hey ive been seeing alot of the more upscale providers & agencys arent even listing a phone # anymore , the 1st contact has to be done thur e-mail or thur an {on line appointment form} , you have to give them your name ,phone# & other info. & then the provider calls you back.....i realy want to this  upscale girl & she has an only form , has anybody here ever dont it this way?? , i knda like doing it via e-mai/appointment form, i feel shes more honest/respecttable/serious & reputable..what do you all think do you like calling the girl  or conacting her thur an e-mail or appointment form???

It can be real or it can be a scam. I have used email and IM to hook up with girls. Not as often as phone, but a number of times.....
Just find a well reviewed provider with reviews from hobbyists who have multiple reviews to their credit.   Then go on from there.  
But be prepared, if you are emailing, not IM'ing, it may well take a number of days to connect.

I prefer setting up appointments by e-mail. I send a standard couple of paragraphs. I generally give a few details about myself, and tell her when, where and for how long I would like to see her. Then I ask her if there is any additonal information she needs from me, or if her website indicates the additional information she wants, I will include it.

I prefer this to making a phone contact. Nine times out of ten, you need to leave a message anyway, and the message can be so much clearer by e-mail.

I prefer a gentleman reads my website and uses my request form.  It's clearer, easier to use, and no mistakes can be made when trying to verify.

Technology, it invented a better rabbit and nw easy verification forms!

Perhaps just me. Love e-mail; hate forms. If a form is the only option I'll just pass.

Not fond of forms myself.  The part that I don't like is that you have no record of sending it on most.  Being somewhat absent-minded, I often forget when I requested, or what day I sent it.  Then when I think about following up, I don't know if it's been awhile or if I'm just getting senile.

I don't like forms, as the ladies who require them never seem to return any info unless all the specifics are filled in.  Why should I give you all my info and references if I don't even know that you are available?

Why should you give us your info?  Because before I answer I screen you.  I make sure the guy is not an abuser, a rapist, a rip-off artist, a known LE, a timewaster, etc.

Come on guys!  Really, two minutes max to tell us who you are isn't going to kill you.  

One never knows if one will get their desired time or day, but one will never find out if they don't fill out the pre-screening info.

The way a potential client express himself in a mail gives me a first impression about him. I don't like appointment forms.

If he's crude, asking for sexual acts or describing his package or just being guetto, I don't even bother in making the appointment.

If the mail is polite and he tells me a bit about himself and ask what I need from him to set the date, I know he's serious and not playing games.

I would reply with what I need from him and, once our appointment is set, I ask him to let me know when is convenient for us to talk on the phone.

I always like to chat for a bit, to sense HOW he is and show him HOW I am - doing all thru mail for a first encounter is way too cold for me - I like to give a personal touch and flirt a bit before we meet.

If the first contact is done by phone, I also like to have a feel about him. If the conversation goes well, I ask for an-email with all I need about him.

I think mails - if secure & discreet - are important to have, just in case. If I need to change my schedule or there is any problems, I prefer to mail instead of calling. I hate to be indiscreet and I always worry about someone else getting the voice mail or answering the phone.

Once we meet, I don't mind if - in the future - he makes his appointments by mail or by phone. Whatever is faster and more convenient for him is good for me.

technology invented a better rabbit.........?

I'm hear on vacation in JOISEY wit my cousin SantaFollowmeClaus and i gotta read about this ! !  Very distressing ! !

Thank You
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I have a form on my website but I also offer a telephone number and an email address but those who fill out the form get priority treatment because it shows a sense of sincerity.  I think that anyone who fills that out has reviewed my site, has most of the pertinent information and is ready to move forward.  Eventually I plan to only have that and require that it be filled out because it weeds through some of the nonsense (and believe me - we get plenty of it).  I, personally, have a blackberry so it isn't like it takes very long for me to get back to someone but I also have the blackberry for other professional interests of mine.  I say fill out the form if it is a reputable lady.  I wouldn't provide my personal information to just anyone.  Good luck!  I hope you have a great experience.

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Forms gives me the info I need to screen and to see if I'm available first, then I respond...and I'm very punctual about responding since this is my business. It also shows me it's most likely to be a serious inquiry. I appreciate those who take a minute to send me the form.
Too many times I get a one line email,like 'are you available?'  or the phone call with someone expecting me to see them last minute WITHOUT screening. WTF?