Have any of you providers ever accompany a guy to his high school class reunion? Or have any of you guys taken a provider to a reunion?
Would it even be good idea?
Would it even be good idea?
I'd never do it with someone "new"
But quite a lot I haven't done.
But of course we have no idea what YOU have or haven't done, except post these rather childish taunts.
Is there a tinge of jealousy I hear in your voice? Some might think you're developing a crush on me (YUCK!) since you only seem capable of following me around and posting after I do.
Carry on.
Since there have so far been 8 replies saying they have no problem with such things (most of them having done it) and 1 saying "bad idea", why do you have such a fixation with my voting in the majority? The same comment from the other 7 people doesn't seem to bother you, I wonder why? Actually I can guess, as most readers on here probably can.
Usually you and your clones are all concerned I'm off on my own little world and complain about that. So now it seems you really don't care whether I have a minority opinion or a majority one (wow, I NEVER realized that before!), you just enjoy your pre-pubescent fun to hide behind an alias, stick out your tongue and make childish comments with nothing to contribute to the discussion. Good for you, I'm glad it amuses you. Some day you may grow up enough to provide a sentient answer or a well thought out comment.
You make my point for me.
AlfredReader,
I haven't read any of the previous exchanges you refer to, but my advice is to go with the flow. In some respect, you should be flattered that your posts garner a following. There's no negative publicity; just publicity. Don't let it get under your skin. ( Unless, of course you can think up some subtle, adult insult to a post. In that case, have fun with it!)
If you have not read all the exchanges let me summarize what I have seen from the few I have read.
Al is an unabashed Lady's man.
A number of posters think this is Dodge City in a cattle drive and "don't fancy no Lady's men in these here parts". I do not know if they are jealous, insulted, or if there may be a more personal motivation hiding beneath the surface. I would wager there is more to it because the same sentiments expressed by other posters do not draw the same ire. No matter the cause, at times the pigly-men as he has referred to them at times like to pull his chain. It does appear it occurs more frequently late at night about the time the last Dodge City saloons are letting out. Coincidence I am sure.
They swat at each other for a while and it subsides.
He does seem to have grown a thicker skin though they find places to poke through at times.
It is the Yin and Yang of the Universe and is not likely to stop in our lifetime. Sometimes I find it a humorous read. Sometimes I do not have the patience and pass them all bye.
holiday parties
company parties
3 weddings
2 class reunions
benefits
bike runs
concerts
business dinners
football games
conferences
vacations
golf tournaments
and once a family reunion
and so on
depending on the extent of the relationship you have with the Lady I think anything is possable.
I don't suggest anything too personal taking someone you don't already know well, but otherwise I don't see why not.
I've not taken a lady to a class reunion, but I have been escorted by ladies to company parties, holiday events, black tie charity balls, and much more. No one has ever suspected what's going on - you'd be surprised at events like that most people know they should mind their own business. Having a lady who can speak to other topics and move the conversation along - current events, travel experiences, movies and music, etc. - always helps mask the charade.
It's easy as long as you have the right lady. There are a lot of well dressed, intelligent, personable independents out there. Take them to your event and introduce them as 'a friend' and it'll go well.
There's one question that always 'pops' up, however. Very often either the lady or myself is asked 'So, how did you two meet?' It's vital to discuss this in advance so that you both have the right fib to tell.
A provider once took me to an officemate's wedding.
No, but been to a few events where I recognized a provider as a guest of someone else; Course I just kept my mouth shut and avoided paying too much attention, but they were 9-10 in looks (and also higher priced $$$$+ but quite eleggent and behaved appropriately); I did overhear a few comments and looks from other guys who seemed unknowing. I suspect it happens not infrequently and any guys in the know just did as I did and kept quiet.
Would it even be good idea?
I've been to corporate events, halloween parties, christmas parties, etc with clients whom I have known well and a few who I had met for the first time... though we chatted on the phone first. I think if you know a provider is refined and educated and is not going to embarrass you with inappropriate conduct or attire, there's no problem. Just be on the same page as to how you met (online- that's not a lie), and you can use the fact that it's only your first or second date when someone asks you a question you can't answer about your date... that makes sense...
Mimi stone
xo
I would, since I've taken a provider to a few work related social events in the past. I hate having to go to those events stag, since most of my colleague are married. The key is to find a provider who is not only discrete, but who is experienced in attending those types of social gatherings. I've never had any bad experiences and it's kinda nice having a HOT lady by your side during a boring dinner party ...LOL.
They just had my 25th year reunion this last summer. Didn't go, but if I took a provider, and they knew it, it wouldn't surprise them.
Shit, I can see it now. Walkin' in with a gorgeous lady, cuz that's the way I roll.
The boys would shit themselves, and the girls would be, well, you can guess what their attitude would be like...!
I think it would be fun! As long as she could handle it.
Of course she would conduct herself as she would anywhere else. She's a professional for fuck's sake! But still...
Kinda get off on the shock factor, if anyone hasn't noticed by now....
Are you out of your mind? What happens if one of your fellow classmates also hobbies, and recognizes her? I wouldn't count on 100% discretion. HS was civvie world at it's core...don't mix with the hobby!
It happens to be one of my favorite events to attend with a client. I can be the wife, GF, or the hooker it all depends on that my client is looking for. When being more involved (playing the wife/GF) I like to meet with a client before hand as well as have a few phone converstions so we can get the; what do you do for work? where did we meet? how long have we been together? who do we act like assholes to? who are you trying to impress? etc...