I've had it couple times. Once from a provider, the second time from a women who dumped me. In can be cured with antibiotics and I certainly tell the ex-girlfriend.

do I, can I warn others as I am 99% sure i got it from one of two providers that I had seen in the past two weeks.  three days after I saw the most recent one i started having discharge that hasn't gone away in 5 days so went to my doctor.  I get my results back next week.  If i test positive, most likely Chlamydia, what is the protocol.  I suppose it is possible that whatever it is I may have gotten it from another provider.  i had a doubles 4 weeks ago different women from the most recent two and another a little more than 5 weeks ago.  

How far back do I go and do i send an email to all providers?  

if email, can it be an alias email?

what do I say?

lastly, how do you explain it to the wife?

how's that?

tell her you aint gonna tap that till she loses 15 pounds. by that time youll be clean

party pooper

You don't. Blame it on her!  

How far back do I go and do I send an email to all providers.

Well, I'll probably go back about 5 or 6 months back. Some STD's got incubation periods that don't show up until several months later. It is good that you want to be honest with the provider, even though this may affect your chances with seeing them in the future. But, it must be done to notify her. Yes, I would probably email the providers that I have seen within those months to let them know the situation. That's just me.

If email, can it be an alias email.

Referring to the question above. Well, some providers get weird emails all the time. If, you don't have any credibility to your claim, then they might just dismiss it as a prank. You might want to reword your message, and be specific to each type of provider you saw.

Lastly, how do you explain it to your wife.

Damn, that is probably the toughest one. I am not good of making up lies, so, I'll just tell her the truth. In situations like these, you have to tell the truth, although, you may alter it by saying, you met a girl at a bar sometime ago, and you both slept with each other. Something of that nature. I think she may freak out if you told her you have been seeing providers.

Damn dude, again, I feel very sorry for your situation, and I hope that everything is well with you. Good luck!

http://www.cdc.gov/std/chlamydia/stdfact-chlamydia.htm

Agreed, answer the question...was it BBBJ or BBFS? BBBJ is pretty rare but not impossible. BBFS is irresponsible.

I got chlamydia from a BBBJ. The thing is chlamydia is often asymptomatic and you could caught it months ago or even farther back if you don't get checked often. You need to warn every sexual partner you have had in the last three months. You can never be sure when you caught it or from who unless you test very often like I do.

I called every provider and let them know. They know the risks and the ladies I called thanked me for my honesty. Make sure it is chlamydia before you go calling everyone as there are other possibilities. You owe every sexual partner you have the truth. You can use an email but they need to know who is sending it so they know it is not a joke.

As for outing anyone as an STD risk, you have no clue who gave it to you unless you test often (monthly) as many STD can be asymptomatic almost indefinitely including chlamydia. All outing will do is get you blacklisted. Especially since you likely spread it to others.

As for your wife, you owe her the truth. You put her heath at risk, it is time for you to own it. I wish you luck. I would have the information on a good family therapist and have a good family practice lawyer on retainer as shit will hit the fan. Feel free to wait to find out that is chlamydia first though.

I been where you are and it sucks. I was lucky as my wife knew about and is fine with my hobbying. Here is the advise I got when it happened to me. I even tested negative the day after I was exposed so you never know. do not go around blaming people.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=12&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=chlamydia&SearchType=1&Author=husband&DayFrom=3000&DayTo=0&MessageID=403802&frmSearch=1#403802

Now do the right thing and warn those you have seen and don't go blaming anyone.

This thread is depressing here is a photo to make it less so. The photo is of Zusie A. from Met-Art.

And I gave it to my wife the same way. Just in case you thought BBBJ are safe. Safer then BB anal/BBFS yes, but it is far from safe. Let us all make sure we are getting your throat/rears swabbed for STD's as blood and urine tests do not show many oral or anal STD infections. I myself get my throat swabbed four times a year and have my blood/urine tested monthly when I am hobbying. I do not get the anal swab as I do not allow rimming or anything that could cause an anal infection.

This thread is a downer her is a nice photo from Met-Art.com to make it happier. Photo is of Marena B.

P.S. I know I sound like I am lecturing but that is not my intent. I engage in receiving a good BBBJ from time to time both at home and with paid dates. I am just encouraging everyone to get tested often and completely. I am glad I did. It stopped me from making other sick. Also, I tire of all the risk denial that goes on here. There is nothing safe about anything we do in this hobby, even covered there is still risk.

Wait & see what your test results are.  You know you are not having sex until this is resolved.

I had a bad scare a year or so ago...  It was an infection, not and STD!  I'd never had a UTI but I am immune supressed & WOW!  did it take off.  No sex was the least of it.  The d@mn bug was drug resistant & I ended up hospitalized, not once but twice on IV antibiotics.  

My ATF told me a story (while she was comforting me during my "vacation" from the hobby).  A client had a rash on his privates, goes nuts, confesses all to the wife.  Turns out, he'd been doing yard work & peed without washing his hands.  He had a wicked case of poisin ivy...  and was slapped with divorce papers for good measure.

If you have to confess something...  a drunk BJ might be easier to forgive than FS "sex".   You might have to sign up for counciling (for yourself) to get the heat off.  

Best Wishes,
H

Blame it on his wife?! WOW!! How about you just be more selective with whom you see, stay protected and get tested reguralry?!  Gee, now there's a common sense aporoach!!

Sorry again that you caught something, Scoed. I hope the fucking girl that gave you an STD is proud of her fucking self for not getting herself tested and treated.

its one thing to fucking jump the gun and tell the wive your fucking hookers. its another fucking thing to warn providers that should get themselfes fucking tested JUST IN FUCKING CASE.

...chill with us and find out.

thats cool

After I found out I was calling ladies warning them, she called me to let me know. She is an ethical lady. This shit happens in this game. I tested regularly so I limited who I exposed. Even if a provider tested weekly she would still expose many men. She did the right thing. It happens. Test often and be prepared if it does happen to do the right thing. Thing is I took the risk just like most here, I am to blame for my contracting chlamydia not the provider. We must all own are own choices and not blame others.

This isn't a happy topic so here is anther photo from Met-Art.com It is of Katy D.

STFU...   Don't jump the gun, Don't admit, just play fucking dumb. If you can't play dumb then just play dead and during that time you'll have plenty of time to think about what you're going to say to her.

I've had a number of scare before but the gf at the time was fucking sensitive to almost anything. She got culture test and it turns out to be normal. Just sensitive skin.

Another time, another scare: Turns out it's yeast infection.
Yet another time I had a scare, UTI.

Last year, I recall the girl at the time had bumps all over her vagina. At that moment, I was 100% sure I was going to get caught... but kept my mouth shut.  She got culture tests and blood tests too, it came back as something non-std. Doctor ordered some antifungal cream and she got better.

Talk about relief!  Not one was a known STD!! In fact with all the scares I had with that gf at the time, I started thinking if the doctor was someone I know and was trying to help me out. lol
 
Lesson Learned: it is crucial you keep your mouth shut.

Now I keep some antibiotics handy and make sure I get tested before getting near my new GF.  If I know I'm going to be doing the girl before I get a chance to test or pop in an antibiotic, I opted for CBJ and skip DATY. I prefer BBBJ over CBJ , like majority of men, but then that is secondary to keeping my girl healthy and with me.

Fortunately, there are many clinics in this country that make testing a fairly easy process.
Sometimes it is just a quick and painless 30minutes to get tested and majority of the results come back instantly.

Also, get yourself immunized to certain STDs. I forget which ones but there are vaccines for either herpes 1/2... or was it hepetitis B/C. Look them up, some of these have some sort of vaccine and it's imperative that you get them.

both were cbj but a little daty on the one and the other I wetted my fingers in my mouth after touching her pussy.    I will definitely tell my wife even though it will lead to divorce.  

I will definitely wait until i get the results.  

if positive, I will do the right thing and call all providers I have seen in the past 3 months as I have only been hobbying that long.

No bbfs during that time but a lot of bbbj's

as for my wife i will definitely tell her, and i will say that it was a bbbj.  

I believe the provider I got it from may have been high on something and i remember my gut told me to something was wrong about her.  

By the way, I only see high end girls in my area.   i have not seen any backpage girls.  

Yo? Beotch?  Hmm..are we in the ghetto??!

Re: You're new here, huh? Someone please explain my twisted sense of humor... .eom..

Oh I see..1e call that a "twisted sense of humor?". I'll keep that in mind!

here's a pic...

?! You people have far too much time on your hands!

Fuck yeah! But staring at Katy D's pantyhose is making me fucking dizzy LOL!!!

And why the fuck not ROFLMFAO!!!!

Good point.  Warn providers that your test is pending, because they will not know to get tested before resuming activity.  I'm pretty sure providers will know you hobby!  LOL!!   I was refering to confessing to SO.

Incubation period for chlamydia is 7-21 days. For gonorrhea it is 1-14 days. Given the reported symptoms, it is most likely one of these (or actually a co-infection with both, which is fairly common).

Because the longest likely incubation period is three weeks, you can rule out anyone you saw more than three weeks ago.

At the very least, you should set up a secondary email account (make sure you use it in a fashion that will give you a different IP than you usually have) and inform all women with whom you have had sexual contact in the past three weeks that it is possible they are infected. If your writing style is distinctive like mine, you can disguise your style with an online dialectizer: http://www.rinkworks.com/dialect/

Make sho'nuff they git their throats checked, particularly eff'n it turns out yo' haf chlamahdia.

As for your wife ... I suspect it is likely you don't have sex with her much anyway. If she isn't someone you've had sex with in the past three weeks, don't say nuthin. HIPPA is your friend.

Good luck!

Chlamydia is so common, that Aetna insurance included that in a list of things to be checked for on your yearly medical check up.  Aetna was the health insurance provider for the company I work at.  Really surprised me to see that included.  It must really be out there for sure.

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I guess we caught you on a slow night. It's all good. Everybody needs some down time now and again.

You have to realize that a lot of us have been trading quips back and forth for quite some time. For the most part it's all in fun, though occasionally it can get pretty nasty.

What I'm trying to say is, I, we, appreciate you coming on here and give us a spanking. Really.

I usually pay extra for it, but if you're willing to dole it out for free I'll take seconds...

Hmmm..was that an attemot at being clever..or perhaps you were going for funntly?! Nice try!! I sure hope you're better in the sac as you are with being smart!!

Posted By: MP67

I guess we caught you on a slow night. It's all good. Everybody needs some down time now and again.

You have to realize that a lot of us have been trading quips back and forth for quite some time. For the most part it's all in fun, though occasionally it can get pretty nasty.

What I'm trying to say is, I, we, appreciate you coming on here and give us a spanking. Really.

I usually pay extra for it, but if you're willing to dole it out for free I'll take seconds...

Hope you had a great Holiday season!

i dont swallow ANY saliva durin the bbbj. To ensure if god forbid they got that i wont get it in my throat too.

And BTW, I see you're knocking them right out of the park with all 5 of your mediocre reviews...