Curious, has you ever met with an escort that has no reviews?  She's new, she's smoking hot, great website and I really want to meet her but I'm slightly hesitant.  Did you take any added precautions, how did you handle it?  I realize everyone needs to have a first time but I have a comfort level meeting ladies with some reviews.

One girl I saw, her friend (A provider I already saw) referred me to her, so I knew she was legit. And the other time was with a girl I met in TER chat. I was very cautious, before meeting her. We talked on the phone a few times and she seemed for real. I met her and she was just as advertised.

That being said, I don't recommend seeing providers with no reviews, it's just way too risky. I understand everyone has to start somewhere. All I can say is, use your best judgment and don't think with the little guy.

Correspond with her.  Talk with her on the phone (an absolute must if there is no track record).  And see if she will meet in public first.

There are lots of ways to hedge out the risk.

She's on citivibe. I do have a whitelist and can give her the info. she needs to feel comfortable meeting me.

sounds like a train wreck waiting to happen.

I agree with the other poster.  I'm in a similar situation (I have no reviews), but I do know a reviewed lady, so that helps.  Give that a shot.

In these cases of no prior reviews, I've given thought to forewarning the provider that, if I'm negatively surprised upon meeting her, my intention would be to turn around and leave. (By that, I mean iif she's not the same girl in the pic or there are significant other issues.)  Frankly, I haven't yet had the balls to be that blunt, worrying that it might just shut the whole process down before it starts.

What exactly would you like from in the form of reviews?  I have a whitelist, I can any of the info. a provider would ask of me.  Are you saying because I haven't written any reviews?  I'm confused on what you'd like, naomi

At what point would it be unfair to just pack up and leave her? I mean if she has misrepresented herself and looks nothing like her images the moment you lay eyes on her, I think you shuld turn around and leave and DO NOT leave any money.

Now what would those significant other issues?  Because......

...if she is like her images and things are going well but she won't allow Greek or you have a pimple on your winky and she refuses BBBJ, and you decide to get up and get dressed and leave. and take your money back..no that's so not cool and I would hope she moved the donation and that you would not even consider doing that.

If you have to have reviews, then leave her until she gets a couple. You assume some risk seeing a lady without reviews. After all even a woman with reviews, can use YMMV if things are not right for her (size issues, your hygiene, roughness etc). Contents of a review do not mean a lady has to do what she did with the first guy she saw.

Why not?

I meant he hasnt written any reviews and she doesnt have any reviews, so that means he's fairly new himself.

As for your suggestion of leaving if its not the girl in the pics - great idea, but what if it turns out to be a girl with a big old pimp and they aren't going to let you just walk away?

A hobbiest who's been doing this for awhile has probably learned all the warning signs or most of them anyway and will know when to cut bait. but someone inexperienced might just walk into a bad situation.

I TOTALLY CONCUR.. SIR !!  Annie

In both cases, I did extensive emailing and/or phone converstation with the person so that I felt comfortable about the situation, and both times worked out very well.

Not what will actually happen with every single hobbyist. Could you possibly calm down before you post?

You have no reviews so I must assume you are in the Newbie catagory.   I just can't recommend this situation.  First reviews are most suspect.  I am not willing to risk my few opportunities to a gal with no reviews.
HV

Actually, I have seen a couple girls with no reviews. To me they seem less ran through than girls who have like 20 reviews. Think about it, For every guy that posts a review there has to be at least 20 more who have seen her & not posted. Girls with no reviews are sometimes a little nicer & more real if you ask me. for the girls that have over 30 reviews, you can only imagine how long & how many men they have seen. I recently saw an unreviewed girl & she was very nice. Also keep in mind that every reviewer is a different guy with a different attitude & looks, so each experience will vary.

Personally, I would expect the guy to leave if I turned out to be fake, so I don't think it needs to be said. If a girl is lying about how she looks then who knows what other tricks she has up her sleeve. On the other hand, I'm pretty sure I would decide not to see someone who came out and said it, unless he was able to say it in the right way. It could easily come off as bullying.

I feel reviews shouldn't matter.  I'm sure most o them are fabricated or strictly for entertainment.  If you are attracted to a provider's ad, pics or website, take a chance and see what she's all about.  How is a non reviewd provider suppose to get established in the business if you guys don't give her a chance?

Nikki Raye