When looking for a provider and you are searching on ad site How many pages will you search(for example the first couple of pages,5-10,or all of the results?
Also when you are looking at a provider's website what would you like to see on her website and what should she avoid having on her website?It could be the design/layout of website,pics,text anything.

Used to search more often and unless looking for something in particular started at the top and went untill saw someone of interest . Also aware premiums paid for front loading and adds moved forward by logging in  
Both meant to me provider that at least was more active and likely to respond.
Can not Remeber the last time I got to the last page of Tryst.

IMO, some providers put too much into their websites.  Glamour shots are ok but current candids are better for me.  Quick loading and easy to navigate via smartphone.  It seems like the music and silly shit are gone from most now, thank God.  It's also my preference if the pics are able to be seen in a quick loading grid vs larger pics that take a while.  I've spent too much time in area with crap signals apparently, lol.  

On Tryst, I will view all pages that come up based on my filter criteria (budget, build, etc).  That usually is 8-9 pages for my location in Massachusetts/New England. Unfortunately Tryst does not have an "exclude" feature like p411, hence the long list.  

If using Tryst I first include my preferences like GFE or PSE, submissive, etc, then look at the visuals. I pay attention to last active date to ensure she's reasonably current, and I often look all the way to the last page. I try to cross check with TER for legit reviews.  

Wix websites are easy to use as your own professional webmaster.

My market has 127 providers listed on Tryst.  So I keep my eye on them.  At any given time, there may be 0-3 providers listed who I would see.  I also check p411 listings every few days.  Every now and then, p411 gets someone who is not on Tryst…

I rely most heavily on TER over other sites to pick a provider. I usually start by searching the last few pages of new reviews that I have not seen since my last visit. I look for new interesting ladies, and for new reviews of potential providers who may not have enough reviews yet. I also check reviews of providers I have seen and enjoyed. If a new reviewer also liked the provider, I will check out his review history to see if he saw and highly rated any girls that I should try to see.   From time to time I may even PM a few reviewers who have seen a provider I am considering to ask a few questions. I also PM reviewers with similar tastes to see if they have any new recommendations. I have a few favored bookers, and I may search by their phone numbers to see if they have any new talent who may have recently been reviewed. All of this research contributes to my immediate TDL of 2-4 providers, my midterm TDL of 2-3 providers, and my repeat soon list of 2-3 providers! I am always looking for candidates for each of these categories.  Sometimes I will go offsite to two other sites which could have some useful reviews on a provider I am considering.

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I use the reviews search filters for that city to find someone to my liking.

In this order:
Rate
Location (Incall)
Services
Reviews
Looks.

I will go through ads on a number of sites (yes, I will go through all of them), and narrow the field to a few. Then, I read all content on ads and sites, except I may only read a few reviews here... no need to read every one!  

I already avoid most K-girs because so many do BBFS (did see a K-girl duo but never took off the wrapper and the only DATY was between them), but now I'm wondering whether I need to scour every review for any mention of BB. After reading some of the comments on BBFS in the thread below, I checked the reviews of a proponent of that practice. Sure enough, there was his review of a lady I was considering seeing and all the BB anal and vaginal sex they had.  Am I glad I passed on seeing her.  

Ads
I use TER, p411, tryst and cross reference them. I usually view all the pages when I filter it down to my preferences. Your reviews here, probably read the latest and within the past month or two.

...on advertisements is if they don't how at least partial breasts or some indication that they don't have saggy breasts.  That is a deal breaker for me.  You could have a great body, and flaunt it in your photos, which is good, but if you only show your breasts in a tight fitting top my saggy breast radar goes up.  Just side boob to see the shape is enough for me to pull the trigger.

If you are looking for big natural boobs they are going to sag. This is normal and natural for a human female.  
If you are looking for large implants they will not sag. They are make believe.  
If you book a provider that is A/B cup they will not sag (me!!) because they are too small to do so.  
YOU ARE WELCOME.

True, 99 percent of the time, yes.

My search always begins with TER as it's the most reliable site IMO. I rarely start with another site, and even when I look at those sites if I find a lady who catches my eye I always go back to TER for verification. No consistent good to great reviews, no date.
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As a general rule I monitor the TER reviews for my area every morning. It only takes a few minutes. If I find a lady in my price bracket with good reviews who I find attractive I will add her to my favorites tab and monitor her reviews. Then when I decide I want to have some fun I either contact a 'regular' or go back to that favorites tab and select a new lady to contact. If I'm planning to travel to a different city for vacation or work I use the same process starting +/-30 days before my trip. This system has worked well for me for 20+ years.
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As to your website design, here are my thoughts:
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Keep it simple.
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IMO selfies are way better that custom professional photos which have been 'processed'. Why? Because It's very rare that a lady looks like her professional photos when we meet. Not a complaint, just a reality because when staged photos are taken the hair, makeup, costume etc, are perfect as is the lighting and staging. That's difficult to replicate. By contrast, selfies, especially those taken immediately before leaving for a date, are much more likely to match what she'll look like when I meet her and minimize the risk of disappointment.  
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rates should be clear and unambiguous, and any extras/upcharges should be specifically listed so there are no negotiations or disagreements when we meet. To be safe I'll compare those rates to TER rates because professional escorts claim their TER profiles and update them as necessary to avoid conflict.
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Screening requirements should also be clear and unambiguous. This avoids time wasting on both sides.
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Either a services list or a "no list" should be included so there are no surprises. Hopefully it's consistent with her TER reviews.
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Links to reviews are nice, but then again if her name and/or phone number don't lead me to TER reviews then I'm likely a no-go anyway.
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Hope this is helpful. Good luck!

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until I get to no more than a dozen or so providers. Sometimes I need to expand my search, sometimes tighten it. So a premium listing has little effect on my search.  

Do you search keywords on P411?  If so, which ones?

P411 first page is very direct without a lot of junk.
Rate, Pictures and providers website.
Sometime I can jump directly to the TER reviews.

I scroll through everyone in my metro (there’s only like 120).  

Out of curiosity, would you consider seeing someone who didn’t show her face in her ads if her TER reviews said she was indeed pretty? Or would you not get that far because you wouldn’t look her up on TER?

Sure thing, that works.  It’s a factors test, based on the totality of the circumstances.  No single factor is dispositive.  It’s a flexible test.  I will say that if there’s no interest in the Tryst photos, I don’t go any further.

1. Google phone # or email to see if TER reviews appeared
2. Check for the reliable REVIEWERS on the the ladies. It seems there are too many fake reviewers out there and it may take some time to figure out who the real reviewers are based on your own judgment.  
3. Filter your search to your liking on TER and the ladies requests. E.g. Deposits is out for me and my loss.  
4. Reach out and see if you pass the screening based on what you ate willing to share.  

My approach is similar to others. I usually start with Tryst or similar listing site depending on country I might be in and filter down. I will go through all pages on that filtered list and pick the listings that look like they might be a good option. I prefer unblurred face but accept privacy concerns with all the invasive tech now but partial face views help. I also like recent photos, selfie or two that aren’t glamour shot, that’s where social media with periodic post (selfie or pose photo that’s current) helps. After that I read listing and see if personality/general service is a fit.

TER, P411, and Tryst. I will also check X to look for recent posts.

Tried and true.  

pro tip i found out recently…you can type in keyword “TER” on tryst and get profiles that mention their TER ID

Because my website is exactly the opposite of what you are asking for, I’d be curious to get your take on it. You’re going to hate it, but I’d love your opinion about what’s working for you and what isn’t.  

I read the reviews, but I also check the reviewer, if that is their only post, I disregard it as I am sure it is a fake done by the provider or a friend.  I have found that there are a lot of providers that put fake reviews out there to get their numbers up.  I also had one, I provided a bad review and they of course disputed it thinking I deleted the texts which I did not and do not until I see it posted.  There are a few nefarious providers out there.

....and takes a while to navigate but I've been thru it front to back prior to your reply to my post.  Generally, this would be way too much but you're not what a guy would see as a normal provider either and it makes sense for what you bring to the table.  

You don’t like p411? Why ?

Good for you! It’s just not worth taking the risk! I did it when first started and ended up with Chlamydia. Lost two weeks of work from that. Expensive lesson to learn.

Not necessarily true. I have seen sagging AB ‘ s just not as noticeable. Sometimes I wonder if my C’ s are sagging after reading this comment 😳.