This. In real life, I say what I do and do what I say. I'm on-time, polite, and respect boundaries and time. I will trust people who demonstrate the same. I did have an experience where I did something against the rules (honest oversight, but my fault), and I owned it and apologized, and we got it behind us.
I am seeing a provider who I've booked regularly for a few months. I'm new to this game, and I trust her detailed approach; it's always by the book/script as far as setting up the appointment and arriving per instructions. I like that. I am sure I don't know her real name, nor do I want it. She knows mine, but I trust her word. Maybe I'll regret it later, but I don't think I will.
Not big gestures or promises, just small things that don’t ask for attention. Consistency, tone, follow-through, or someone doing exactly what they said they would, that's something that does it for me.
It’s often subtle, but once you notice it, trust builds without effort.
Curious what’s something small that quietly builds trust for you?
From her reasonable response time to my date request, to her friendly tone by text, to her inviting greeting at the door, and her undivided attention when are together is all it takes. That's what builds my trust. Just being a warm, discreet pro, with all the good associated with that term, is what gives me that much needed faith in her.
A provider who shares her real name, or invites me to her home for an appointment is showing trust in me, and the feeling becomes mutual.
On the other hand, a provider who shares information about other sex workers ( their real names, STDs, secret menus, addictions) is probably doing a form of cock-blocking and isn't trustworthy.
This. In real life, I say what I do and do what I say. I'm on-time, polite, and respect boundaries and time. I will trust people who demonstrate the same. I did have an experience where I did something against the rules (honest oversight, but my fault), and I owned it and apologized, and we got it behind us.
I am seeing a provider who I've booked regularly for a few months. I'm new to this game, and I trust her detailed approach; it's always by the book/script as far as setting up the appointment and arriving per instructions. I like that. I am sure I don't know her real name, nor do I want it. She knows mine, but I trust her word. Maybe I'll regret it later, but I don't think I will.
professionalism as well as common courtesy. Being on time and being relaxed and comfortable while we are together. I know a few of my regulars real names and they know mine as well and I think its because we have seen each other for a few years now, I have one that was there when my first grand baby was born, and I have met his kids and grand baby and we send each other ''Good morning / good night'' texts and just chat here and there just to catch up. Having a few more regulars like that is the ultimate goal.
When I have a good date with a provider, she will get a review that reflects how good it was. When she takes the time to send me a message thanking me for taking the time to heap praise on her in a review, I know she’s a good one. I now trust she’s not taking me for granted.
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