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MYTH: Most of TER’s reviews are “fake” because they give free VIP days for people to write them

FACTS:

1. As of the writing of this message TER has had 801,519 reviews submitted to us. 322 are new and have not been looked at. 9 are contested or have problems and have been elevated to a supervisor. The rest have been read by a real human being and approved or disapproved based upon the rules stated on our GUIDELINES FOR SUBMITTING REVIEWS found here http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/submitReview.asp and our own fraud detection systems. After this screening 530733 have been approved, 270455 reviews have been turned down. NOTE: Many of the turned down reviews may have small errors that the user can edit and resubmit (bad website, details, etc.)

2. According to our demographic information 63% of our member’s households make over $100,000 per year.  85% make over $65,000.  Because of the amount of information we ask when submitting a review it takes 30 minutes or more to write one. If they are a new member they have to write 2 of them to become a VIP. Logic would dictate that most of our members are not that excited to spend half an hour just to save $10 by writing a fake review when they make over $100,000 per year.  If they write a review it is because they wanted to share their experiences with other members.  Maybe to brag.  Maybe to protect. But not just to save $10.

MYTH: TER wants so much “juicy details” that we have to lie about what we did to get a review approved.

FACTS

1. If you read our GUIDELINES FOR SUBMITTING REVIEWS found here   http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/submitReview.asp it states:

“The Juicy Details section should be used to describe the provider, the experience, and whether or not you enjoyed it in graphic emotional and sexual terms. Don’t make this space a recap of the General section. Instead, go for a blow-by-blow tell-all of your session with the provider from your own unique point of view. Remember, your opinion matters! Both the General and Juicy details should be at least four lines long or (preferably) longer.”

If your session had no sexual acts in it, we still want to know what you did.   Watched a movie? Great, what movie? How did you like it?  How did she like it? Did you hold hands?  Did you cuddle? How did you feel?  How do you think she felt? Would you do it again? We want to know blow-by-blow tell-all of your session with the provider from your own unique point of view that is at least 4 lines long.  We do not want you to make up sexual acts you did if they did not happen.  We only want to know what did happen with as much detail as possible.   Simple.

If anyone does not believe this, email me at [email protected] with your username and the provider you reviewed.  I will post the EXACT reason why your review was not approved or I will approve it myself. Please be prepared to have your username and any other information that we used to make that decision (IP logs, multiple usernames, relationship to the provider, posting history, etc) posted also. In other words, don’t come to court with unclean hands.

MYTH: TER does not accept reviews from new users.

FACTS:

1. Why would we not want more reviews? We spend over $100,000 per month in advertising to bring new users to TER. We get about 500 new registered users a day. We make money by selling the ability to read the juicy details of reviews submitted to us.  There is only one reason we would want to turn down reviews from any member, especially from a new member, we just spent so much money to acquire.  Integrity.

2. One of the reasons the TER is the largest and most trusted review site on the internet is because of the integrity of information in our database. No other site we know of spends the amount of time and effort to filter each and every review submitted to us.  You would be amazed if you knew all we do to protect our members from fake reviews. Do they sometimes get through?  Of course. No possible way to stop them all.  The over a quarter million reviews we have turned down should show we catch quite a few.

3. Stop for a minute to consider that every user was at one time a new user.  There are now over 1,000,000 registered users at TER. We get 300-400 review submitted per day. 25% to 35% come from relatively new users.

4. Unfortunately over 75% of review fraud we catch occurs in these new accounts.  This fact alone would make someone believe we do not accept reviews from newer member.  We believe it is better to turn down a suspicious review that might be real then accept a review that is fake.  If the provider is working, more reviews will come in for her.

5. Many times it is not new users that are doing this. It is existing users or providers that create these new accounts to promote themselves or the provider involved.  Why?  Either to establish a new provider on TER that has no reviews or help a provider get more business.  Every time a provider gets a review, her name pops to the top of the new reviews list.   If the review is good, it could mean thousands of dollars of income to her.  Sometimes they get away with it for a while, but eventually most get caught. Thousands of providers and users have been banned from TER for doing this.  Almost none of which will admit it even though we can show logs of them doing it.


MYTH: Reviewers seem to embellish the stories when they post it on TER.

FACTS:

1. Imagine a guy telling his best friend about a provider he saw last night.   Is he going to tell the exact story of how he could barely get it up, lost it 3 times, and then finally finished? Probably not.  Just as anyone telling a story, they tend to embellish it a bit to make themselves look better.  Sometimes they go too far. “I made her cum 12 times, and then I took off my pants. After that we went cowgirl and I spun her like a propeller until she was so dizzy she threw up.”  We usually will not post those.  If you read the reviews keeping that in mind, there is a lot of valuable information to be found.

That's true, if the reviewer says "he made her come 12 times before he took his pants of" , you will not publish it. But I've seen plenty of reviews where they say they made her come 8 times before they even touched her, then they had sex for 10 hours and ,finally, they went for a stroll on the beach.

back in the pre-TER days, when penthouse forum was popular and the letters always started off with, "I have never written a letter like this before, but"
kind of letter,
ps, happy thanksgiving dave and the rest of ter admin!

How one doesnt understand that:

The EROTIC review
Means: - give erotic details


Thats like Not knowing Niagara Falls Blvd is the road to get to Niagara Falls

-- Modified on 11/24/2008 11:19:45 AM

In fact, I've never been guided wrongly by TER reviews... nor have I been sorry that I am a paid member.  But I have to admit, when I look at your stats, and review the reviews....  I am impressed by a few things,

1) There is a very common and widespread use of escorts in the US.  More than the national news agencies would wish you to believe.  In fact, I would dare say that assuming that you only see from 1-10 % of the hobbying public... well... that would mean that 10-100 Million dudes partake... which would mean that from about 8% to 2/3 of all males in the US partake of the hobby... my conservasism of the numbers makes me think that a realistic estimate of the actual number is around 25% or so... so that has gotta include more Govenors, Senators, Representatives, state and local officials that would like us to know!!!  wow....  mind boggling.

2) your database (including the discussion boards) are a wide and very interesting "slice of the american culture."  I've often thought it could be the subject of a whole range of psychology and sociology papers... but that would require extracting the data in some form... which I presume would leave some poor grad student or post-doc in a mindless state of heightened sexual awareness... Bwahahaha!!!!

3) while we know that this is all "fictional" it sure does seem real... but perhaps the most interesting thing is the comparison to Penthouse Forum letters, with one exception, these are provided by folks who are real, and I know, because I have met some of my fellow hobbiests... and for the most part - find them to be a delightful group of gents.  Something that we seldom say, but it is true.

4) I honestly believe that because of TER - I am a bit more sensative to the emotional needs of ladies (and ladies - I am a work in progress so you do not have to remind me of my shortcomings... I am keenly aware of them... now).  However, as oft said, so much in my life would have been better, had I engaged in this life years ago - at this level...

5) TER has transformed escorting (prostitution is you will) into a true hobby, enjoyed and discussed (as is any true hobby) by the participants, both male and female.  For that I think you.

Hey Bizzaro, were you typing with one hand?  :)

if that is all ya got... well - that is all ya got.   and yea, I type with not all my fingers...

Speaking for myself, finding TER when I was curious was the ticket to my entrance to the hobby.  I rely on the reviews posted to make my choices of companionship intelligent choices and keep me from breaking the etiquette rules of most ladies.  I have never been disappointed except when I strayed outside the TER community.  

I have learned and gained much from the resources available here and the people I have met both male and female.  I have only had one review disapproved and it was really the lady's fault or faulty web site and all of my reviews including the first one were approved in short order.  I even reviewed one gal for the first time and it was quickly approved too.  If you can't get one approved there is a simple reason.  The cost of VIP membership is not a barrier to entry if you are serious about your own satisfaction.  The concept of Caveat Emptor applies to this endeavor as much as any other buying opportunity.  If you would spend $300 to $400 for an our of time with a lady then you can afford VIP.  It's smart money IMHO.  The discount for writing reviews is a nice benefit but not necessarily required.   The verification sites are great for speedy screening but nowhere are the reviews more valuable.  Very few of the provider's web sites are informative enough either. The TER service is just as important to providers.   Just get something wrong about a lady in a review and see how fast they contact you...LOL.  I say keep up the standards for the review and approval.

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