If she has a booking form, absolutely. If she takes bookings by email, again absolutely. If she has a phone as her first point of contact, no. I’m not sending a multiple paragraph text message. I will usually introduce myself, include a picture, and express interest. But she needs to respond before I provide more.
some providers simply don't respond, and I'm not comfortable sending my personal data into cyberspace and not knowing that it's going to be received and treated appropriately. So I usually do a very short intro email, giving age, profession and location, asking availability and saying I'll send verification when I hear back. If I get a response, then no problem sending the verification info.
Most providers I've seen are on P411 and in general I'll send them a PM there first to introduce myself and that allows them to look at my profile.
In the PM I'll ask if P411 is sufficient for their screening and, if not, what else they need. I've never had any negative feedback about doing things this way.
I only use p411. I WILL NOT send my personal info to anyone! Not safe! EVER!!
For certain porn stars ill give up some info. But for standard providers not as likely. For ts providers its a hard no.
Dont give up info. Do not send deposits. If you dont like drama, stick to this way.
Ive been hobbying this way for a quarter century and ill keep hobbying this way until my last day.
I’m trying not to go off on you again, so I’ll just keep my thoughts to myself. If I say how I really feel, all your attack dogs are gonna run in to tell me how much of a cunt I am so what’s the point?
He is an ass. He is an ass. He is an ass. Make it your mantra. lol.
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Honestly, he really isnt worth the attention. I like to smack him around a bit when I get bored but his feeble responses makes me feel like I am dressing down a grade schooler. lol.
Was RTR Joey Nickels from Annie Hall?
You asked, i answered. Honestly, at that.
exactly what they want in their ads or on their website. For these, it is impossible to offer up "all" of what she needs.
That being said, I always offer what I have found to be typically needed for screening up front, and offer to provide more as she requires.
I do have my own limits on what I will share for screening. If she wants more, I will simply not reach out to her or will let her know that I need to move on, and why. If I have to move on, I DO NOT apologize for reaching out; I simply thank her for her time.
Over the past 15 years, this approach has worked perfectly; no misses or rejections.
Nothing about this is rocket science...
LOL, why did you put in all caps how YOU DO NOT APOLOGIZE for reaching out?
I'm being serious, you seem so adament about it.
I suppose that I am sooo used to (and tired of) hearing the lament that all men are timewasters that I felt I needed to be clear that it is not always the case.
and if there aren't any, I ask.
But I don't offer up anything will-nilly like my work info, etc. unless specifically asked.
First, I read reviews, so I have a certain idea that the provider is legit. I have a 'script' that I use that has my info, with links to my profiles and linkedin.
Again, I would not send that to anyone if I was TOFTT, but am too new to do that, so I have a comfort level when I send my initial contact.
And yeah, I will wait until I'm cleared before a deposit, of course.
But that is after I vetted her to my total satisfaction. Other women, who may be tougher to truly verify, I will send a basic inquiry and possibly ask a few questions. If interested at that point, my 2nd email to her would have all the info she needs to verify me.
I almost always provide two references; provider name and phone or email depending on how I am corresponding. If that doesn’t get me approved, I usually move on.
