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Re: Shower or No Shower?
Sidney Starr See my TER Reviews 753 reads
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I see a few people a day..1 or 2 or 3, it depends...but I dont take showers with my clients..I have if I am done fo rthe day and going home...but I dont want to take a shower and have to go and get ready again for my next appt...when I am ready fo rthe day, I am ready fo rthe day..I honestly dont wnt to go ruin my hair and makeup and have to do it all over again.  I am not high maintenance, but I just dont want to have to wash away my makeup and hair and have to start all over again. NO taking bubble baths is a diffeent subject...

jayson20043223 reads

One of my favorite post-session activity is to relax and get cleaned up in a nice warm shower. However, I find that the majority of providers do not like taking showers with their clients. Is there a reason for this? I don't feel I am asking for much, but maybe to the provider that is going beyond the call of duty? Does anyone else have this trouble? It is kinda like the bed covers...no ladies like to crawl underneath the covers but prefer to be on top of the bedspread.

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mrfisher1132 reads

but some providers are so personable in the shower that I enjoy them in their as well.

On the other hand, you can really get down to the business at hand when you have full reign in the tub.

As for covers, it's nice to pull them up afterwards as the sweat on our bodies makes us cool and the covers feel so nice then.  I can understand the feeling of the provider though; she has to sleep on those sheets later.

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TrueDiem_yahoo1174 reads

Excessive showering can dry the skin -- perhaps that may be a reason.

You may have better luck by scheduling a 4 hour (or so) session if you want that shared shower.

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You Kiddin Me1855 reads

If you want to book an overnite, your shower is on the menu.

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CiaraPhx934 reads

At times, especially on an evening appointment at my incall, I enjoy two in the shower. But let's be realistic guys: If the appointment is during the day and it's outcall we still have to do other things when we leave. Remember, when two bodies are in the shower (especially if the shower stall is small), the hair gets soaked (not wet, soaked), we don't have time to restyle it, the makeup runs and water sprays in our eyes. I can take a shower by myself and not have any of these things be affected. But with a man it's different. So . . . it's not that we don't want to shower with you, but it's too messy at times.  Remember, men only have to comb their hair and get dressed.

Hugs,
Ciara

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Sidney Starr754 reads

I see a few people a day..1 or 2 or 3, it depends...but I dont take showers with my clients..I have if I am done fo rthe day and going home...but I dont want to take a shower and have to go and get ready again for my next appt...when I am ready fo rthe day, I am ready fo rthe day..I honestly dont wnt to go ruin my hair and makeup and have to do it all over again.  I am not high maintenance, but I just dont want to have to wash away my makeup and hair and have to start all over again. NO taking bubble baths is a diffeent subject...

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Ms. HumpAlot465 reads

I so agree with all the ladies sentiments in this thread!

In regards to the sheets, there is no way that I want to sleep inside sheets, where I have had sessions in :( Infact, I rarely did overnights at a hotel, for most don't even wash their sheets every day (yup, known fact), and the idea of my laying in between those sheets at night, make my skin crawl lol  I once had a session where my gentleman friend came into my room, and immediately pulled back the covers ready to go. I politely told him about the hotel sheets, and he was quick to pull them right back the way they were lol

Enjoy!

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Mary O Malley1182 reads

where they showed that the bedspreads in hotels NEVER get washed, so I much prefer the sheets.  YUK!  I also do not shower with clients (unless I'm staying overnight) for the reasons stated by other providers.  It can take up to an hour to restyle your hair and fix your make up.  Thanks, I'll go home to do that.

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Mia Domore556 reads

I pull down the bedspread and play on top of the blanket.  This eliminates the dirty bedspread and protects me from the sheets and mattress.
I am with the rest of the girls on the shower thing.

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ChiefRedbeard1756 reads

Ok, hair I can understand, but what about a shower cap?  Make up, well, that is out of my area of knowledge, but I do certainly hope that you ladies do shower between sessions!!

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CiaraPhx1085 reads

Actually a practical solution, but can you imagine us in shower caps? Gees! I'd feel like Laverne from "Laverne and Shirley." Those things are ugly. I didn't even wear a swim cap when I was little -- hated them.  

Also, I only see one man in a day, but of course I would give myself a complete cleaning if I had two clients in a day. I think I speak for the majority here, and a few of us have said that we can shower by ourselves again and get really clean, but the water sprays everywhere when you're with another person. And . . . the guy will want to start kissing again and possibly soap your neck too far up, etc. Well, you get the point.

Hugs,
Ciara (Blond Pocahontas)

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lilli859 reads

showercaps are not all that effective imo, they tend to keep moisture in, leaving the hair damp and limp. as the other girls have said, we do just fine when showering alone, but throw in another person and the situation is not as easily controlled. as far as make-up, i don't wear any so that wouldn't be my concern. however the million and one other little girlie things that we do during and after a shower just wouldn't be practical to do after a 1 or 2 hour session with a client. not to mention the fact that a client could become "re" aroused, want to start fooling around, etc., and it's just a situation that could easily get out of control. i'd only do the shower thing with an overnight date.

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