I mean I just do not hate it I loath it and if I see it pop up in a girls review or especially in her AD I just stop looking at her. Some of you guys seem to think this is a good thing because you are receiving some sort of special treatment from a girl which I could more understand if she is someone you have been with more than once but in general I do not think this is a trait that would be consistent with what I would consider a top end girl no matter what her status is on TER. I mean if we put the same thing out for their donation why should we not expect to receive the same kind of treatment as others before us as long as we show up clean and in a respectful and good mood?
 Really, if I have to look like Ryan Goslings twin brother to receive a providers full attention then I along with so many others on this board are in for a disappointing time and in reality have just picked the wrong provider to spend our time and hard earned bank on! In my mind the very best providers are consistent and or at least honest when they meet you so that if they should go "yuck" or something after meeting they should say to you, well with you I can only give half of my best today and discount you accordingly or just send us away and for me I would rather be disappointed that way than to be made to feel as if I am no more than someones ATM. Ok, I know that I am but hopefully you get my drift?
 I know we all have bad days sometimes and I have been with some girls who have told me as such but the are so good and professional at what they do it did not effect our time together and again makes them the best in my eyes and not someone who you have to catch in a good mood.
 Your thoughts?

I can understand why you might not like  the fact that some ladies are YMMV in the first place, but it sounds like your anger is misplaced if you hate the term itself.

Of course with the attitude you seem to have, its' no wonder that some of the ladies aren't as eager to be with you as they are with someone who isn't a "you took my money, now you have to do everything I want you to do" type of guy. I might be an asshole on the board, but I discovered a long time ago that guys who think their money entitles them to carte blanche with a woman, usually don't get the same kind of treatment as a man who treats a hooker as a human being, even if we do call them hookers. lol

I'm kind of indifferent on this as I have received some extras and services not available to all clients. On the other hand, I have seen ladies who offered some "YMMV" to other guys but not me. When I receive anything that the provider does not want to advertise I don't even put it in the review.

As it is really hard when writing out these things to truly convey ones thoughts and emotions and well you sometimes just come off so wrong. My attitude towards the many wonderful providers i have had the pleasure of being with is very positive and I do not want or expect from one girl to the next for our time together to be the same and in reality it is always the girl who decides on what our time together should be like not me.
 But Comon Man why should I be treated so much differently than the guy before me if again I am being very respectful and polite with someone I am seeing which I always strive to do!

I did, and she was fabulous LOL!

Which is you seem to be mad at the term and those who use it rather than the behavior itself.  Wouldn't you rather be forewarned in a review that you might not get the same treatment BEFORE you go see a provider than have it come as a surprise because the guys before you didn't want to mention it?

I use the term all time.  I think it's funny.

The term is odd but at least it makes the point.  The practice is natural.  There are lots of guys who come to a date with poor hygiene, or poor behavior.  They aren't going to get the same service as someone who's clean and well behaved.  I know a gal who absolutely loves to rim.  But if you don't take a "quick rinse" beforehand you're not going to get it.  This is true across the spectrum of service.  Also, after you've seen a gal for a while and she likes you, you may get extras.  One does not write about such things in a review because otherwise every bozo expects them and is disappointed if he doesn't get them.  Back channel is your friend.

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Providers are not Big Mac's at McDonalds, or as such being subject to uniformity from Kennebunkport Main to San Diego California.

I can make those kind of choices in the Civie World but in the provider world if I did so I would consider myself a poor provider!
 Also I in no way look at the girls I see as Hamburger Meat! Objects of my desire yes

In absolutely every encounter your mileage can and does vary because no two human beings could ever react to one another in exactly the same way as they do with other humans.  There is a huge chemistry component that simply will not come across in pictures, pre-date emails or texts.  Just like a nice long drive, you won't know what your mileage was until the end of the trip. There's also other  factors like your mood, her mood, what you ate for breakfast or dinner the night before, how work/school went that week.

Yes, I agree and get that all of us are just human and have something special about us individually. I believe I addressed that in my post. But doctors are human also and how would you like it on the day of your big bypass surgery he or she comes to the table and says sorry bro I am having a really bad day and on top of that you really seem like a dick so I am only going to perform half as well for you as I just did for my last patient. In your view that would be very acceptable I guess after all the Dr. is just human.

Well said. Perfect.  

Dude, I don't think you can equate blowjobs with life-saving surgeries.

Dude if you are equating heart surgery with fucking, then maybe theres a deeper issue here.  Sure, if a provider is really sick, I think she should cancel instead of sneezing all over you as you come.  But really, heart surgery?  I suppose if the doc screws the pooch on you, you could sue him.  I would love to see a lawsuit based on "too much teeth."

Err..she. Ok, you might have good reason to differ with that statement  once you get the bill for the charges your insurance company won't pay.

Younger than me, too.  So this makes me wonder, when she checks my prostate does that make her a provider?  If so, I'll go elsewhere for a prostate massage.  Not a turn on.

But. Anal is anal. Let's not sugar-coat this....lol...

I've had a prostate massage from a few experienced providers.  And a prostate exam from a female physician.  The former was not much of a turn-on.  The latter was even less pleasurable, but at least I learned that my prostate was "smooth and healthy."  And, in case you care, my PSA was great!

don’t get emotionally involved and emotions rule you. Not just in this hobby but in every aspect of your life.

What the hell does that mean anyhow...............and btw who gives a flying tomato if someone looks like ryan gosling.................we are sex providers and as long as you are clean and nice no one really cares what you look like.

That explains a lot! LOL!

and as a figure of speech, it means that the reviewer got some form of sexual pleasure from the gal that she does not make available to everyone.

A good example is greek where a gal might want to check out the guy's penis size before offering same.

Swallowing, COF, and similar kinky practices are also involved in YMMV.

I get your point, but I think you mean more of a respect thing, vs. an acronymn fest...at least, that's what I extrapolated from your post. I am going to treat EVERY friend I meet with the same courtesy in regards to my promptness, professionalism, cleanliness, incall choice, food preparation, etc. but if you're big below (over 6 and even some at six are big to me) then no, you are not going to be able to do what the guy with 4 inches and little girth was able to do with me...I let all men know this upfront, and in more than one way.  

Hey big mouth,  how many inches can your mouth take?

I should have you write my posts for me London, obviously I come off way wrong