Hi, do you think it is a good idea to have my first sex experience in an escort service? you know, I'm a very introvert guy and because of my studies and job I didn't have much time to flirt with girls and socialize. So, I'm traveling to Amsterdam and I was thinking of having my first experience in a premium escort service with a nice girl. Any recommendations?

Since most guys don't end up marrying their first (actually I can't swear that is true) it really doesn't seem to matter much who is their first.  
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Escorts don't have magic that makes their sex better than civie sex, so it is not like you'll get spoiled.  I think the only thing escort sex really offers is ready availability and novelty.  
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Personally, I would have started much younger with escorts had I realized the benefits.  

My wife and I arranged for both of our son's "first" with carefully selected escorts personally known. Arranged overnights so that the experience was more than that first hasty, anxious cum.

Watch this movie.  

Unless you are a super emotional kind who is misty eyed about losing his virginity.

I'm sure you will have a better time than I did at a party at my parents place when I was 14.  Lost it to one of my older sister's friends who told me that she wanted to "De-Flower" me! HA HA HA....  Even funnier when my sister found out she got pissed at me instead of her friend.  Picked a real romantic place, our boat house.  Nothing like the smell of fish & lobster pots to enhance the mood.  

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I disagree with the others,  when I lost my virginity, it was with my first love and to me it’s no comparison, to actually make love, which includes bbfs, was the best experience I ever had, in my honest opinion, you don’t want to lose your virginity to a hooker who don’t care about you!!

I would not bet on you having a long experience.  I remember my first and second time having sex and with the same girl.  

If you don't do it,
it might never happen.
yeah and be prepared for a life of hobbying.  
At least it sounds like you're doing good and will get the good stuff.  
I on the other hand, I got garbage for cheap  
and still.  
Nothing ever changes  
here comes another generation of degenerates

Forget all the experiences you've read about here.
Instead, just ask yourself whether you want to start your sex life in a totally artificial world. It's like playing a rigged game (speaking as someone who learned to love rigged games) instead of the real thing. Try playing without an "assist" first and allow the novelty--and likely emotional involvement of your civvy partner--to excite your senses and emotions.  
Without the resistance of the medium, there is no art.

sex with civies vs sex with working girls, you never know how it's going to end up, but with professionals you have a higher probability to actually get laid.    I recommend you start out with a hand job, work your way up the ladder from there.

From many stories and experiences recounted on TER and elsewhere you find ALL examples:
First Time with: Pro ...... Civvie
Regrets Yes: ........ a...............b  
Regrets No:  ........ c...............d
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You'll find ALL examples and the associated warnings:
a: "Went w/ a pro. Fun time. Regretted it years later."
b: "College GF. Terrible. Should have gone with a pro."
c: "Went w/ a pro. Fun time. Boosted my confidence and prepared me for real world. No regrets."
d: "College GF. Newbies. Grew together. No regrets."
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And lots of other scenarios:
b: "Boss's wife, in the stockroom. Got caught. Boss beat me to a pulp. Big regrets."
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Whatever you do, Try to stay in the no regrets zone. Regardless of Pro or Civvie, as time passes, you might look back and bounce back and forth from "That was a bad decision." to "That was a good decision." Whatever you choose to do, don't beat yourself up after the fact.
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Good luck!

I am thinking "no".
Lost my virginity to a 36 year old mom (this was right before American Pie, they were not yet called MILFS) and that was a nice experience. Have heard many many people said you should lose it to another virgin. That seems OK too.
But losing it to a hooker is maybe not great, emotionally. I dont really care but if you wanna have serious relationships with women from now on, I recommend you do everything you can to think of them as human beings with feels and thoughts and souls.  
Not watching porn is a great start. And avoid mainstream movies that make them into objects, i.e. most of the testosterone fueled action flicks of the 80's and 90's. Go out and spend time with women, get familiar with their attitudes and talking styles. Start treating them like people. Escorts are fine because neither of you should have any misunderstanding about the nature of your relationship. But keep in mind its a business arrangement and nothing else. The women you go out and meet will not be so accommodating.

Either way you go, count on it being a quick experience.

If I scored my first hockey goal because I took the time to learn, worked hard and got help from my team, it's going to feel different--likely forever--than a goal where I paid the goalie to look the other way.  A goal is a goal?  Maybe. Maybe not.

Beginners start out shooting into open nets. You work your way up to more challenging situations.  

In a gang bang.. a train.. freshman year of college.. I'm still wistful.. lol

I recommend that you hit one of the FKKs in Germany instead.  Golden Time is not too far from Dusseldorf and a couple of hours drive from Amsterdam. Rent a car and drive there (you know how to drive stick shift, right?)

When your teammates are becoming All State selections, getting college hockey scholarships, or going off to play in the AHL, ECHL or other minor league but you are lucky to get one shift per game, it's unlikely that you'll ever score a goal against decent competition. (Translation: Some guys got game and get the girls. Other guys -- many young guys, hockey or no hockey -- have trouble getting girls on their own.)  
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Last game of the season, playoff rankings are already determined, the game is a rout, your pals and coaches put you in and help to get you a goal. You know it's not the real thing, you know the opposing goalie made it easy for you, you know you're not the MVP, but it's fun, it's memorable, and it feels really good. (Translation: Getting some helpful cooperation to score a "goal" with a pretty girl can still be an enjoyable experience.)

That does not exist.
I even feel sorrier for females that are checked for it  
and punished or killed.
Everything is so stupid and invented just like all these holidays.
That can be very harmless if you forget their initial beginnings.
Now it's all about spending, drinking and eating.  
Don't worry about stuff like this. Nobody worried about me and I could still be waiting for the "special someone". No one cares what you do or not. I wish we're neighbors and I would take you to the cheapest whires.