do either the gents or the ladies think that an exceptional DATY skill-set compensates for, say, less than generous endowment and/or less than impressive staying power?

and does toungue size matter in things DATY?  i think not, but i'm wrong about alot of stuff.

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If the lady enjoys receiving DATY and you enjoy giving it then you are in luck!.  If she really needs penetration to make her day then you may may be left out in the cold. Of course, in the play 4 pay realm it's all pretty much irrelevant as far as your ability to get dates...

As far as tongue size...I think aim is much more critical here than size...

I have had bf's and special friends who are not as skilled at the rest of it all or don't measure up to some standard they have in their head and have become masters of DATY. I love it! I encourage it. Hell yeah. Love that DATY. The rest can take care of itself, but if you get a lady turned on like no other with the DATY, it's AWESOME.

Katie

DATY is wonderful, but it is no substitute for intercourse. Both are delightful and to be enjoyed. But if I was forced to decide between DATY and intercourse, intercourse wins hands down. (Thank God I can have my cake and eat it too though)

And no, tongue size means absolutely nothing. DATY is all about what you do and how you do it

are the guys that don't know how to fuck, or can't get hard. I don't know of any providers that think DATY is better than getting fucked by a good stiff cock. Providers only love DATY from hobbyists, because they can lay back, and not have to do any work.

BTW, this notion of DATY as equalizer is ABSURD! You're paying for sex, you're not paying to satisfy the provider. WTF?





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There are a lot of guys who, though they enjoy penetration, will not finish that way because of the condom, because of age or a variety of other reasons.  There are also quite a few providers who actually do prefer mutual oral activities to penetrative sex. This is not a black and white issue. The fun is in the gray area. I would say that if a guy doesn't enjoy DATY then he certainly doesn't have to do it. If he does enjoy giving it then he is ultimately pleasing both himself AND the lady...assuming he is good at it.

preferences. I know  that there are some ladies that prefer daty to intercourse and vice versa.  Also, I think that each session can be different. There may be a session where the lady wants a lot of daty, and there are other sessions where maybe she just wants a nice intense session of intercourse.  Skills can factor in as well, I believe.  From reading on this board for a while, it seems that lots of ladies really enjoy the daty(and not necessarily because they can just lay back and do nothing).

By the tone of your post, I'm guessing you're one of those gems that we ladies tend to talk about later... omg he was so mean to me. Yup. You sound like one of those dudes.

I can tell you all of the DATY freaks I know are pretty amazing in the sack. They're just the best. Whether that stems from the fact that they did the prep work to stimulate me or bc they really are, I end up having a really good time.

I don't understand why a person seeking to have a good time would merely want someone to service them rather than put in a small amount of effort to try and increase that good time.

Hell, I don't know why you'd think that DATY is just an opportunity for us not to do anything. If you personally like it when the ladies are faking it, go right ahead and don't do the prep work. If you like it to be a mutually fun and real experience, you might want to do a little work priming the pump, so to speak.

Katie

Look up Katie the next time I am on the left coast!

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From one who has had the great pleasure of DATY with this unique and wonderful lady, and enjoyed the multiple orgasims she experienced in the process, it's a hard call which is better for the giver!

Can't wait to see you again!

And the person I am spending time with is welcome to do whatever he feels pleasures HIM. (to a degree that is)
I meet them without any blinders on, and 99% of the time, THEY request DATY.
I eagerly AGREE of course, because that tells ME he is INTO MUTUAL satisfaction, and NOT SELF Satisfaction.

BTW If I was just gonna LAY there, don't you think it would be IN my reviews?
I enjoy every bit of my encounters with everyone.
I have never left unsatisfied.
and NONE of my Gents have left unsatisfied.
To the contrary...read the reviews. They speak for themselves.

xoxo
Lusty
(Di)

now if we can just get the civvies to understand this.
every guy on the net says he is a daty master but when I'm with one I want the DICK!!!