why can't we have reviews for the a## hole that write a review on us? that is why i like the older gentleman. if they don't have anything good to say about anyone then they do keep there mouth shut.sorry young guys i don't mean all of u. i just have a promble with the guys who say things on a review. yes i am MAD.this guy was ugly as s###. i have never had a bad review and i guess i can't handle it. oh well. thanks for all the nice ones. and they are my pictures. most guys say i'm better looking then my pictures. and if any of u that has seen me want to come to my rescue that will be fine. i guess i have to learn to handle it. i just want to get that off my chest... thanks

One bad review does not mean anything. If your a real caring person.......guys will want to be with you!

So, please don't worry about one bad review. My ATF had one bad review when I was looking on TER about meeting someone. It didn't keep me from seeing her. It was all the reviews and all the info that help make my choice!

Just me,
1dogg12

I generally look at what the majority of clients say about a particular provider. One good or one bad review is not enough either way.

if they don't have anything good to say about anyone then they do keep there mouth shut. - Kind of defeats the whole purpose of this site.  This is The Erotic REVIEW, not The Erotic FREE ADVERTISING aka TBD.  Having a profile on this site may be of great benefit to you, but it is intended primarily for us, your clients.

I read the review, and the guy in question sounds like an immature, confused person. Apparently he wasn't happy with her appearance, but yet he chose to still stay and partake in the activities. Can someone please tell me what is wrong with this picture??????

Sweetie, (see thread above!) just take a deep breath!  I didn't look it up, but you seem to say you have other reviews - just take it all in context.  You can't please everybody.. bla bla bla.  All those sayings!  I've dealt with those who say I'm "not a looker" - and they were ugly as sin - people who've complained about my housekeeping skills, my dogs barking, my nose ring, like they just HAD to come up with something negative - a guy who went on and on about how great "mature" "older women" like me were - and he was at least 25 years older than me.  They do it because it makes them feel important to point the finger and judge someone else - that way they don't have to look in the mirror.  One day we'll write our memoirs and then all these guys will get just what they deserve - deal?  lol

-Anya

FWIW, when I read reviews I read the lowest rated ones first because they appear to be anomolies. That gives me some context for reading the rest. If the other reviews are consistently better, I disregard the bad one.

There's nothing in your reviews that would keep me from looking you up next time I'm in the area.

yes i have been thinking about it and isn't it funny how he gave me a 8 i think it was.  he still paid me so i guess he is the dumb one. he couldn't handle that i got him off in 10 min. just with my mouth. lol. so thanks to everyone you'll made me feel better. i guess we can't please eveyone so be it. kisses sassy

Sassysinfullady:
  I'd like 2 find a provider who can get me off in 10 min!!

I ALWAYS ignore a low review, if there are many excellent ones.  It almost always a case of someone not meeting with the right person or just plain foolishness.  

I can't tell you how many times I have looked at reviews where the overwhelming number of people rated the lady as a 8-9 in looks and one person gave her a 6.  I click on the web site and just wonder what the hell he was looking at.

Keep your chin up.

If all you ever get are great reviews, you're not a provider but a politician. I am amazed that more quality providers don't have some terrible reviews. Think about it...anything can go wrong to set some jerk off (no pun here). False expectations and bad chemistry are just two. I'm beginning to hate reviews. Know young woman I saw many, many times. As she ages, starting to offer "things" she never did before so reviews stay good, relative to competition. This is unnecessary pressure to keep up. Women should be given 10s for what they do well and not 5s for what they don't do at all. Offering services just to stay in business can't make for very good sessions for the guys...the heart can't be in it.

I didn't read the review before my first post.  I just read it now though, and I don't see anything at all wrong with that review.  It did not come across as vindictive in any way.  How many times do I have to say it?  The reviews are not written for you to read.  They are written to disseminate information between men looking for accommodating women.  If you're feelings get hurt easily when reading less than flattering things about your appearance, then you shouldn't be reading your reviews.  That's like walking into the men's locker room and complaining about all the swinging dicks and hairy backs.

Why would a guy fuck a woman he didn't find attractive?  PUSSY!  It happens every day in every city all over the world.  We all want Claudia Schiffer, but most of us would do the nearest available pussy when we're horny.

"Just pussy, baby!" Al Davis
"That's one small stink for man.  One giant pussy for mankind." Neil Armstrong
"Give me pussy, or give me head." Patrick Henry
"You want me in that pussy!  You need me in that pussy!"  Jack Nicholson

Welcome to the locker room.

in the review it says my pictures are touched up and he said the smell. it isn't the looks part, i never said i was a model,and i don't try to be i'm just me and proud of it. he makes it sound like i am not the girl on the site and makes it sound like i am dirty. and for that i am mad.  i'm just a fun person who gets high off life and sex...and there to please me and the guy. thanks for the words on this..

I agree... the guy was just being honest.  I mean he gave her an 8 for performance and called her a sweet lady, but added he wouldn't go back. Why is he a juvenile? Because he wasn't impressed with her physical attributes and stated such??  He has a right to post his opinions... they're his opinions.

Why did he stay if he didn't like her looks?  We don't know.  Maybe he had set the envelope on the table when he walked in and she already took it and so he thought it rude to ask for it back.  Maybe because he was just so damned horny.  Maybe it was another reason... we don't know.

I've been told by many that if I don't like a post on the discussion boards then I shouldn't read it.  Well the same goes for reviews.  You're never gonna please everybody...

A wise man once said that if someone says something negative about you, don't squawk about it, live your life so that no one else believes them.  

get the hell on out of there, and keep your trap shut. Btw, most of us providers ARE TER MEMBERS. But that is not the point. The point is if you are going to hook up with a provider, and she is not your beauty queen, then why boo hoo about it later on? It's not our fault that you spent your money anyways, is it? Hell no. So why should we providers take the brunt of you boo hooing. I read her review and I am sorry but the guy sounds like a complete idiot! When I go somewhere, and if something is NOT to my liking, I will either refuse it all together or go for another item, that is comparable or better. I would recommend that you men show some spunk and learn how to walk out, than staying feeling sorry for yourselves. For after a while, there is only so much woe is me that can go around. Just remember a man who whines more than a woman is the BIGGEST turn off in itself..LOL

-- Modified on 1/15/2004 8:14:29 PM

Don't worry over some low life loser, who can't even put a sentence properly together. He complains, but yet played, stayed, so apparently, he must of been interested in something. A complete idiot to boo hoo about it later. Do I feel sorry for him, because he felt he missused his funds? Hell no.

This is a review board... Would you read Consumer Digest Reports if they never mentioned anything negative about the products they tested? What is the point of a client doing his "homework" if the only facts reported ever reported about a lady are the good ones and the negative facts were left out?  How is one to know about a potential rip-off or disappointing session if no one is allowed to mention it in their review??

The point I make is that perhaps his "boo hooing" helped another client to decide not to make an appointment with that particular provider.  The fact is, he did say nice things about her in addition to his negative comments.

To each their own and I'm sure that most of the clients who read reviews know to keep each in perspective.

...I've come to the conclusion that ladies probably shouldn't see clients over the age of 50 yrs. I have a lot of colleagues at work who are around 50 to 55 yrs. and they are going through what I call "old age syndrome"

They start exhibiting behaviour that apears strange to someone younger and invariably start driving you nuts after awhile. All the things you experience fall into that syndrome,unfortunately.

Extreme negativity about evrything. "The sky is falling" reaction to anything. Extreme cynicysm and also that generation has a high sense of guilt about visiting ladies,so naturally providers will be the ones they dump their guilt and shame onto.

When you see clients over the age of 50,unfortunately one runs into all that crap. Just smile,take the donation and don't let the door hit 'em in the a$$ on the way out.

BTW,like your site and the interracial content. Always love gals who like to do interracial

...my .02 cents