The other week I hit it with a lady who agreed to meet me at one of her incalls.  As I found out upon arrival, it is one of her offices where she conducts her civvie business, with her name right on the door.  And when I called her cell on the way to the meeting, the voicemail that picked up also revealed her name and the name of her business.  Seems kind of like playing with fire to me.  Anyone ever meet providers out there 'that' trusting?

If all that is her correct information, she'll find out quick and fast you dont mix this hobby with your personal life.

On my hobby tracphone, I use a fake first, and last name with a fake company I'm a supervisor of on my voice mail greeting. Providers always think its my real info. It was even funnier when a provider once threaten expose me by posting my name info.

I've never failed a screening using my fake info, so far. You just have to learn how to be cerebral when dealing with providers. Once you learn the in and outs of this hobby, and how the typical provider thinks, it's really not that hard to convince them. #IMJUSTSAYIN

brought it up. There are some scumbags out there. What happens if the dude was a real jerk, and notified her company that she provided and provided them with the necessary references. Kinda sucks that she is so trustworthy or clueless of the potential risks of her actions.

Anyways, I would have notified her about the potential risks of what she is doing.

......usually, during our first date.  Many of my dates are multi hour and include dinner, theatre, sporting events, etc, so my true name will be found out if we are playing in my city.  If I am traveling with a gentleman, not only does he have my true name, he also has my emergency contact info.  

  In this day of advanced technolofy, if a gentleman really wants to know the ladies true identity, it is usually a few clicks away.  I also screen very well, so I have my gentleman friends true name, place of employment, etc.  Trust works both ways.

Hugs and Kisses

We discussed her name and such.  She is in business for herself.  I think she knows what she is doing.  She has multiple incalls which I believe all are at her businesses.  I would say she instantly trusts men once they make it beyond her not super thorough rs2k only screening.  I found it very strange.  

Other than this I think one woman told me her first name.  Another one reluctantly told me her 1st and last name so I could make a hotel reservation for her to stay the night before we hit it.  Other than that it's been completely anonymous on their part.

Privacy and trust is a 2 way street.  I'm just surprised how forthcoming it was in this case.

it happens it is a long time Fav.  She actually has a civie business also & neighbors think any traffic is related to that business.   Really bad idea to mix businesses like this...  or businiess with pleasure in our case.  
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Some were on the first date.

I guess I just look like a totally trust worthy guy.

Or more likely, it could be that they don't give a shit anymore.

I truly tried to stay away from this post but ... if I am going to be of assistance to anyone , the boards, the other providers or even myself  I chose to speak up.

Squeezlylabeef, you are a fairly new hobbyist one I only met one time.First of all , if you saw a name on a door , you can make of it whatever you want to but always remember... you could be wrong.You have no idea if that place of business was managed by her , if it was a sister office or a close cousin , friend of whoever....

Fact is it is none of your business .Forgive me for sounding rude to you but you put yourself out in an arena where people or at least myself, see you much differently now.Big Bro reads these boards too.
What would you do if you were questioned? Please do not make me answer that one...

The only fire that I see here , is the one that can flame from your opening the container of fuel.Talking about trust, if you make a provider feel she can trust you , then kudos to you . But once that trust is violated , like here, today ,would have has lost any trust before it was earned.  I am sorry but this is a lack of discretion where you should have known better.The way I see it , is you earned trust then you ran with it and came public. What a shame...that you could call her out, and insult her for trusting you, basically making a fool of someone . Where is all this warranted? And why? Can you not tell her that you are concerned privately?

I sure am glad I used an alias when I had to pick up a key to avoid a drive to where I had to go at such an ungodly hour of the morning.  I am sorry if I have offended anyone here. But this is so terrible in my opinion putting himself out there to possibly be questioned. Maybe we all need to carry a good piece of identification on us with a name and address as doing business as , from planet K.

Ang



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