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Re: Provider disappearing?
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Well her site has been down for a few weeks now. She's not retired, as I emailed her and she wrote back and said she was still available. I asked her why everything was pulled, but she hasn't really answered yet. I do want to see her based on her great reviews and from what I can tell of her posts on msg boards she seems laidback and cool.

After much reading up on the boards, I was getting ready to contact a provider when I noticed her website was not working, and all reviews and ads of her were pulled. She posted her schedule on other boards, and now all records of that are gone. I had emailed her once in the past, but never had the time to meet up. I emailed her again to ask if she was still available, and she said yes. Any idea why a provider would do this? There was a recent TV news story about an escort getting busted, posted her face on the news too (not the lady I was contacting). Do you think this spooked her into pulling everything? Or maybe she just had a steady stream of clients to where she wanted to slow things down? She did have limited availability so maybe this is why. Just has me worried that maybe she is LE....

She may have just decided to retire, or semi-retire.  Or like you say if she readily agreed to see you she may just be laying low.

There can be many reasons. And LE could be one. Did you ask her why she pulled everything?

Suggest a non sexual meeting to check it out.  Or else just move on.

Have fun,
TS Jamie

Advertsing increases a provider's profile, including to LE. There are lots of reasons she might have pulled her advertising site besides retirement. She may not need more clients. She may have a job that means she needs to cut back. She might have entered a relationship. She might have walked by a co-worker's desk and saw him looking at TER and thought she might be recognized. She might have other situations that would make keeping a low profile important. She might have been planning to move. I have known lots of providers sho have stopped advertising for various lengths of time and came back.

It may be that she needs to regroup because of a brush with LE or because of something else being made 'public'. If it's someone you're really interested in, just keep your eyes open, she'll probably resurface.

Turkana1352 reads

there are any number of reasons for someone to "disappear" for a while.

She could have dropped out for any number of reasons.
It could be as simple as taking some time off.

I once knew a lady who had a child in school, she did most of her work when school was in session.  In the summer she was available a lot less.

Mabey she got spoooked. We have some LE probs here in FL & some ladies took down their sites for like a day & posted retirements, which didn't last very long, lol.

Now they are saying they are under the radar.

I am not sure how a lady is 'under the radar' with their website still up, lol.

Is her website back up?

:) Sara

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Well her site has been down for a few weeks now. She's not retired, as I emailed her and she wrote back and said she was still available. I asked her why everything was pulled, but she hasn't really answered yet. I do want to see her based on her great reviews and from what I can tell of her posts on msg boards she seems laidback and cool.

If she has something personal going on she may not want to explain and just remain under radar. I often find myself changing things around depending what I have going on in my personal life. And sometimes this confuses clients and they take it personally but they shouldn't because things happen in our 'real worlds'. If she's available, see her.


sara, interesting question..

I consider myself utr but.... my site is currently up BUT my site is not linked to any ads so unless you know who lisa butler is .... then you (generally) won't find my site.

take care, xo Lisa

Just an FYI, your web site is down, on my computer anyways. All I get is an Index page.

Take care.

:) Sara

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