What is everyone's view on tipping for escort or massage?
I've ever received from a hobbyist, was a thank you note.
I'd gone into the restroom to freshen up, and when I came out, he was writing on a small piece of paper. He finished writing, folded the paper in half, and handed it to me. I began to open the note, but he asked me to wait until I'd left the room...so, I did. His message was heartfelt, and the gesture was thoughtful and sincere, making it...my best tip, ever!
This reminds me of something. I found myself with a last minute cancellation, and reached out to someone new. She agreed to see me due to having a common friend. But I could tell that the whole thing made her nervous. Anyway she ended up dropping by for a great session. I told her in advance to use valet parking since it would be more comfortable for her. I threw a measly $5 in the envelope to pay for the valet charge. I didn't tell her but I woke up the next morning I had a string of e mails from her, with the first one being a huge THANK YOU for that gesture which I thought was trivial. Funny how the smallest things make a difference some times.
But when I do "tip" (an escort), I just put extra in the envelope. With a masseuse, I might tip if the massage was above and beyond, the happy ending, no matter how wonderful, seldom gets a tip.
The problem with tipping a GFE escort is this: We agree to SHARE sensual and sexual pleasure. If it's good, it's good; if it's bad, it's bad. End of story. If it's really, really, really tremendous, then lucky US. Not how good of her to treat me so well.
If I pay her car fare or parking fee, that's different. That's me being a nice guy. It depends on where and when.
Apparently, because providers see themselves as "shop-owner" professionals, and not as wage earners, most of them take offense if a man tips on top of the donation. So...maybe...if the service wasn't up to snuff or if she wasn't the hottie you thought she'd be, leaving a tip might a polite insult just to offend her a little bit. Just thinking on the keyboard.
Once in awhile if I see a provider with a rate that is crazy low and she performs like a provider with rates that are way more, I will tip. However this rarely happens.
Posted By: Escort55
What is everyone's view on tipping for escort or massage?
When I started doing this (still am a newbie), I tipped. After listening to the voices of reason here, I changed my policy. I don't tip independents. I may see an agency provider soon. If she's good, I'll give her a tip.
One reason I changed my behavior was that, as my repeat providers' rates went up, I was never told that I was grandfathered in. So, what I gave before that included a tip is what I give now just for straight rate. I won't extend the courtesy of tipping if I'm not extended the courtesy of grandfathering. It's a wash, though, as the dollar amounts are the same.
Looks like I'm in the minority here. I usually leave something at the end of an outcall to help pay for the room charges. I put it in a generic greeting card and write short message in it. I can't remember what I do at an incall, I've been away from the action for a while.
In tipping. When I'm at a restaurant or a bar I tip for receiving their services this should be no different unless the provider isn't doing their.job. Tipping gets you better treatment from any escort as well though
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