So I met a provider who doesn’t normally do outcalls (agency girl), and have arranged to meet them at my place for a visit. My place is very clean especially since I’ve been away lately, but I was wondering if there’s anything I should do to make the visit better for them. She’s more reserved so I didn’t expect her to tell me anything, but I’d like to ensure it’s a good time. I’ve never done an outcall ever so I’ve never been on the hosting side of things.
1) Have both chilled and room temperature bottled water available for her when she arrives. Many ladies will bring their own but it's always a nice gesture to have something waiting for them.
2) If you plan on drinking alcohol, get her ok on that first, ask her her preference and don't open the bottle until after she arrives. Many ladies want to see you open the bottle in front of them.
3) Make sure you have clean towels available as she may want to shower when she arrives but more likely when the date concludes. The etiquette on showering is to assume she will shower solo, but if she wants to shower with you she will ask.
4) If it's an extended date, like 3+ hours, ask her if she would like to have some appetizers such as cheese/crackers, fresh fruit and maybe hummus or something similar.
Noted thanks. Also, what do you think I should do as far as lighting? In the agency I’ve seen her at they keep things dimly lit, should I also keep the place dark or as normal (warmly lit) for when she arrives?
If not, just keep the lighting to your comfort level. Brownjack offered you many other good tips and QB mentioning the music would be a nice touch as well. Good luck!
Bathroom: Travel size body soap, shampoo and conditioner, floss, mouthwash, breath mints, wet wipes, hand lotion, etc.
Bedside: Lube, covers, clean hand towels, etc.
I'm horny and want you, but if you really want me to burn with desire, let's eat some hummus first to get in the mood?
Anyone who is going to feed a provider cheese before getting into 69 has never really done what they are suggesting.
Not only will Robert have clean towels at the ready, if you bring over your dirty laundry, he will wash, dry and fold it for you during rest periods while the session is going. He's very skilled domestically. If YOU host HIM, he will also vacuum your incall and load the dishwasher. Don't believe it? Ask around.
And younger women seem to like hummus. Who am I to say no? lol
to be dense? I don't mind eating cheese while watching a football game in a room full of people, but my point was to not serve cheese just before a session where my face is likely to end up between her legs and her face between mine. Get it?
Likewise, if you knew that hummus was just ground up garbanzo BEANS, the same rule would apply. Farting during a session is not sexy, IMO, but you are free to disagree and do whatever you think is going to make the room smell the way YOU want it to. Lol
Irritable bowel is no way to go through life. lol.
I love outcalls to private residences! Set the mood by playing some good music that makes you happy & relaxed. Remember she’s your guest, so you want her to be comfortable. Having options helps if you have no clue what she likes. Some gents have food, or snacks available depending how long the date is. I enjoy sharing a bottle of wine, or champagne depending on the time of day. Many times I bring my own water. Remember to have fun.
if you let HER know what kind of etiquette YOU expect from HER. After all, you are paying her, not the other way around. If she shows up informed about your expectations and gives you the fantasy you were hoping for, you are more likely to repeat, which is a win for her, too.
The nice thing about an outcall is that you can get away with things that she might take offense to if you were going to her incall, like wiping your spunky dick on the drapes or blowing your nose on the bedsheets.
Yeah, I mean I see your point about setting my own expectations for the date. I’ve remained hesitant to do that because she’s new to this, and I believe that especially because I set the rate for the arrangement without any deliberation over the matter (honestly a very fair rate imo). Plus— I don’t have any reason to believe she won’t deliver a good time, she’s been great at an incall location that is subpar but she makes up for it.
Once again I’ve never arranged an outcall so I’m sure I’ll learn from this encounter; what to do differently or ask of them next time etc.
will often make up for shortcomings in their skill set with enthusiasm and a willingness to learn from a customer.
The best thing about having her come to you on an outcall rather than going to her hotel incall is that you are guaranteed to start out with a dry towel, and there is no chance you will step barefoot into some other guy's splooge. Lol
I had the rendezvous already now and it was very interesting. Safe to say it was most definitely her first time ever going to a client, whether it be hotel or private residence. It honestly was my greatest experience with an escort to date, but it wasn’t even about the action. Just a wonderful time altogether.
And yes not stepping in anything was a big plus, I’d much rather be in my clean space but I will say it did create a small challenge.
Neither of us were used to being intimate in that setting with each other. I had only done that with my past girlfriend, so it was really weird at first— and we both said it for similar reasons. Having a bachelor pad is nice but I guess there’s a mental block or something that needed to be broken. I even remarked that it was much less intense going to a place of business essentially as opposed to where we were in an actual bedroom.
The term "bachelor pad" usually refers to a place where a single guy fucks MANY women, so perhaps you have some catching-up to do? That will be fun. Lol
Sounds like a worthy challenge
I look forward to the reviews you will generate on a journey like this.
Regarding newer providers, how often do you think it is that they don’t have their own rates? I set the rate of the first outcall arrangement, and I’ve already planned another; and once again the rate of the arrangement was set by myself. I’m newer to this and especially newer to inviting a provider to my home.
I will agree with Zendz. Outcalls can be better (Depending on the weather, how things are set up, having the right type of customer & Etc). Just be careful with Cops pulling their tricks as they always do. I can't say how many times I came across stings in progress when I was heading into a session.
Wouldn’t outcalls be safer against stings no? I feel like hosting a provider (that I already have an established relationship with) at my apartment was pretty risk-free as far as LE. Only concern I had was discreteness initially.
I'm a cheapskate, so always have the place down to around 65, but gals generally like it up around 70.
Be sure the sheets and blanket are freshly laundered also.
If you do serve food, ask about food allergies or whether or not they are vegan, etc.
I stopped offering “outcalls” because I discovered that some locations, be it ones’ upscale
home or hotel was seriously lacking in cleanliness, effort or thought into creating an inviting,
comfortable encounter.
A sanitized, odorless, non-smoking, uncluttered environment is most-desired for any Incall,
Massage Room &/or Bedroom.
Significantly important also, is either fresh air from an open window, &/or an air-conditioner
&/or ceiling fan "on", and numerous fans positioned toward the massage platform or bed.
(A room which is hot, humid or steamy is not ideal whatsoever, however, one which is too
cold will easily become over-heated in no time from impending "action")
Preferred amenities for an 0utcall/Incall:
Ambient lighting, candlelight, jazz or massage music, beverages, (bottled flat water) and possibly
light snacks (for a longer meeting) is a nice touch.
Foremost however, is cleanliness; lustrated, unsullied.... did I forget to mention "hygienic"?
Crucial however besides purified and overall tidiness is an Incall which actually smells fresh, yet
not overly "scented".
(I'm particularly turned-off by fragrant "Vanilla, Coconut, Rose, Patchuli or Cinnamon" )
Newly-Laundered sheets for the bed/massage table is an absolute-must!
Having a clean second sheet-set is nice to have on-hand in case a "mid-session" sheet-change is
needed. 
Crucial also is to offer:
The "Client's" choice of "covers & lube". (Most Providers however, carry their personal-use)
Clean, large bath towels, hand towels, washcloths, & body-wipes (FYI: None are truly “flushable”
says my Plumber), Kleenex, paper towels, sanitizer, wipes and a visible empty trash receptacle.
A little effort, a weekly maid, or elbow grease truly goes a long way!
Xo Angelina Jones
I’m hoping cleanliness is the one thing I’ve already nailed. As I said, I’ve been away lately but right before I left my place I did a deep cleaning just because I like to keep things neat. But this thread has certainly helped address what amenities or supplies I should have ready for the rendezvous.
I will say your concerns with outcalls are exactly why I’m trying to make sure things go well. The provider doesn’t really do outcalls or work independently so I’d prefer she doesn’t walk away from this feeling like it’s as ordinary as working out of the agency.
I just saw a post on twitter about this. DISCONNECT ALL security cameras/door bell videos. A provider was contacted by a disgruntled wife after a weekend away who watched the video to see her husband sitting on porch with his new lady friend chatting before they went into the house for an adult romp. Don't do this.
Fortunately I live alone. Although my obstacle is I know so many people in my apartment complex. I had to come out and show her where my place was because it can be confusing— and it was probably some of the riskiest 5 mins of my life.
Honestly though all the advice on this thread I think helped a lot. Took most of the advice and even though some of it didn’t come in handy this time, I liked being prepared for most requests or asks.
Get a hotel. Thank me later.