lets see if i am unique ( being crazy doesnt count LOL) a knowledgeable hand job drives me wild. i can last forever during BBBJ (with rare exceptions) and often even stop it after a brief while, and can last for hours also during sex, covered or not. BUT .. a girl who truly knows how to use her hands i am gone!! . i have zero control over not cumming and its up to the girl to pace me.
i was at one girl's place who had a milking table and great hands. i was literally screaming .. thank goodness she lives in a house alone! i sadly have to admit i would say only about 25% of providers know how to truly touch a guy. there is no talent in just stroking a guy til he cums .... then again i bet the girls would say for guys its only 10% LOL So, what does you crazy?at a good old fashion rub and tug massage parlor. After all, practice makes perfect.
One of my favorites for years had one and knew how to use it. The feeling was indescribable and unique. She wasn't a typical K-Girl, as she'd been adopted and raised here. I miss her.
A good hand job can give the strongest O's. For a couple of reasons. First the stroking action is both strong and covers the most nerve endings. And secondly the recipient isn't needing to focus on any other bodily movements and can focus entirely on the sensations down below.
My personal experience says you are absolutely correct Lester....of course it is second hand and/or anecdotal info as I have no appendage to relate to but I will say that I have been told that intial oral stimulation is a great aid in reaching that achievement too...and i am so glad.
Suzee
not biased because if you do it yourself, its also free? Lol
thats ... kinky .. and hopefully the lady is very flexible LOL
Even in a mirror or turning her head to look back at me.
As long as it’s not combined with the “Aren’t you done YET?” expression 😆
1. Grown women with naturally small boobs, A-Cup or B-Cup only.
2. Large, dark nipples. Small breasts with big, pointy nipples get my attention every time. The areola can be big or small, it doesn't matter, I like nipples.
3. Hairy pussies. The hairier the better. Only little girls have bald pussies, and I don't have any interest in them, don't want to see them at all. Grown women have bushes.
4. Receiving a sloppy wet bareback blowjob with lots of slurping, moaning, deep-throating, gagging, chortling, sputtering, eye-contact, ball-sucking and never seems to end. There has to be so much spit drooling out of her mouth that it costs both my shaft and her hand, and oozes down my balls and puddles at my asshole like natural lube.
5. Lots of sloppy wet deep French kissing after oral sex, but especially after I have gone down on her. Any woman who lives the taste of her own pussy on my mouth is a keeper.
6. Getting rimmed.
7. Thick, meaty, protruding pussy lips. If they don't look like an overloaded ham sandwich or roast beef sandwich turned sideways, they're too small.
8. Women who are vocal in bed, meaning not only talkative or instructive, but also loud, moaners, screamers, etc.
9. Petite or slender or svelte or just plain skinny women.
10. Older women, up to ten to fifteen years older than I am. (I'm not going to reveal my age, but just suffice it to say that at least one of my children is an adult.)
Question, by your write-up, you seem to be referring to what turns you on so much that you can't keep from ejaculating even if you don't want to, but you asked what drives us wild, what drives us crazy. My list shows things that REALLY turn me on, but not necessarily things that cause me to explode the gooey glue. Have I answered according to what you're asking for?
In my opinion, you got it 50% right. LOL
I can only back you completely on 2, 4, 5 and 9. On 7 there is a limit to how much "meatiness" is pleasing to me (I was put off of pastrami sandwiches once for a month), so I can go half with you. On 8, I agree to the extent that she doesn't try to talk with her mouth full of sausage, for another half agreement. It all adds up to 50%.
You drew a penalty flag for number 3, but I did not take off any points. Cough up a few hairballs after a 45-minute DATY session and you will change your mind on that one without any help from me. LOL Regardless, an entertaining list. Thanks for taking the time.
Thank YOU, coeur-de-lion, for enjoying my submission and for giving your feedback. You and I should go carousing some day since we like at least 50% of the same things in women. We'll either find a couple of hotties that each meet all of our desires or a 100 percenter for you and your tastes and a different 100 percenter for me and my tastes.
As for the hair-pie, I've spent my entire adult life liking what I like, I have had a lot of experiences with naturally hairy women, and nothing has turned me off of the
m yet, I doubt anything ever will. Just like those who prefer bald pussies and can't be dissuaded, I'm adamant about hairy ones. I don't try to convince anyone who has a different opinion about them, because I know I can't or won't be convinced contrary to my opinion. Heck, leave all of the hairy ones for me, and I'll send all the waxed ones to you!
Happy mongering to you.
I will elect you to cop a discreet feel and see who is hairy and who isn't. They'll be much easier for us to sort out that way. LOL
Coeur, I readily and greedily accept!
Best way I can articulate the answer, and avoid a rambling blather, is to segment.
Looks:
While I adore all ladies in all shapes in sizes, the big turn on items are:
As tall or shorter than I am (5'10")
Natural breast with large nipples. Augmented if done correctly. Any cup size
Great ass, soft or hard.
Landing strip, which is rare
A playful personality. After all, these are play dates, are they not?
An engaging personality.
Dress: Nothing specific as long as it is classy or totally nude. Love something hanging down around the cleavage.
Action: Kissing, love DFK. Understandably limited in the days of COVID.
Verbal. Moaning, groaning, panting, and directional. I do not need to hear how big my cock is, cause it is not.
BBBJ and willing to let me DATY. Not a big FIV guy.
Female condom
Loves cum, on tits, during fucking, on face, in mouth. A women who loves to make a man cum.
Bonus, if CIM, let my load roll out of her lips, onto her boobs. Love that!
Moaning, groaning, panting during intimacy is one of the great sounds of life.
Is actually willing and able to enjoy the physical nature of the encounter.
Or they're at least a really good actress. Over the top is just as bad as no reaction at all. I just want a naturally feeling encounter...I dont need wild thrashing or loud moans and screams. Its the small nuances that make it for me....
Giving that extra spread during DATY, running her fingers through my hair while doing it, showing patience to actually enjoy that phase, rather than trying to rush to the BJ, and ultimately the cover.
There are so many ladies that are just automatically closed off, before they even open the door for you...
Transactional and transparent...just going through the motions to get you off and out the door.
I know im in a very small minority for giving a shit about mutual gratification, and that its probably nearly impossible to find doing this. But, ladies who can't give a convincing show, just leave you feeling like a BP customer, with a couple extra bells and whistles thrown in.
This speaks for me. It's a fine minority indeed. Glad to have you aboard!