Unfortunately most ladies who would be great for you are not last moment dates. I know I would need minimum of one day advance notice for a couple's date.
Lina
The wife and I just called a local gal to see if she'd come out for a "couple call". Turns out she's off on Sundays, but said the whack is for double the regular rate.. We've never done this just yet. Izzat the standard.?
Tnx in advance.. d:^) Schneeks..
though I don't know if double is standard. I just know I wish I had a wife who'd do it with me! It'd be worth the price!
Although i would never do one hour appointment with a couple. It is just not enough time for 3 way dynamics when second woman is "civvie"
Lina
Most ladies I have had join a civvie lady and myself were truely BI and only charged a small percentage of their regular fee to see both of us, or none at all there after.
Usually 100-200 more and they were a minimum of 2 hour sessions that usually went much longer due to such mutual pleasure and fun.
Find a lady that is truely BI...not just BI for pay. You both will be much happier !!
What the hell does being truly Bi have to do with rates? Shudda, that's a sentence I'd have expected from a twit or newbie; you're usually not the first and definitely not the latter.
I charge full rates for TWO people and for a minimum of two hours. I don't care if they're a couple who've been together since year one or newlyweds on their honeymoon, or anything in between. Why do I charge so much? Because most of the time it's HE who wants this, not her. The rates I charge will bring me ONLY those who really want my services.
Yes, I'm truly Bi. Yes, I've entertained one couple under that rate. And yes, we ended up being together for about a half-hour longer, but those extra 30 minutes was my gift to them because we were having a wonderful time!
So, being truly Bi has NOTHING to do with rates!
Okay, rant over.
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And yes ma'am, I agree with you on the more-than-one-hour deal, but...
..My SO at this point is "bi-curious". We've worn out CL (aaarrrrgghhh!!), AFF and such. Kept running into flakes, fakes and bullchitterz.. I don't want this thing to get jacked by some moron so I'll admit I've been a little "protective" of this first encounter to try and make sure things go well. I mean c'mon, my wife swings with me, supports my "hobbying" and is an overall great person. Bet yer azz I'm protective of that.!!
So anyways, we thought we may try to setup something with a provider just to get a little "taste" she could check out. But bedamned if the providers weren't all stayin home eatin bon-bons last night. Hehehe. The few we got up with got a little wiggy over the whole "real wife" thing. And then there was the "double whacker" from the OP. This chit's 'bout turned into a second job.!!
FTR, our situation is very fluid and scheduling things in advance gets a little tricky. And I know that ain't helpin. But it is what it is. We hafta adapt. d:^) Schneeks..
Unfortunately most ladies who would be great for you are not last moment dates. I know I would need minimum of one day advance notice for a couple's date.
Lina
Yer prolly right.. Scheduling might not be sooo bad if I could make it priority over biz one day. We gotta do what we gots ta do.
The other trick's gonna be trying to figure out who that "right one" is prior to the meeting.
Might hasta do a little sampling myself to aid in that venture.. Well, if I hafta.!! Hehehe.. The things we do for love.. and sex..
Please 'scuse my ignorance, but do ya really hafta do anything different to get ready for a couple above & beyond gettin ready for a single client.? TIA.. d:^) Schneeks..
exception is made only for those I have seen before.
And yes, with a couple i have to screen TWO people instead of ONE.
Lina
Sounds reasonable enough to me.. Just curious.. Tnx.. d:^) Schneeks..
Not only screening two instead of one, but also making double-sure that wife is really into this as much as you are. If she isn't, or if she has serious doubts, then I can't in good conscience agree to meeting with both of you; it wouldn't be fair to her and it would / could put a serious crimp in your playing elsewhere later.
..We've discussed it at length and I'm not havin to do any "sellin" on the idea. Confidence is high that she's all in for it.. Matter of fact, if my flakey little ATF could get away from her dipstick live-in during a weekend or a weekday my wife's down at the beach house this post wouldn't exist.. She's been wantin a piece of that since I first showed her pics of us together.. And my ATF has promised to "turn her out" if she ever got up with the wife. Yummy..
..That said, she hasn't done this yet and there's always the possibility of a bug-out. Can't see it being any different with any other "first-timer" and ya gotta start somewhere. Might just be we wait till my ATF can get free at the right time.. That'd be about perfect.. But geezes that youngin's flakey.. d:^) Schneeks..
Most Tantra based practitioners wont ask anything or not much more for couples.
Our intent is to heat up your love life, improve personal freedom and earn a right livelihood.
Most call themselves Goddess or Tantrica or Dakini and many are on www.goddesstemple.com and www.phoenixgoddesstemple.org
So when I have the opportunity to aid a couple in their orgasmic cultivation, she is free!
I have had Female Seekers who donate too.
Blessings
Devi Ma
I charge double the rate and they must agree to a minimum of two hours. It takes a lot of energy to entertain two people at the same time and make sure that both are comfortable with it. And this is after I've met with them separately, at different times, to get a clear okay from HER as well as him.
Well, personally I do charge 300$ extra for couples: this is for menage a trois!
Otherwise if the 3rd party only want to watch I only charge 100 extra.
I had a quite a few menage a trois, they are awesome when well done but yes, they usually are extra!