Your concerns are based primarily on stereotypical old wive's tales about the vagina stretching out from over use.

"I thought I was gonna get a bunch of loose, banged out gapeing (sic) twat"

Oh stop you silver tongued devil you. How DO the ladies tear themselves away from such a charmer?

We can push babies out. Do you really think your two inch wonder is going to wear anything out? Ever heard of the kegal muscles?

Hey, how do providers keep themselves tight?When I got into this hobby I thought I was gonna get a bunch of loose, banged out gapeing twat, but actually most have been rather tight. Whats the secret?

LOL Actually, the more we have it the more we stay tight; it's exercise of the best kind. So give us some more exercise!

You just have a big one!
I do yoga, if you're doing it right, you're basically doing kegels the whole time.  Never had any complaints!

Dear Lorena, you are so right, but unfortunately very few ladies know how really and strongly to squeeze me. Since I occasionally read your mail and replies, I looked up your picture; would LOVE to meet you; are you ever coming to the East Coast?

as they increase the strength and hardness of the erection and the force of ejaculation.

LOLOLOL! Got two kids and was there. I know it can stretch a mile, but the SO isn't as tight as she was before and even though I have nine plus inches I know I'm doing no damage. Yes have heard of kegal muscles and ben-wa balls and all the other pussy contracting exercises. Just didn't think a woman could squeeze that tight for half an hour to an hour. Thanks for the insite. I love it!

Also not having a child helps. I know man providers have a child(ren)...and let's face it,that stretches some things out.

We combat that with kegel exercises and intense orgasms!  I love giving a good tighter squeeze during a session

That walking in high heels exercises a females 'interior' muscles.
Who knew such a wonderful 'esthetic' could also be so amazingly functional!!  
Any feedback on this ladies??

Yes, an Italian female gynecologist found this out; but she recommends 2 inch heels. That shows that fuck-me-pumps are really good for the sex lives of men and women.

For some it's genetics and sometimes age doesn't hurt.  Like another lady said it's the same for me I masturbate lol, occasionally do kegels but even do them during interciurse.

as others have expressed, many things from age to genetics to trauma (such as childbirth), effect a woman's "tightness." personally i am much more snug "down there" then i was as a teenager, which at first i found odd but now realize it is due to the fact that my vagina and surrounding muscles get much more exercise now. as a teen i was still so curious and fascinated about sexual intercourse that whenever it would happen i was almost in a state of paralysis physically, focusing on the sensations only. now when i have intercourse my focus is on pleasing my partner, maximizing the intensity of sensations for HIM. it did not take long to figure out how to accomplish this, and now it has become instinctive for me. and of course, i have a heck of a lot more sex now than i did as a teen. for me the combination of regular exercise and good old-fashioned use has created a vagina so tight that i have to pop a few advil before gyno visits.