anyone ever have a ltr and start to have feelings for provider? I'm thinking she feels same way but don't whether to bring up subject. lots of signs from her but not sure how to approach this situation.
or the red pill?
Morphius asks if we want to see how deep her butthole goes.
Rofl
This has been happening forever and has been debated here endlessly. Try using the search function, because aside from flames I'm not sure how much you'll get on this subject here at this point.
Perhaps someone will prove me wrong. But I don't have the energy to write on this subject again.
"Love rarely unfolds like a blossoming flower; if the gal of your dreams is paid by the hour."
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I must quote the illustrious Ice Cube..
You betta check yoself befo you wreck yoself!
Don't feel bad..
Everyone has some semblance of feeling..
Otherwise we wouldn't be human, or sane.
It's about moving on....
Dwelling on anything is poison for the mind.
Carry on.
Every guy has a narcissistic tendency here...some won't admit it...but they do.
And as such all the hookers fall for us...they love us beyond the money. They wait impatiently for us to call them...text them...email them relentlessly.
I can safely say that every guy here is the Adonis..we know that we have this mystical spell on the hookers here. And no matter how much they refute it's just about the money...WE know better.
I'm sure your hooker is so madly in love with you that she'll drop everything she's doing to reply to your emails. She'll shit rainbows for you if you desire that. She'll walk on hot coals to prove her love and devotion to you.
Welcome to the club of entitled johns 
Maybe just try being her friend...that doesn't work too well either. She wants more...greedy little bitches LOL
I think I'm catching on. I see now, said the blind man, as he picked up his hammer, and saw! get it? get it? Doh!
indicator the provider is doing her job well. Part of the encounter is to make it a true fantasy.
It just screws everything up....it works both ways! You can't buy love, but it sure is a hell of a lot of fun to rent it!
I am 100% certain their Grammy Award worthy hollywood acting are all real. When they tell me they are low volume, I haven't heard that before from any other girl. I swear I haven't heard it before. When they tell me that my dick is very big, I believe them. When they tell me that I am the best fuck they've ever had in a year, they are telling the truth. When they offer me bbfs in the heat of the moment and claim they're clean and that I'm the only guy she's offering it to, I believe them simply cuz they said so. Who needs regular testing when we know these girls never lie about their cleanliness? Some girls even have the word "truth" tattooed on them cuz they need to emphasize that they tell the truth. Several providers told me they really like seeing me. I'm pretty damn sure they like seeing ME and not my wallet, even when they're not giving me OTC time.
I'm 100% certain their squirt is pee too. And that's just how I roll! lol
hey sometimes real feelings happen but be careful you don't confuse gfe with the real thing. personally, I prefer civvy girls when it comes to real relationships, but good luck.
If she does not want the envelop, she really, really likes you. Otherwise she is a fucking good actress and/or very very good at her JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's awesome when you can hang out together and genuinely enjoy each other's company. That's certainly better than the alternative. But when it's over, it's over(.) Until next time, hopefully.
Why is this so difficult for so many people in here? Or is this an attempt by some people to get people like me all riled up?
This is a perfect, simple arrangement. I vote we keep it that way.
Not rocket science. When you have to pay anyone to be with you it is a service and not remotely like real life where people WANT to be with whomever.
Schedule an appointment with her, show up or she shows up, drop the envelope, have fun (it's cool you get along great together emotionally), politely say goodbye, she leaves or you leave, and everyone is happy.
Why fuck up a good thing?
that have you thinking she has feelings for you?
Having 'feelings' for a provider with whom you have an LTR (and, ok, using the term LTR seems really OFF...lol) is fine. In fact, 'having feelings' is perfectly normal. Whereas NOT feeling anything about someone with whom you are intimate with on an ongoing basis seems slightly disturbing; even vaguely sociopathic....lol...
But if you really do want to know how she's feeling about you? Ask her.
(you might want to have an alternate LTR lined-up before you do
Having 'feelings' for a provider with whom you have an LTR (and, ok, using the term LTR seems really OFF...lol) is fine. In fact, 'having feelings' is perfectly normal. Whereas NOT feeling anything about someone with whom you are intimate with on an ongoing basis seems slightly disturbing; even vaguely sociopathic....lol...
But if you really do want to know how she's feeling about you? Ask her.
(you might want to have an alternate LTR lined-up before you do)
hey donjohn anyone ever tell you you're a d-bag!!!
Except for that one person I fuck for free. He's exceptionally good in bed. Not trying to marry him, though.
signs of her potentially having feelings are visits where there is no charge. she tells me about failed non pro relationships, like I care, and sharing other personal aspects of her life. I think she is tired of business. this has been going on for 7-8 months. everyone is right either keep things the way they are or get away. I do have a wife, family and a successful business and a lot to lose. fuck it im not going to be a knight in shining armor
Preferred provider relationship. When she stops charging altogether and you start dating normally is when it's a ltr.
Second, why bother making more of it when you've got the baggage. Search for a post a few days ago where a married guy with a provider declares his love for a provider who posts regularly. It's a mess.
Third, the way you just posted, it doesn't sound like you care about her at all. Not does she really; it's probably just a way for her to escape her current situation. Problem solved...now stf-u!
Doesnt hurt to try, I definetly am close to many clients and there is one i joke i am gonna move in and paint his house magenta while he is at work..... I dont think love only happens in marriage or conformist arrangements . What society views as dysfunction may to you be functional. If your in love , who cares just enjoy her and have fun. If you wanna say it to her then do it. If she thinks your a psycho then she will just say shut the hell up whatever your nuts. I dont have a filter so you may not wanna take my advice.
i have one ltr, whom i say i love you too. i known him seven years now. It is just like your situation confusing, We met by him getting an appt, This was when I was 26, then . We fell for each other, Then both him and i were getting teary eyed over me doing appts, He drew up a budget and realized he could cover all my expenses til i get a different job. I stopped escorting and just hung out with him. Now we still see each other once in a great while but its now 7 years later this was long ago. Sure see where it goes and enjoy yourself, There s no rule book on how to love or how it should be set up. Its as indivual as each person is. Your situation may be different than every ones so your gonna have to just see how it goes. .....
And if he's a convicted felon you want his contact info?
i have one ltr, whom i say i love you too. i known him seven years now. It is just like your situation confusing, We met by him getting an appt, This was when I was 26, then . We fell for each other, Then both him and i were getting teary eyed over me doing appts, He drew up a budget and realized he could cover all my expenses til i get a different job. I stopped escorting and just hung out with him. Now we still see each other once in a great while but its now 7 years later this was long ago. Sure see where it goes and enjoy yourself, There s no rule book on how to love or how it should be set up. Its as indivual as each person is. Your situation may be different than every ones so your gonna have to just see how it goes. .....