as there a need to call her a bitch for not wanting to see a certain faction of guy?

But you are pretty much the textbook definition of a "professional hobbyist."

There's always the option of deleting old okays from p411 so that you appear far less of a " professional " monger.  

The ladies must sense that attitude through the initial email exchange and reading the guy's reviews. I suspect that this type of guy definitely has reviews which display his character for all to see.

Actually I am not surprised, the ones reacting so badly are possibly the ones this lady is referring to.

And then there are hobbyists who are well mannered and treat women well

And I rarely write reviews unless the girl asks me specifically. I don't even mention reviews.  Using it as a weapon is just a low blow imo

Been hobbying for several years now but I don't think I have much if any of that stereotypical professional hobbyist attitude. After all,  I just want some good head and a good fcking time,  no drama.  lol

Come to think of it,  
I think I would really like me too if I was a provider cuz I'm so laid back and just trying to have fun.  

I get what the above description is and I've had a few. They watch the clock to make sure abcdANDe happens in the allotted time. Or after what for them was a great session they give you a look and say things like "little lady I'm gonna do you a favor and write you a great review…now you may not know who I am but if I give a girl a good review she will undoubtedly have a fantastic career". I'm thinking  
A)My booker already informed me of your weight on the boards. Can't play a player.
B)Career????????????????????

Recently though I feel I've met a real pro hobbyist. He emailed with all the necessary screening info along with a short bio/description. He was intelligent and polite, booked a few hours as well so I thought he really needed to be loved on, needed to feel comfortably and wanted a real gf experience, like the kind where we cuddle afterwards and share some stories like about how he got that scar on his knee or…whatever.

When he arrived he had wine and the donation in a sweet card and cupcakes and bath goodies. He had never written a single review but had referrals for weeks. During screening the ladies who usually yay/nay it mentioned that he was a great tipper but damn…talk about generous.  

I should have fuckin known something was up. Some guys give gifts as a preemptive apology. What followed was sexual mayhem. He didn't cross any lines but he tap danced on all the lines. I'm curious and when someone comes along and I can immediately sense I'm the student I'm up for the challenge.

Curiosity beat the cat upside it's head with a baseball bat.

When he was gone I ran a bath with the muscle soothing bath salts he gave me (the fact he knew I would need them…so calculating). While soaking I replayed everything from the first email to the very moment he left. I knew three things for sure.

1) He was a fucking pro and at no point even when screening and setting up the date and feeling him out was I in control. He knew exactly how to counter balance all the freaky shit he was about to do with seemingly docile and sweet generosity.
2)I would never hear from him again. (maybe that's what the other ladies were hinting at. He tips like crazy…hang in there).
3)I should probably go get an ice pack or two.

Stealthy...

Watch out for Nats this year.. We are rocking and rolling.. Have you seen the starting rotation? Damn....  

Strasburg
Zimmermann
Gonzalez
Fister
Detwiller/Jordan

And in other news now Strasburg has another pitch in his repertoire as he has mastered the slider.... So watch out.

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describe it, I think its a good thing. My name is Curly. I am a Nats fan and a Professional Hobbyist..

But again, someone else will come and provide their own definition. We would definitely need more than two hookers' opinions to standardize the definition for sure...