As a provider, I have had some of my warmest, fondest memories of sessions with gentlemen of substance. I have also been most appalled and compelled to take cover from others...also of substance.  Weight, with men, as with women, is undeniably a personal issue that carries with it associated ideas, notions and related character traits...good and bad.  Being large does not preclude one from being special, loving, appreciative...sensual. Large people of both sexes often gain special insights, wisdoms and gifts that come from successfuly navigating waters of rejection and challenge that thinner people may never comprehend. Being large, however, does not give one unilateral permission to also be untidy, unhygenic or to otherwise impose unnecessarily upon the senses of others.  As long as my client respects me enough to be fresh, clean, and above all, a gentleman...I meet him, weight and all, as with any other personal aspect...as an individual, with whom I am honored to get the opportunity to know in a very unique and special way.  Just be real...is there really anything else?