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Re: Screening - ONLY in the US!!!!
LarryElmer 1 Reviews 1351 reads
posted
1 / 32

I've been doing some hobbying abroad, mostly in Canada and East Europe - the only verification thing asked was a call-back number ...easily bypassed, just didn't have a phone while staying there

Really liked the setup in Montreal - call a couple numbers, ussually an agency, and have a fresh girl in the room in under an hour!

Same in Eastern Europe, just had face control at a couple incalls, that's about it.

May be they don't have bad client there, no NCNS, no serial killer. Just an all happy place, what do I know.

So is screening solely the US phenomenon?
- think it is, and guys in US are wimps, and will put up with shit that no sane guy abroad ever will.

I know you girls just take advantage and got us lining up, jumping through hoops just to get an app. Only in US!

So here's my little screening rant with international prospective!

Claudius42310 13 Reviews 336 reads
posted
2 / 32

yep it's true! believe it or not!

in Canada and East Europe it's LEGAL! therefore no need to screen to weed out LE! what a shocking surprise!

so your "international perspective" is easily explained away by that fact alone. the girls don't want to be low hanging fruit for cops. imagine the impertinence!

also the US is #6 in the world in assaults per capita, #9 in rapes, but only #24 in murders. in total crimes per capita the US is #8 ahead of Canada and Eastern Europe.

so perhaps a better way to look at it is that US men who want to play need to have the guts to give screening information and not wimp out and dump all the risks on the ladies? dumping the risk on the ladies seems like a wimpy thing to me.

so here's my little pro screening rant with stats to debunk the twisted excuse for an "international perspective" you have offered.

have a nice day.

SoVeryKarrie See my TER Reviews 177 reads
posted
3 / 32

It is more then just screening for LE, though that is a huge part of it. You also have to look at the culture here in America and the way Providers are viewed. It wasn't that long ago cases involving a murder or rape of a provider were marked NHI (No Human Involved).

With this and many men who do seek out providers have no respect or care for us at all, and would love to do anything to us as they see us less then human and very easy targets.

Canada and Europe are not as sexually repressed as we are here. They do not have the hang ups we do.

Women in this business are targeted at least 80% more by LE in this nation, and physical violence against a provider happens to the women in this business 98% more then it does to the hobbyist in the US.

So yes Screening and references have become necessary. You should look at it as a good thing, know that if a girl is safe with you, she is more then likely to have screened the guy before you and they guy after you.

Wouldn't you hate it to be the guy before the girl that got murdered and had his DNA in her room and on her. If she screened and something horrible happened to her, and she had an organized record of who she saw and when sure would help them clear you quickly. But the chances are that if a man means harm he isn't going to do to be someone to readily give that information. So ultimately her screening everyone Protects everyone involved. Not just herself.

Always,
Karrie-

kerrakles 192 reads
posted
4 / 32

If screening out LE is the objective then, some questions make no sense whatsoever.

What doe are circumcised or what color is your hair has to do with screening out LE?

When you complicate things and make it more difficult, criminals and killers want to find a way to beat the complicated system. By the way LE is very good at beating complicated and sophisticated methods.

Adelle Ashcroft See my TER Reviews 137 reads
posted
5 / 32

The areas you play in are hotbeds for human trafficking.And Europe has had many and some very famous instances of serial killers who only hunt providers so your opinion is not an educated one and perhaps should be kept to yourself.The United States has more violent crime per capita than any country without an active war on its soil making screening a necessity both in the civie world for employment and rental properties as well as the hobby.So while you  may have an international perspective what good is it if it is so horribly  skewed? Non of my European clients had ever had an issue with screening and just the fact that you would even be so ignorant to insinuate Eastern Europe is a happy place or you have the "inside knowledge" on no call no shows is incredible!

-- Modified on 4/22/2009 4:15:20 AM

Claudius42310 13 Reviews 120 reads
posted
6 / 32

like the original poster you are making an oversimplification which distorts the issue of screening.

the most important objectives of screening are to eliminate LE and crazies who are dangerous. additional questions may be asked to reduce other business risks as well: shorting, rude behavior, NCNS, the list is quite long.

BTW when you simplify things and DON'T SCREEN make it easier for LE to operate. sure LE may have the capacity to defeat screening but they have to spend resources to do so. when you don't screen they don't have to work so hard.

the girls are wise to assume responsible for their own safety and business practices by screening.

the client is wise to assess his own risk tolerance and either accept the risks of complying, the greater risk (IMO) of making a date with someone who _doesn't_ screen, or playing very safe and staying at home with a good book.

risks: take responsibility for your own, don't dump yours on someone else.




-- Modified on 4/22/2009 5:24:03 AM

GaGambler 122 reads
posted
8 / 32

It started off that way.

Maybe it's a good thing this post found the light of day on the GD board. Now every provider that hadn't followed his drivel on the Legal board can put him on their DNS list as well.

-- Modified on 4/22/2009 7:17:17 AM

Blackbeltxxx 13 Reviews 140 reads
posted
9 / 32

Back again I see.  Did you ever get your fake IDs so you could fool the girls?

The ladies screen to keep guys like you away.

CiaraHasFun See my TER Reviews 125 reads
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10 / 32
Blackbeltxxx 13 Reviews 76 reads
posted
12 / 32

We'll have some soup and porridge, then I'll rub your tushys till they feel better, LOL. ;)

summersizzle See my TER Reviews 107 reads
posted
14 / 32

O.K LE!!!!!!
BTW your name is subjective..... I would consider that you get extra extra screening then most here....For obvious reasons....
Le's   let's discuss this.
You read a ad or see a post. YOU see what she looks like. You find her contact info.
But...
She answers the phone. She can not see you. She is blind at this point. You ask her stupid questions like can I have full service? Where are you located? can I have your address?
What are your rates?
All usually before you even state your name.
You could be Roger Rabbit. I don't know you.
I need to know your not more like a raging rabid dog.Can We say again over and over again.
Google call girl murders. And guess what. Not only Boston's CL killer will pop up. And I will argue you that girls in Canada do not screen. In fact they do. Why don't you Google the Vancouver hookers killed there....
Now how many busts do you read about in EVERY City and guess what Canadian cities too! One of my girls in Canada can not leave the Great White North right now as to a LE issue. So yes they too screen. You just found some careless ones there then too!!!!
Silly Rabbits...tricks are for kids...
And for other countries where things are legal. Yes and it's cheaper too!!!!! They won't need to retain a mouthpiece!!!

Blissful_Belle See my TER Reviews 75 reads
posted
15 / 32

You go girl!!! I will come back later to give my 2 cents, right now i am WAY TO MAD, which i am sure was his intent. Mission accomplished dick.

Blissful_Belle See my TER Reviews 71 reads
posted
16 / 32

Thank you for the link and saying what i would love too. i am so fed up with whining clients who dont get screening, big hugs and kisses for the class acts who do get it and appreciate that we are on top of things. Pun intended ;) Belle.

CindyGold See my TER Reviews 94 reads
posted
17 / 32

...his initials ARE "LE"...!!! But after reading YOUR post... I am *LOL*... because YOU *R*O*C*K*...!!!

PleasureCrafter See my TER Reviews 84 reads
posted
18 / 32

It is clear that Larry Elmer does not believe that escorts are providing a professional service.

When I go to a doctor or dentist,I have to fill out a form with my full name,age,address,home phone and cell phone numbers,employment information and some info on who to contact in case of an emergency.  If I won't be paying in cash I'll need to provide some financial information as well(credit card,insurance,bank info).

If you hire a contractor(plumber,carpenter,electrician,landscaper),they will come to your home,you will give them info about you and how you intend to pay for the work to be done.  They may even meet your SO.

If you neglect to pay these people the agreed upon fee, you will begin to receive letters from collection agencies.

In comparison,providing requested screening information to a well reviewed and respected provider so that she feels safe in meeting you, doesn't seem like too much to ask.  

It may take more than "under an hour" for one of these wonderful women to verify your information.

It seems Larry Elmer doesn't have time for that and prefers his encounters to be of the under an hour pizza delivery variety.  That's a real shame Larry.  I just wonder what Larry does with the remaining 50 or so minutes of his appointment.....after he's had his fast food fix.Hmmmm.........

Joie "lover of sane US wimps"

Rest in peace Julissa.

ProviderHelper 99 reads
posted
19 / 32

I've worked in London, Milano, Barcelon, Madrid, Paris, Dublin.... and the list goes on and on and always used screening!

So it's definitely not a "solely US phenomenon"

Try CL!!!

Claudius42310 13 Reviews 75 reads
posted
20 / 32

makes much more sense to me than that offered by the orignal poster.

sure the US has its problems with more wackos per wingnut than most places (according to the stats) plus the LE issues. but i am glad to hear that you and other posters are contradicting the claims of poster LE in detail.

my faith in the universality of sensible risk management and reduction is restored! ;-)

houstonsmartgal See my TER Reviews 78 reads
posted
22 / 32

near about guaranteed he rarely if EVER actually plays.  seems just to lurk around the board stirring up crap and obviously lacks respect for us working gals.  my pities to anybody who did see him, had to be a lousy date

anabangbang 76 reads
posted
23 / 32

how very impressive.

so take your place in line and start jumping or leave.

LarryElmer 1 Reviews 104 reads
posted
24 / 32

I have not been to Western Europe in a while and have no reason to go in the future. I'll take Serbia, Romania, Bulgaria, even Poland- much better prices and again NO SCREENING.

summersizzle See my TER Reviews 70 reads
posted
25 / 32

You guys confuse me...you do  ot want a sexbot date...So can a chixck actually ask you conversational questions? And get to know YOU before the dopor opens... And...
Some girls do state they do not like uncut streak... So maybe that is her no I don't do... You may not like a girls with fake ta tas  . Some girls don 't like certain things about men...sorry!!! Maybe she cares you do find the right date for your hard earned dollar...

Anaïs Bourgeois See my TER Reviews 62 reads
posted
26 / 32

Hey Larry Elmer,

Have you ever been raped and beaten up by someone you didnt screen because you were too naive and trusting to verify his identity?  Well, I have and a lot of us have been through very traumatic experiences so you can shove your "little screening rant" real deep up your ass.  There is a reason why we do this and it's called safety.  Are you really that ignorant??!

"We just take advantage of guys and have you lined up"?  I am the most considerate and caring person in the world and I know a lot of ladies who are as well.   You have no respect!

SweetCheyenna See my TER Reviews 61 reads
posted
27 / 32

Men that wear pink are MEN with huge balls.

Men that are not afraid to cry are REAL MEN.

Men that help ladies screen by providing references AND NOT WHINING ABOUT IT are THE MOST awesome men of all.

Men who do not wish to comply and whine about it are not only PUSSIES but they DESERVE a CL skank, a disease or 2 and LE trailin' them.

neener neener.

SweetCheyenna See my TER Reviews 59 reads
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SweetCheyenna See my TER Reviews 61 reads
posted
29 / 32

You mean that after this CL murderer crap,you still think screening is something you do not want to do?

you sure do not seem to respect our situation.

& you just might see a "Lady" who does not screen and end up getting beaten,  raped by a man with big ol cawk, robbed and left for dead.

You are much more IDIOTIC than I first guessed.

AvaMilan 73 reads
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