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Re: Really?
BIBARNEY 52 Reviews 125 reads
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Ok guys...I don't want to dump her because she has fake boobs. Her boobs are far from the only thing that keeps me coming back.

I am just afraid if I am honest with her, it would hurt her feelings and if I say I really like them and try to be as excited as she is about them...she will read right thru that. After two years we are very honest with each other and share our honest feelings unlike a relationship outside the hobby.

I was hoping to get a couple of girls to comment..that have been thru this...how to say they are not my cup of tea...but I still like ya.

As far as continuing weekly visits...she does lose points on the "she is the perfect package" she is now the perfect package except her boobs. Maybe I should wait to see them..but I have seen tons of bolt ons..the good ones look good...but are less fun to play with/suck.

I am not sure....what to say when I see her next...don't want to hurt her feelings...but will also have a hard time acting like I really like them either..I am not a good liar. If asked if I like them..maybe... "yeh but I was fine with the old ones too". Girls chime in too.

I am really concerned...we have been at it at least every week,,,for two years...and am afraid it just won't be the same.

literbike281 reads

Be gentle but honest if you have a good rapport with this lady and want to be truthful (gently though).

But really, how much do you think in the real scheme of things do boobs matter? I am asking because you might be a total boob guy and it will have a very big impact. If you have seen her as often as you say, there is a lot more about this woman that enthralls you...or at least that's what I am hoping.

And her boob job may just be a really good one so much so that you may not notice the difference.

Last but not least, if it bothers you that much, find a new asp with real ones and hope she doesn't get a boob job.

Pardon me, LB, but I believe that your techie slip is showing. Most ASPs only have virtual boobs.  ;-)

I don't know why she didn't ask your permission to begin with. Just kidding! Probably best, if asked, to be specific about what you like and dislike about them. Best to start out with the likes. Then gently proceed to talking about what you liked about them before. But, beware! It's like the age old question women ask; "Do these pants make my butt look big?"

You see her every week? For two years?  Dude, if all you find attractive about her is her chest I guess you are just going to have to dump her and go find another fav...

If, on the other hand, you enjoy her company I'm guessing that you will get past the new boobs and continue to enjoy the time you spend with her.

Either way, I guess you are about to find out what the real attraction to her is...

Boob-Fail136 reads

Hurt her feelings?
Think about this...She didn't inflate them for you.
She's not your girlfriend either.

Find a new provider. There are plenty of them around here that are frothing at the mouth thinking about 104 paychecks this very minute.

You need to MAN UP while you are at it.

 

Be honest, but not over-dramatic. Unless you ONLY saw her for her tits, there are other things to like about her.

It's fine to say you prefer natural, but give it time. Maybe they'll grow on you ;-)

If you tell her what you think...start looking for another ATF now!  Obviously it was a big decision for her to do this. And just as obviously, she's been seeing you for two years and is going to be "excited to see what you think".  Well, tell the truth just before you say goodbye.  You will kill whatever relationship you "thought" you had.  It will hurt her, and kill any ATF deal you had

On the other hand...be positive.  My two favorites have had enhancements...and if it's done right guess what....it's hard to tell.  They just look more perfect...and bigger.  If you can't handle bigger and possibly better.....well, start googling "Natural A Cups"......

For HER!!!!  Every week for two years????  Hell with the money she made off of you she could have bought a new ass and face too! Just in case you don't feel like a total chump and ATM....You should!  It's not like she owes you an explanation, she can do what she damn well pleases!  All she needed was someone to see her every week for 2 years!
Did you ever stop to think that this is what makes HER happy?  Guess not?  Perhaps the new boobs give her a new feeling of beauty, or hotness, or just new comfort in her own skin!
And all YOU can do is whine because YOU don't like 'em!  What a selfish, pigheaded wimp you are!
You need to be placed in a threesome with two very horney, heavy hung trannies!
God I hate whiney man-bitches like you!

You need to think long and hard about what's important to you.

Do her feelings mean absolutely nothing to you?

I can't imagine seeing a woman weekly for two years and then ditching her over something superficial like that.

bolt on boobs95 reads

It sounds perfectly explainable to me.  Regular sex with a chick that looks great and gets you off.  None of the bullshit of a relationship.  Then she goes and renegotiates the deal, so he's got a decision to make.  Personally, I've never repeated that much, but when the big fake boobs appear, I leave.  I don't even dislike implants that much, but there have been a couple chicks with great natural sets before adding to them.  It's just not the same for me.  Both did fine after the upgrade, but I went back once with each and was done.

Ok guys...I don't want to dump her because she has fake boobs. Her boobs are far from the only thing that keeps me coming back.

I am just afraid if I am honest with her, it would hurt her feelings and if I say I really like them and try to be as excited as she is about them...she will read right thru that. After two years we are very honest with each other and share our honest feelings unlike a relationship outside the hobby.

I was hoping to get a couple of girls to comment..that have been thru this...how to say they are not my cup of tea...but I still like ya.

As far as continuing weekly visits...she does lose points on the "she is the perfect package" she is now the perfect package except her boobs. Maybe I should wait to see them..but I have seen tons of bolt ons..the good ones look good...but are less fun to play with/suck.

Tell her what you honestly think.  If she acts all hurt she doesn't respect your opinion and its time to find a new ATF.

I think you have feelings for her and she is using you for money.  She's taking that money and making herself more marketable   She's a smart businesswoman.  I respect her.

Remember this is a business.

I will report back Friday..as I am seeing here.

Feelings??? well yeh if we have been seeing each other that long...but not in a way that I want anything more than we have.

She is not marketing herself as a provider...but a gold digger..yes. We have talked about it and she is looking for that one guy. She knows it is not me. She has one on the string right now...maybe he wanted the boobs and that trumps me.

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