty then when they get it they cant handle it.
Now having said what I said I will also state that there is no reason to be mean, abusive or rude with or towards a provider. Whether it be in person or in a review that you are writing, unless of course the session was that bad. And in that case there are other ways to get your point across about the session.
There seems to be two kind of hobbyists and two kind of providers so why is there an issue?
If your the kind of guy that wants to just walk in spread her legs f@#k her then leave go to Cl and grab a hoe.
If your a gentleman who appreciates the finer things in life and enjoys The total GFE situation then you need to read reviews as well as read what she has to say in the discussion boards and chose a lady that will make your time a wonderful exsperiance.
personally I pity the f#$k and run guys for they know not what they are missing
I know exactly what I am missing. I am missing hearing a provider tell me about herself, I don't care. I am missing her tell me about her children or about what she likes and doesn't like, again I don't care. If I want all that I'll get into a relationship where my gf and I can share all this and I actually care. GFE is all bs to me because no matter what they name they give it, it is all the same thing. I know this hurts to admit it but whether a person calls herself a provider or an escort or whatever, it is all the same thing, prostitution and that's what LE would/will charge you with if/when your caught. There is no fancy charge for providers or escorts.
yes there is, its called patronizing a prostitute. Its what all "hobbyists" or Johns are charged with. I dont have a problem being called a "John", thats what I am. No PC BS here.
it's nice to have a younger and quicker guy.
. Nothing wrong with hit and run quickies for a discount.
it's a matter of personal choice.
You guys want to set the prices and what is included.
You think you can make us conform to your standards like the FDA for prostitutes.LMAO!!!
It seems there are several gents or maybe ladies on the DC Board who do not appreciate larger and/or mature providers. That's okay with me, because I don't appreciate ill mannered little boys and/or girls either. They are posting using aliases, so I have no idea if they are male or female. It doesn't really matter.
nochildrenallowed, I would love to copy and paste your post and put it on the DC Board as a response to the DC Thread. I have attached a direct link to it.
I try not to let the rude posts anger me. I know what I have to offer. Fortunately there are many gentleman out there who truly enjoy being with me. So, the rude comments from these idiots does make me a bit angry but mostly I just laugh it off. I appreciated your rant though! Sometimes you just gotta!
Every lady is beautiful in her own way.
I'm not gonna read the linked post, but it is great that you realize their posts are meaningless. And the best revenge against those posters is to FORGET their post! Ha!!
two human beings. I just hope it doesn't feel like a business transaction.
You can’t keep all of the people happy all of the time.
If you want to keep this at the Hooker and John level, that’s your right.
If you want to keep this at the Wham Bam Thank you Ma’am level that is your right.
It’s your right to question how one person views another person’s appearance.
It’s your right to malign and question the likes and dislikes of others.
HOWEVER…
It is also the right of those who choose to do so to look for a little MORE than that.
To put a little more into it and get more out of it that way.
To treat and be treated with respect.
To have some fun outside of that 15, 30, 60 120 minutes you share with another human being.
It’s also your right that if you don’t like something to move on and let those who do like it participate.
Ultimately, for me, it’s not just about paying to get my rocks off, and that’s my right to feel that way, and say it.
C_K
says there is no God, I think you said my sentiments extraordinarily.
Very well stated. I guess there's just a huge difference between disagreeing, and being disagreeable.
This is the type of business transaction I am looking for... even if he walks through the door with a "hooker/John" attitude, I guarantee you when he lives he will be wondering "what the hell just happen?" I provide the "better than" girlfriend experience whether it's expected or not...
and whatever that might be is something kept between me and the provider.
Not if you review her it isn't kept between you and her...unless your reviews are NOT about the sex.
Thats why I have only 3 reviews.
Well what you did with those three is public record. Kind of squishes your original statement.
Those reviews are for TER , what I paid for is still very private.
why are you saying it? Of course, each one has a right to post their opinions, expect some type of response (good and bad), and as long as they follow TER's rules, know their post will get in.
Just as Baskin Robbins has a wide variety of flavors, so does hobbying ... and on both sides of the envelope. Some like the CL quickie, some like the GFE, and some like the PSE, and some even like a combination of all of them at different times and with different ladies. So what? Those who, as you say, bitch and whine are doing so of their own choice, get responses commensurate with the post, and it's forgotten in a day or so.
There's a bit of generalization in your post, which I feel may be unfair. While many (and I don't know what you feel is many) do express disappointment with a lady or discuss a bad experience, that's what we're here for, isn't it? To learn from each other, to share info, and to gain experience from the long-time, established posters, male and female.
I only see UTR ladies, who don't want reviews, and I enjoy the dinners, the shows, the fun we have outside of the bedroom as well as inside ... but that's me. Why should I be critical of the guy who wants his in and out in a hurry, or even take the time to care. That's his right.
While I understand what you mean, I also feel that announcing the obvious seems a bit silly. The men will search out what they enjoy, the ladies will offer what they feel is comfortable for them, and they will meet in the middle if both sides agree. Yes, it's a business transaction, but personally, I never look at it that way.
There is more to the hobby than just being in bed ... hopefully, those who wish that type of environment will continue to find it, and those who want a quickie, wham bam, will find that too. To each his own ... male and female.
Interesting...my last post just disappeared mysteriously...hmmmmmm. Well let's see if this one sticks. What I said before was, after reading this and the post up ahead about how having the ladies on here that don't suck ass is an issue, I am starting a discussion board for providers to chit chat about their clients in a public forum. It will be up to them if they use your board name or just "john". But I can tell you this crap has gotten on my last nerve.
The ladies will be able to say whatever they like about whomever they like and aliases are more than welcome. That way they can vent and "you" can wonder if it's "you" they are talking about. No more hiding behind POB...this is not to review but to chat openly on a place where they are welcome...and don't feel the need to censor their feeling for fear of killing business.
I love an even playing field..don't you?
I have met so many wonderful ladies through my research and lurking on TER. They have a very difficult profession, and I admire and am amazed that they can maintain such a positive outook and continue to perform at such a consistently high level.
Famke, you seem to have a hatred of the men who see providers, but I wish you the best on your new board. It's a sad fact of life that usually, the customer who's paying for a premium service is the one who receives the better treatment in a customer/professonal services relationship. The best providers understand this and treat their customers like kings and reap the rewards.
Good luck with your vent board, and for other ladies, I hope you also continue to post here. The complaints are coming from a vocal minority. Most of the guys are very interested in what the ladies have to say.
Interesting interpretation you have of my view on men who see providers. I propose a public discussion board where the ladies have the same opportunity as the guys to chat and I get called a hater. Well then, you must feel the very same about the men who participate on this and every other public board where escorts are talked about.
Reviews are for performance and such but it now seems that the general discussion board is the place to let it all hang out.
I have always thought you men to be so thin skinned when it comes to equality....even in speech. Funny but you seemed to think that all the board would be for was to act like some of you on here. No...it was for as I said anything the ladies have to say...good or bad. The only thing is that it would be completely public.
And for the lower poster the "Escort Only" board is not a discussion board per se...it's to warn others of potential threats, threats, LE etc.
Customers will get the same treatment as I get....mutual respect and compassion. It seems to me that you and others deem a provider one of the "best" if she extends more and more each time...and you have the upper hand in so far as you can review her if she realizes that maybe, just maybe she is beginning to be taken advantage of.
Be a provider for a month and see some of the personalities on this board and then realize that you are under a microscope and if don't perform above and beyond to please every whim, you will be reviewed.
So what have I learned from telling it like it is...nothing new. I guess the term
mouthy provider" fits me well...and I will wear it well. And the old stand-by..."you must hate men who see providers". That's funny. I love the men who see me. Not so much love for those on here who want to wring the very last drop out of a lady and then ask for more.
And the board will be for those ladies who want to say something nice and fell that they are coo cooing, as well as letting off a little steam...just like you boys do.
Your leaps of illogic are amazing. Nothing in my post indicated that I believe the best providers extend extra time. The best providers are the ones who deliver consistently great sessions that leave their customers knees buckling and puts a smile on their faces.
If a session goes over, I think a lady should be compensated. I'm well aware that although they might make me feel like a king, this is a business. If we go over time with me, they will be tipped/compensated accordingly. If they deliver a good session within the time limit, they will still be tipped.
My post contained nothing but praise for the providers I've seen and the difficult job that they do. My impression of you is based on reading your posts for months. We do share the same opinions on many things, but comments seem to be laced with venom towards the men on the board.
Venom no, disdain yes...for a certain few. I find them mean spirited, and at times cruel and they use this board to be hateful under the guise of a "hooker review" board. And in the last few months you might also have seen some of the rudest and disparaging post here.
I have my say and get called bitter, a hater, and now comments laced with venom. Call me all the names you want...it will not stop me from telling like I see it...just as the men seem to do. I'm certainly not put off and can give as good as I get. Bring it!
I agree that there have been plenty of mean and cruel things said by a few men. Their comments are meant to hurt and belittle.
Is it wrong to want to get your feet up in my stirrups madame? A solid pumping is my prescription. Would you like regular or premium?
Homina Homina Homina
I'll pass but thank you for your most generous offer.
Ok I see what's happening...interesting that others can use profanity but not I.
Ladies...look out for a new discussion board for providers to chit chat amongst yourselves about your work day. Aliases encouraged so you won't feel restricted in your feelings. That way no one can take you the wrong way and get upset.
Of course men are allowed but guys, this will predominately be a public provider discussion board.
This way we won't mess up your "man board" and you can feel free to be as expressive as your little hearts desire.
This was meant for guys on the boards that have posted reguarding women...Men have never met particular ladies...On a board saying mean and spiteful things. If you are reading the sarcasim in this post... A few realy good men and the women got it...
If you sit here saying that you do not want women to participte IN YOUR MAN ONLY CLUB...
I mean board.
Try doing this hobby without them....
The guys whom have taken the stance here on the General board that we are just to f@#k and shut the hell up after all We are getting paid...
You have no respect for the women here providing a service...
And if she is fabulous...You will not remember after the envelope...it is a service...
Yes you are right you have the right to say as you wish since We post ads on the net...We are fair game in your eyes.
But then What is the difference if some guys think that the dead Presidents changes how you think of women in general???
The attitude of The chicks are just hookers and they are getting paid attitude...is old...
And you can go by a alias and say the most deplorable things to women...If you do not see those type of chicks.I don't care weather its big tall,fat,skinny,old,young, new in the biz or longtime Vet... This biz is shady and corrupt enough. Stop the extra BS...
We have other issues to deal with. And much more fun can be had by all.
I always wondered what happened on the provider only forum here.
No it is not. That area is for passing on info about clients that are dangerous, rip offs etc. A discussion board is a place to discuss things pertaining to ones profession...publicly. Not unlike what you have here.
Don't you have a male only board where you can curse and downgrade woman all you want? You guys seem to think it OK to bring it out in public where the ladies can read it.
Why would the GFE/PSE go out the window if we acknowledge what we should ALL already know. That this is a site where business transactions of an intimate nature are conducted
This is not Eharmony!
Of course we should treat each other with consideration and respect, but we don't need to be here forming deep, lasing relationships either. Thats what dating is for
I concur completely. And why is it that there are but two factions...gfe/pse or 3g's. Is there not a gray area where the two mix?
Damn girl I like the way you think! Send me a pm so we can hook up. For the most part you are right. Most of these guys are just poor saps who could not even get a 7 in real life and then want to put down hard working women like yourselves.
Think it makes them feel more like men if they "think" that your business is dependent on them alone. I have given one bad review and it did not affect the girl's business whatsoever. I was also not a dick, but simply honest. I am more forgiving on looks than a bad attitude, but I do like your spunk.
CALL ME!! I bet you would be an outstanding ride!