I have read a lot of threads of the past year or so on many a board about how much a provider charges and how some are looking for the more bang for there buck....

My thought is this ~ Which would you rather have a real GFE experience were the provider has taken time to prepare just for you maybe even having only one or two appointments in any 24 hr period so she can be refreshed both mentally and physically and emotionally for you! Payed attention to your post your thoughts on the boards and has been thinking of nothing but the time you will spend with her. how ever she cost probably 50-75 more then the provider that charges less. But by charging less that provider has to deal with quantity and is physically , mentally , emotionally worn out or wearing her self out so it's hard for her to really be fully there for you.. She's just had two may be three appointments prior to yours or is all ready think that it's 3 now and I have a 430 with ****** so I need to be done by 4 so lets get this done...She doing quantity getting a lot of appointments but isn't truely completely there for you... Yes you get things done but just like the last guy and there's thoughts of the next apt some were in the back her mind too.

I'm not saying that it's wrong to do more then one or two appointments a day I just know that It wears a person physically and mentally and emotionally ... There's no way unless your a robot it couldn't regardless of age and stamina your body can only take so much and still be refreshed and feeling renewed ... even a base ball player can only play so many innings before there worn out too... Thats why they seldom play more then one game during a 24 hr period and age has has nothing to do with it.. nor how many times in your life you've done it... I had only been with 12 men before I started this and I know 22 year olds that could triple this ten times over..


This question is more for your thoughts on what is more important to you~ Personally I prefer to yes charge a little more and even with that my specials tend to bring it back down but I wouldn't be me or survive inside and out if I had to go for quantity ,, So I much prefer one maybe two apts in a 24 hr period so I can not worry about anything but them and being just me smile.gif.....

Like I said This is just how I feel no reflection on anyone or how they do things I just wanted to know a hobbyist thoughts on this...


quality? for a little more $$ or quantity for less $$


Just my thoughts
Jessylee


9 I have posted this topic on other boards just so  I could be a various of personality types of responses so sorry if you've seen it before  JL)

I've seen both in my few experiences- one of my very best was a travelling lady who I am quite sure packed as many in to her days in town as she could.  I was her last of an evening-  10:00 to midnight, and she was stellar- had I not already known that she saw several before me, I would not have known- she did a wonderful job!

In another instance, just by the fact that there were no towels left when I got there, I knew one had seen some before, and I could tell she was sore and tired, but she was a trooper and hung in there.

I also have seen some that only do one a day, and one in particular builds the experience from first contact- so that when you finally get there, it is amazing- she is actually not signifantly more expensive on her multiple hour visits, but does require a multiple hour or at least books longer in priority over shorter requests.

I guess what I'm saying is I like quality, particularly enjoy quality and am willing to pay for it.  But I also don't require a low volume provider, I know that a stellar lady can handle the volume and keep the experience good!

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I will always take the quality over the quantity...

A couple of hours of quality time with a beautiful lady is what I look for.
Even if it's only one pop, that quality time is what I want. I can enjoy giving pleasure as much as getting.

Having 3-5 or more pops doesn't mean a thing to me if it's just slam bam, and slam bam again.

Just my opinion...
B

When I'm with a person who is charming and memorable, that means more than anything else.

If this requires more preparation and therefore a higher charge, then so be it.

There is nothing worse than throwing away any amount of money on a session where I am unhappy with it.

There seems to be an assumption that a woman who sees three or four guys a day can't provide a quality experience. I don't buy it. Yes, some women become very good at managing traffic and doing the least amount they have to but any true, well reviewed GFE is never going to give you a way of figuring out that you are her fourth of the day of her first.

I have found quality and at a price that allows me to book as often as I want.

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If I can leave an appointment feeling "high" and, well let's face it, cared about. Then I am willing to pay a bit more for it. Just one thing I have to keep in mind is since I am not a business owner or multi-millionaire, I have a budget. It is finding someone inside that budget level that can make me feel that way (I have found one).

You were talking about 50-75 more, and that is VERY do-able for anyone if the quality experience is there. I should think a provider would get a ton more repeat business with quality sessions over lots and lots of new guys with quantity sessions.

As a side note, after seeing the main pic on your front page of your website....WOW! A quality session from you would bring me back again many times.

to see you.   Fresh and rested is easily sensed and the opposite similarly.  I wouldn't stay seeing a lady that appears to be thinking "Oh my God I got ChannelGuy and one more yet to go."

I've sensed that before and I'm almost guilty that I'm there to see her.

Bad feeling

I'm on a limited budget, and can't afford a multiple hour session. I choose to seek quality over quantity, which of course means that I hobby less freqently.

I think getting the feedback you are asking for is an important step in your decision-making, however, I would like to recommend that you search for the answer from within yourself also, though I'm not assuming you haven't. But, just in case you haven't. I also have to see many people back to back in one day, and though it doesn't take much of a physical toll, it can take an emotional toll. When I first began my work I could not see more than two or three people in a row. Now it's not uncommon for me to see seven or eight people straight through. But, I developed that endurance by focusing on who I could meet and be with, while still taking good care of myself. At first, there were times when it proved to be a financial hardship, but by taking this approach, I have developed the ability to be the most fully present to a greater number of people. Again, I need to stress "who I could meet and be with," because the nature or personality of the person you are with will be a big factor in what condition you will be in for the next person, whether client, friend or family member.

If you are ever considering a trip to L.A., please let me know.

I'm looking for quality and willing to pay extra, within reason.  I traditionally like to book 2 hrs or more and a real quality "date" is one with great conversation, relaxed environment, a social drink or two, and some great time lying horizontal or in other positions.  If multiple cups are avaiable then great but one cup with a lot of cuddling is the best for me.  Therefore I no longer see traveling ladies or use agencies.  I've found what I looking with local independent whether at home or out of town.

Looks like the message is clear.  For most of us, if you're not "there", we might as well be using an inflatable doll.

The ones who see me tell me they want quality.

One regular  says our time is 20 times better than a new provider (while he travels out of town) because he feels comfortable with me and the rapport established.

Clients will only become repeat clients by a quality experience. Also for traveling providers (with less likely to have repeats) reviews such on TER will be more positive when a quality experience is received. Good reviews from clients wherever they have visited will translate to more clients.
So it is in any providers interest to do what they need to to provide a quality experience for the clients.
For various reasons one provider may be able to give a quality experience to twice ans many clients as another provider.
Each provider I think has to answer that question themselves.

For me, there is absolutely no doubt about it. I prefer quality over quantity. I had a few appointments when I first started hobbying a little less than a year ago where the lady clearly just wanted to get this over with. Those experiences were very unsatisfying, not to mention a complete waste of my money. I much prefer the quality of a gfe who only sees one or two clients per day and she is refreshed and ready to see me.  There simply is no comparison.

and exhaustion can be both physical or mental

 I had the opportunity some years back of closely knowing a low volume provider who was known for her exemplary multi-hour, dinner date, overnighter GFE expertise (we were strictly platonic/business in our asociation). I had been for a long time and was still regularly seeing a provider who by anybody's standard would be labeled "high volume". Having a bit more than just a cursory relationship with both women I made a couple of interesting observations.
For reasons of simplicity we’ll call our multi hour maven “MM” and our high volume provider VP.

 Observation #1: “She works hard for the money.”
After a day of 6 or more clients VP would be physically exhausted from the redundant bump & grind. Mentally however; VP was more often invigorated by her successful time management, variance of personalities met, and the daily profit total.

After four or more hours of teasing, pleasing and being the fantasy date realized for a client that often was the total personality opposite of MM; she would often come home so mentally exhausted or full of angst that only a couple of stiff drinks and many many hours of sleep brought her back to social affability.

 Observation #2: A higher donation does not guarantee higher profits.
Even though MM had a two hour booking minimum, and many of her dates stretched to 24 hours; at the end of the week (or month) it was her highness of the one hour hit & run ‘VP’ that would consistently show a profit margin far above that of MM.

 Individual work ethics, goals and immediate financial needs all play a part in how a provider conducts herself and her desire to please the client. Client’s needs range from just wanting a NSA one hour (or less) suck-n’-fuck to that of a surrogate SO and sex therapist. Neither is right or wrong; but knowing your strengths and weaknesses as a provider and skillfully ministering to the correct demographic is “all good”.    

After nearly 4 years in the hobby I would definitely go with Quality!!  I only hobby once or twice a month but prefer longer relaxed sessions with providers who are not into offering 30 minute specials.  I will pay for quality time and time again.

Quality within reason.  If the donation is slightly higher I can understand.  But some are raising their rates faster than I can write them down on my "wish list."  For example, one lady I was trying to see in March was 600 for 2 hours and now she is up to 800.

Dam What side of the Planet do you live on?? Cause I"m moving there!!  Definitely not from Oregon! If I didn't love the Seasons so much I'd move to your town..  But I'm hooked on the real Green

I am sooooo not a 24/7 lady
Prefer seeing gents once every so often!