For me it has been how much many of them seem to genuinely love sucking cock. And a corollary to that would be what an unbelievably mind-blowing, full-body orgasm they can you give doing it.

and professionalism in this business.

...They are clueless as ever....

I wasn't really surprised at all. If anything, most providers are no more talented then the civvies I have seen so while I wouldn't call it surprising, more like initially disappointing.    

When I got into this I had the preconceived notion that most of the ladies would be cold manipulative and obviously just in to this for the money. Don't get me wrong the money is the main motivator in most instances. And some ladies are more businesslike than others. But a lot of these gals have the same dreams, fears and self doubts that regular women do. So I guess my biggest surprise with a couple ladies was how honest and genuine they are. Trust me no one is going to mistake me for sugar daddy material, but some of the actual real experiances I've been lucky enough to share have blown me away. Not going to elaborate as discretion works both ways in this world. At the risk of some fella telling me its all an act, I'll just take the shots. Yes there are many skilled actresses in this world I've met a few and had fun. But the experiances I'm speaking of couldn't be faked or were there any reason to fake anything. So the notion that all providers are just money hungry actresses like I thought going while for the most part true, is not a one size fits all answer.  

He thinks they're really enjoying it.  What they are actually also good at is pretending they do.  As a man once said to P.T. Barnum, "There's a sucker born every minute."  In this case, it's the "suck-ee."

Must be some kind of oral fixation… I like feeling the shape of it in my mouth and sliding my tongue along every crevice. Gets me excited that I'm feeling very closely and intimately what's about to slide inside me.

Hmmm… maybe those civvies are providers and they're just not telling you…

But some day he may get that dose of reality on his own. He must first fall off the cloud that he is on.

Nah, if someone hates something, they're not going to be good at it. I'll admit if I get a penis I don't like my BBBJ skills aren't the greatest… well, not as good as they could be… because I f*cking hate it.

They do with me,
They tell me.
Just not you I guess. Sorry

It's probably been said a zillion times on this forum that providers lie. I'm not saying that any of the providers on this forum do, but I'm really just floored by how many I've had tell me lies that were so blatant.

i was thinking, i've got a bridge i can sell the op!

they are all pink on the inside.

Hmmmm You should visit me Panthera... lo

There's no upside in showing any hooker that she's full of shit.  What would that accomplish?

and what they say about you. What they say face to face to you seems to differ drastically from what I have heard and read.

Good discover- this I bet made you more happy man

Good discover  
Yes it is Exactly  a case - we are from flesh blood and tears and laughs and orgasms to share not to sell . thank you that you boys can appreciate with with money  

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Every fella here married or single does this for diffrent reasons. Honestly I don't know totally what my own reasons are. I am the primary money maker in my family, she works part time. But if I didn't bust my tail working a full time job and running a side buisness she would have to work full time. No biggie I enjoy the challenge. Would escorts be cheaper in the long run? If ya factor in the cost of an extra car, kids, and other things and did a per hour based on how much a married couple with kids usually has sex, then probally.  

I never said they didn't tell me.  I simply said I don't believe all of them.  Now go off and cuddle someone, dimwit

I never imagined that there were beautiful ladies, with model looks, that are almost insatiable. They can give you a super-charged session that leaves you totally spent. And they can have multiple orgasms during the session. It’s not mechanical – they are often getting as much pleasure as you are. Some can do doubles so you get two ladies at once. I have been able to experience what for most men is only a fantasy.

The most funny ones are when they complain about BFs are cheating on them. And the fights they have. blah blah.  
So now I have turned to a new leaf. Don't see a provider more than two or three times. Unless she proves that she thinks like a guy. Fuck and be free.
Not sure why the providers complain about BFs fucking other gals. They are fucking dudes all the time. But then they say whoring is work. What they don't enjoy getting fucked?  
An "O" is an "O" can't understand why it makes a difference if you get it working or cheating.

I pay not to hear sir or madame  

misstep is not using common sense when needed.

Well I've had good and bad from providers and Ms Ova was not a disappointment.

Speak for yourself!

with no rules and dignity offending and lying  to wives  
You gentlemen the best here  
 other good men  they are just not soo open minded to  become part of that hobby in order to protect your family raise  kis and yet be happy yourself  
as to monogamy i tis religious institute and no needed nor for males nor for females  
   .. you are unconventional  and risk takers .. such characteristics  actually are characteristics of leaders .

Really.  I never expected this.

The movie "the 40 year old Virgin" is your Biography.

Well, I have 5 kids and 12 grandkids so if you count the blow job I got from Hungry Helen in Saigon I've now had sex 6 times.

the GND types.

You are work whether you want to believe it or not buddy. Her fucking you and moving on with her day so that she can pay rent is not the same as her SO becoming physically and *emotionally* involved with someone else, putting serious time and thought into his discretion.

this is true. I don't know why morecoffee would ever assume women are getting Os while they are working. some might, but certainly not all.

Care to define Johnny Boy for me?