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Re: Same or different every time?
6lover9 117 reads
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Definitely prefer to repeat but will branch out if not available or in a new city.

transcend20071284 reads

I have been out of the game for nearly 2 years.  Tomorrow I am stepping back to the plate and I have chosen to visit my previous ATF.  I will say I spent considerable time researching other possibilities but ultimately chose to stay with what I know.

Fellow hobbiests do you prefer the company of a known companion or do you seek the adventure of a new experience?

Ladies, (safety concerns aside) do you look forward to new clients most or do you prefer your existing ones?


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literbike333 reads

I would say regs. They are regs because we get along well. Will not be regs if lines are crossed or they push my limits.

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crimsonlass310 reads

I know it sounds totally stupid because it is supposed to be business...but I look forward to seeing my regular friends...they are like my real bf's...albeit temporary and I am fully aware of the arrangement...but they take the time to get to know me and what works for me and I them...just makes for some really great times...that doesn't mean I do not enjoy meeting new people too...these past few weeks in particular I have had the opportunity to meet some fantastic people...so I guess I like them all BUT given the choice I am taking a long time friend over a new one for comfort reasons

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mrfisher228 reads

They are the foundation of operating a business.

A wise businessman once said that the chief function of a business is the development and retaining of customers.  If you do that right, everything else falls into place.

A business must always be on the lookout for new customers and nothing ever stays static; but the retention of the existing customers is the highest priority.

So in the hobby, I still see providers whom I have known for upwards of 20 years, but I still seek out new ones here and there.  

A balance of the two keeps things lively and fun.

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MP67121 reads

Comes with the territory when you're dealing with someone who drinks their breakfast on the weekends. ;)

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Bedspread188 reads

I have focused on the relationship that I have with my customers.  The relationship and trustworthiness and attention to their needs and wants is what keeps them coming back to my business rather than looking at the myriad of other choices that they would have.

Relationships are key.

That's true in any business.

You have to do the right thing at all times and you have to be good at what you do.  Those two points are the minimum.  

The rest is about the relationship.  Respect them, be trustworthy, always listen to what they say and understand what they're asking or telling you and then respond appropriately.

That's how loyalty is gained in business.

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Priapus53205 reads

OTOH ( & forgive the cliche ), "variety is the spice of life".

Depends on the preferences of the the individual hobbyist.

-- Modified on 7/8/2010 3:23:35 PM

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HaleyOrlando190 reads

although I do like the idea of seducing a virgin to this type of meeting. The unexpected can backfire and turn into a little less than you hoped for.

For my comfort level I prefer to be with a man I have seen before.

Kisses Haley

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jsparrow2172 reads

I have a couple of ladies I try to see every month. We know each other well so the encounters just get better and better and more adventurous.

But it is always fun to experience the "new".  And that tingle in your stomach when you are going to a lady's door for the first time is such a RUSH!!

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jaydalee206 reads

I also like to meet new interesting friends.With a regular or gentleman you have seen more than once I am more comfortable.It's sometimes awkward meeting new people for the first time,but some have turned out to be very genuine and great guys.

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Oldmember195 reads

In my earlier hobbying days, it was all about doing someone different every time.  As I have gotten older, I've coalesced to a few very close regulars, and I almost hate trying out anyone new...

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SL2108 reads

An interesting comment- exactly what I'd say myself.

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MP67136 reads

And each time was different than the last.

I'm not knocking new ladies at all. They were all new at one point.

But I think it's cool when you see one you've seen before, and it was totally different.

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6lover9118 reads

Definitely prefer to repeat but will branch out if not available or in a new city.

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stevens68128 reads

Both? I had an ATF I went to on a semi-regular basis, but I also liked to try someone new from time to time.

But the best thing about the ATF was that it was different every time.

Now my ATF has moved, so I am playing the field looking for a new ATF.

Sometimes you want a shared intimate experience, sometimes you just need to get laid.

Don't overthink it.

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hound_dog69110 reads

For regulars, the comfort level allows you to relax... be more fully be in the moment... explore new things (with the right person) you might not normally try or ask for... I think it's easier to forget it's P4P for a bit.

With someone new, you get the excitement/rush of the first time encounter... the nerves for some...

So are you a sky-diver, rock/ice climber, or are you a relaxing on a warm beach with a cool drink kind of person?

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flikker1108 reads

I am familiar with them as they are with me, and the sessions are much more interesting. Not to say I won't visit with someone new either for variety or because I travel a lot. But my "usuals" are great ladies and I will, for the most part, stick with them.

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mazzus109 reads

will always choose someone I have enjoyed before if available.but I usually keep my eyes open.

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Carla_capri156 reads

I RECENTLY decide to see only
existing clients
I  enjoy much more
XOXO
CARLA

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Crazy Diamond100 reads

Both apply.  I enjoy the comfort of seeing those ladies in my circle of friends, but there is a definite fun element in probing for new friends and experiences.

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johnhuntback103 reads

with and prefer seeing one of them. Once in a blue moon I'll see someone new, but that's rare.

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mistressjessica108 reads

Some days I love, love, love to visit with old friends and share what is comfortable and genuine..

Other days.. I want/need to get that "frist date thrill"

Confession.. There are days to be sweet and sensual and other days I just want to get down and dirty.. I have clients for both.....

We all get tired of the same ol same ol icecream everyday.. It is just more acceptable for men to say it and do it... Thats why I love what I do.....

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AlfredReader124 reads

I find first dates tend to be largely the same, it's the repeat visits with a woman that lead to many of the new & different experiences.

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