But them I found a provider who made me like it..

Very few men request this, though I can't help but wonder if they simply fear that it would seem "gay" -- or perhaps that they are not clean enough.  Hm!  I know that both of my mates absolutely love it, and I love to do it for them!

Thats one thing I've only had a VERY few times in my life.  It drove me wild when a woman started licking there, partially because of the sensation, partially because it was such a shock that she would do it.  
Its also something I just could never ask a lady (civvie or pro) to do, she would just have to do it.
MVR

Re: Rimming

Love it both ways.

Is OK by me... can take it or leave it... mostly depends on the specific situation.

it find that I am more willing to give then receive.  I guess I should just ask more often but I prefer to let things flow naturally.

Many ladies seem to love receiving but do not, as a rule reciprocate.  But when they do, Yikes, my most sensitive sensation.

I also love a prostate message, but that is another topic.

One of my four ATFs loved to receive.  She would climax with this more easily and reliably than any other way. She could climax a second time if I repeated while she used a vibrator.  (The interesting thing about it is you can tell when a lady climaxes during rimming because there is an anal wink reflex that seems to be tied to climax.)   I only love to give or receive if it seems to get a good pleasure reaction.

it doesn't really do anything to me.  Now I have had it done a few times to me and the sensations were good.  However, I do not like doing it at all.

Yes, it is a personal choice, however, I just think it is unclean to stick your tongue down there.  Again, just my choice....no matter how good the feeling is.  Maybe I will get over this some day... Now greek, bring it on, lol....

Since I love to kiss, that just seems to be something that might interfere. Kissing after rimming just doesn't appeal to me at all. Given the choice, I'd rather kiss all night long.

not sure if I want it...  what does it feel like?  does it feel gay?  seriously...  does it feel like a bj?  what?  
I'm of the school that my asshole is output only.

Don't mind giving a rimming to a lovely woman (though definitely not required), but receiving is not for me.  Nothing against people who enjoy it, and I also don't think it has anything to do with "latent homosexuality."  I just personally have horrible memories of my doctor doing a colonoscapy (spelling?) when I was younger (had stomach issues).  Ever since then (besides a doctor), that region is off limits.

Some understandable find it a bit too funky and I don't want them to think I'm being gypped if they refuse it.

On the other hand, if they are into it and start in on me, my toes just curl right up.

I also like to return the favor.

It should go without saying that absolute cleanliness of the places where the sun don't shine is a must.