Fellows do you have a spending limit for an hour appt.??

Given all the variables that you require, do you just figure P^%$& is P*&^%^? Do you refuse the suppossed 'upscales'? Avoiding CL and BP?


Give me a break; i'm on meds for awhile. LOL

My limit is 5 bills for an hour.  I've seen ads for 7 - 10 bills per hour... That's just not for me.

For sure. I'll do 4 on occasion, and even consider 5 for something special, but she better be exactly my type...

For the most part this is skewed, though, because I can find 90+% of what I want and need (in DC) in the 2.5-3 range.

I allow for providers that want more time during the  first vist, thus a little more $.  I prefer quality time over anything else.  However, in my experience, most of my best experiences have been in the $300 range that I have set for myself.  Of course there are exceptions, and those exceptions need to be saved for the " I can't believe this is happening to me" experience; you get what you pay for....  And I have never been presented with an "upcharge" and wouldn't pay for it if I did.

Dear Osp:
With respect to a spending limit, the first thing you must ask yourself with respect to the market and the economies of scale is how do I know that I am getting good value for the dollar? Or if one is overpaying and getting little in return.  These are elementary questions that you want to assess when determining whether or not you are going to spend x amount of dollars to enter into someone's libidinal and social constituency. Primarily you could be a slave to reviews. Also it is good to have access to a fellow hobbyist or when you get your ten reviews to discuss providers with someone. Although it may be asking a little much you might want to have a meet and greet and from there start a hobbyist society where hobbyist trade information and then set up a board where one can see which providers are undervalued and which are overvalued for the dollar.  Once you develop a board which would be similar to the ones general managers use for assessing players, then you could use that as a guide for how much you would compensate a provider for her time. However a good question to ask would be if a provider has rates that would be rather steep is how long has she been doing this and how proficient and effective is she at all aspects of her job. Also from the providers perspective ,although times are not the greatest now, she could be pricing herself at a certain rate to ensure that she keeps certain undesirables from trying to be verified. These are all critical items of interest a hobbyist would take into account when contemplating how much of his entertainment dollar he would like to spend on a provider.

In a most respectful and non-snarky way, you had me at your first sentence.  I love this kind of talk and we'd have a great time if we were in the same city

Every woman is a unique individual in every way.

I have difficulty experiencing physical desire or enjoying sex with a woman I do not admire and respect. I can do it physically; but I'm not really all there.

So I solve that problem by booking women I admire and respect.

Of course, there are many more women worthy of such sentiments than I will ever book. So there are certain intangibles -- character, humor, and stuff like that -- that combine to make me say "I want to see this woman."

She is not a fungible commodity. She is unique and special. The time allocated to her is hers alone. Either I see her, or nobody during that time.

So, in general, the main thing I am looking at is the intangibles of the woman. THEN I look at price.

As for budget, I allocate a yearly budget and adhere to it strictly. This is an amount of money I have determined to be sufficient to meet my requirements. As I can get by without frequent sex; I tend to wait for "the right girl" rather than "Miss right now."

I generally have more limits for first meetings than subsequent meetings. But I have also learned that whatever rules I think I have, there's a woman out there who figures out a way of making me want to evade it very badly; and sometimes they succeed. LOL

I have no idea what "upscale" is; but I obviously don't try to book providers whose price is incompatible with my budget.

I actually haven't looked at ads for a long time.

I think my mental limit is $250/Hour and $160/Half-Hour. Beyond that, I think I'm overpaying. Unless there are other things on the menu, those are my limits.

After the first meeting where you do the proper introductions, you can do Half-hour sessions after. That means less talking and on with the fuck immediately. If my cock stays rock hard for at least 20-25 minutes, then 30 minute sessions are satisfying for me.

The ladies I see are all in the $$$-$$$$ range for an hour incall. You see some high priced ads for porn stars, etc, but I am not sure what they could possibly do that you don't get with a good, full service GFE date who will to it for $350.

Typically pay between $400 and $500 for the providers I tend to enjoy.  Anything is tough to justify because it means I am forgoing two appointments with different ladies for the pleasure of one appointment.

For example I am a Las Vegas local. As locals go, it is hard to find what might be said here to be bargains. $400 is the normal average and some are easily for 5 and 6 (some of those are CBJ's even, WTF). As long as I am bloviating, no matter whether it is $$$ or $$$$$$, there is no CBJ's in my hobby life.

When I traveled a lot I truly went bonkers in areas I could have 2 dates for the cost of one back home. On a couple occasions I stayed over 1 day on my trip just to have more fun before returning to sin city. Wow, and to think hobbyists cannot wait to make their trip to Vegas. Dang.

Bottom line is if I did not live in Vegas my budget would be set accordingly. Oh, and then by now I would have 250 reviews in stead of 60. lmfao

You're right on both counts!  On MY geogragraphy I know exactly where my wallet resides, and the max allowed to gush out!

On you other point........I agree 100%

I can't fucking believe what some ladies charge for an hour, and I had this conversation with a lovely friend of mine.

Needless to say, I was turned on to some wild shit.

Never called on a girl from CL or BP, however, some did post on BP. That's just not where I saw them from first.

BTW, I understand meds and Long Islands make for a fucking fun ride!

in the DC mid level provider market, 250-350 per hour seems about right. In more civilized and cosmopolitan areas which can support higher donation levels and often attract the most beautiful women, 500 is not at all unreasonable especially if multi hours are discounted.

All of it is really very inexpensive when compared to the sugar daddy milieu, or even for the very UTR high level provider strata, where, if you are able to move in the right circles, you can "date" movie and TV starlets and models in the 10k per evening / overnight range.

BTW there is a bit of a buzz to fucking a gal you see on TV or in a magazine, but the service per se is usually no better than in the mid level provider market typified by TER. Oftentimes, these women are really not that *good* at it LOL, they are selling more "thrill" than chill....

The HITLER YOUTH(S/O) wouldn't stand for that crap. LMAO

I told someone else this morning; she is the greatest pain in my ass as well as my GREATEST ASSET. No pun intended.

point well put however depends what one has going on. mine is $200 i go to his home. i never charge more than promised keeping ones word is important always to maintain trust. doesn't matter if we talk thru phone first. i get to know him in e/mail of course he must be honest always. i don't believe in volume definitely quality of substance. currently this is why my circle is small don't need alot just a few very nice honest local ones in our weekly escape. added thought i laugh when the initials gfe surfaces i always did this had no clue it was being noticed. in fact didn't know what initials meant just something i did because i like to express part of missing puzzle a natural for me and why not kim the nice lady. have a great day
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