Get a contact.. Screens well..
He has checked out all your info a really wants to meet you...
He was planning to stop when traveling through the area.. Then changes and ask you to go with him..
3-4 days he will cover everything.. lodging, food entertainment but nothing above that..
As you talk he starts to insist you "work" while there????? Then he states he has another "provider" going with him and she really wants to meet ya too.. That you could work and offer doubles while we are traveling, get to know one another??

Needless to say at this point alarms went off...

He is on TER and I am sure will read this..

The area he is going is an area where I have serious contacts.. Yet this deal just seems to good to be true..
I feel more like he is going to :pimp: a girl or two to cover HIS vacation..

I know guys ask and take provider companions on trips.. But this seems outside the box to me..

Am I wrong and blowing a good deal or is the hair that is standing up on the back of my neck correct and this smells???

He is giving you no money just covering expenses. What about this is so good? BTW His last minute change of plans is bullshit, he has already lined up another provider who "wants to meet ya", yeah right. I'd tell this pimp  wannabe  to take a fucking hike.

ooops This is not the P&R board, I probably shouldn't be using language like that. Let me rephrase. Tell him to take a long walk off a short plank.

I have heard of guys doing something along this line.. But then the "nothing" over expenses and THEN the insistence to work?? ring ring ring...

It just smells bad!!!

you sound new to this, or you wouldn't be asking this question.
politely decline.

'he will cover everything.. lodging, food entertainment but nothing above that.. '  Now let me think a bit outta da box...

you are a TS.... has it occured to ANYONE that there is a hidden agenda here?  and I am not thinking Pimp - I am thinking along the following lines... Blackmail, filming, setting up a network of folks who like TS's....

Sorry to be so harsh, but I do believe that there is an ulterior motive that we are missing here.

Nothing harsh about your response.  I think you're right about the hidden agenda, though maybe not quite the one you've imagined since the film wouldn't be much more interesting than with a natural born woman.  But good job living up to the handle  

It seems like a strange situation.  It's hard to see much benefit for Nikki and the downside could be extensive.




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Nikki,

Yes, it definitely seems fishy. This is a question best asked on the Provider's Only board though. You have the necessary three reviews to gain access to taht board. Contact staff and ask them to grant you access to the board. This and any other question you have will be very welcome there!

I surely don't know what about this is a good deal?  For whom?  Too much going on here.  Just stinks of rotten fish!  
And you've never met this guy!  NO.  Totally NO.
skb

It doesn't sound right.  Why would he not cover anything above expenses ?  If you are still interested in going.  I would not see anyone that he set up, just your own contacts.  Hardly seems worth putting up with this guy.   Just my opinion.

Did he tell you who the other "provider" was? Did you speak with this provider? If not, forget it. If so, then just tour with her, and to hell with him.

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Next thing you know, you end up a sex slave in Japan.

man made girly down there...

Not harsh,, That angle would have been a give away.. He had not seen the fine print on me before he asked.. So I politely pointed that out..

Taken aback a bit that first he still insisted I go...
I finally said enough - not going - good bye!!!

let that go..

Very fishy..
I would love to be on the provider board and I am aware I have the 3 required reviews....

I do not feel comfortable asking for access with just 3 reviews.. That is why I have not requested access and limit my post at TER..

Should another review or two manage to get through for me then I will start asking..

A first date should never be a travel date especially if he cannot provide references.

Accept payment in cash only... and you should be paid; remember you areosing money every day you are not working.

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

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