I suspect that I am not alone in this.  I have never kissed a lover after cumming in her mouth.  Well eventually of course but not right away and definitely not before she has spit or swallowed.  I now see this as a bit of a hangup.  The thought of overcoming this hangup is even a bit exciting.  No lover, over many, many years has tried to kiss me while she has had my semen in her mouth (providers and civies), which says somethng, I think.  I'd appreciate it if people could share their thoughts and experiences, men and women and LG.  Thanks

so if the lady is happy with taking my load in her mouth, well - if it's good enough for her it's good enough for me.

And I definitely love to kiss. Nothing in this world makes me hotter or harder than good kissing.

Just remember not to daty til you've had a good rinse '

Snow Ball!!!

Yummy

my wife came up face to face with me,after swallowing the load,and kissed me.She still had remnants of the 'load' around her mouth. I didn't taste anything different. I really don't think I would cognitivly persue the idea as a given.

I have tasted the emissions given out by the opposite sex quite often,and went right into a kissing segment.

Any difference in the two?
Seems the only hang-up was mine.

and she's not trying to unload it into my mouth, I don't see it as a problem. I've kissed plenty of ladies after CIM, but always after they either spit or swallowed.

A provider does not have to CIM but I prefer it.  So I am happy to kiss them afterwards as a sign of respect and more so, appreciation.  All have either spit or swallowed.

Especially when it dribbles down her chin and she tries to kiss you! Real sticky!

my fabulous ex #2 would do this when she didn't feel like swallowing. some ladies i've seen are receptive to it also.

i especially am fond of doing it as a part of 69. having a mutually happy conclusion that way and then playing snow ball afterwards is a good way to start round 2.... i find the mingling of male and female scents/tastes to be erotically stimulating.

I have certainly kissed after she has swallowed or spit, but haven't snowballed. I don't have any moral objection to it.

My concern is the proper process for cleaning/rinsing, because I love DATY and I wouldn't want to preclude subsequent oral play. Because I haven't known the appropriate answer and the time wasn't good to ask, I skipped.

So I'm interested in this thread as well.

Just kidding.

But def NOT kissing after a brown shower.

there has been no DATY afterwards. if there is any further play it is rinse and spit time and on goes the raincoat.

otherwise one might almost just as well do BBFS. but that is just my opinion. for once i have no analysis to back it up.

That exact concern is why I refrained from doing it. I wasn't sure if there was any option of a way to have it not rule out DATY while still being responsible. Other than of course, simply having that be a last-cup thing with no real substantial play afterwards.

Because my brain is approximately mush during these scenarios, I never think of this stuff at the time, so end up playing safely and conservatively as a default. But with no naked women playing with me now, I can carry on a conversation and get my questions answered.

With my first civie girl friend on our second date.

She took her first load of my cum in her mouth and then without any warning leapt up on me, got my still erect cock in her vagina, and proceeded to snowball with me while she got her O off.

It was quite fantastic frankly and ever since, I've been hooked.

Sorry - but cum has a strange consistency and its either getting swallowed or spit out.

I'll kiss after swallowing but I won't let it labor around in my mouth in the time it takes to reach my partner's mouth.  I've never been into snowballing in the context of the business though I have enjoyed it in civilian relationships.

Now kissing after DATY?  Essential.

I absolutely LOVE to snowball and always jump at the opportunity to do so...like tonight. It is SOOOOOOO freaking Hot!

I love to french kiss and a whole lot wet and  sloppy is fine with me. As a child my mother taught me not to talk with my mouth full so the only options are to swallow or pass it on.

Anyone want to have a snowball fight

Kisses Haley

but never got snowballed. Might be an interesting experience.  Hell, if she can take my cum in her mouth, why can't I kiss her?  After all, I have kissed her right after she came in my mouth.  Is there that much difference?  I have not yet tasted my cum from her, but I know who I might do it with.  (for me to know and you to find out,,,,NOT)

Swim

Then don't expect a girl to CIM. If its gross for you, its gross for her.

I had read about it in posts.  I love to DKF with her after DATY and I agree it is respect to do the same after CIM.  I did not notice the taste but I did not let it linger either.  I have gone DATY with the wife after BBFS and it was not really a lot different just wetter.  It is mine so it doesn't bother me.

Kissing after eating pussy YES
Kissing after a blow job    YES
Kissing after rimming       YES
Kissing after licking feet   YES
Get the point......I like to Kiss

you CIM,

but it's OK to DFK her when you walk in the door, knowing good & well that the guy she saw before you, well his review said CIM, right, cause that's how you know she will let you do it?

So, it's that you just don't want your own little swimmers checking your own tonsils, but it's OK if it's someone else's little swimmers, right???

OK, my rant is over... kiss her after and taste your own... it's no big deal.

No, you are far from alone...and yes, if one are hesitant to try it, it is mostly a hangup.  It is hilarious to me how many guys (and even some women) have double standards about this...and so many other things...in the bedroom.

Let me share your snowball baby!!

Remember,there is a chance she is not a crack whore and just possibly cleans up between clients and,who knows, has a little time between men?

...they are close minded : /.

I love to kiss, and have kissed after DATY frequently;
I've never snowballed (and as a one shot guy usually opt not for CIM since I prefer to hold out for the FS finish), but if its in her mouth and its from me, would not bother me - I agree it would seem odd to expect her to kiss after DATY and not be willing to reciprocate.

doesn't make him close minded. I don't want to suck a dick either, nor am I interested in felching or having someone piss on me (apologies to Mr Fisher lol), Does that make me closed minded?

I have experienced many women who did not want to be kissed after DATY, the best excuse I can recall was "you have pussy breath" lol. Does that make them close minded as well?

I think it is hilarious how one can claim to be "open minded" in the same sentence as he is being judgemental.

FWIW while I don't have the slightest desire to try "snomwballing" I don't have any problems kissing a woman after CIM as long as there are no remnants of my cum still in her mouth. If that makes me any less open minded in your book, so be it.

I guess I am turning into a spineless wimp myself.

I know I have a reputation to uphold, I promise to do better in the future. rofl

In an unopened bottle if you don't mind. lol

So let me get this straight it's OK for you to fill her mouth with spunk and you expect her to spit or swallow but you are hesitant to kiss her?  Dude get over it, IT'S YOUR SPUNK!!!  If you don't want it in your mouth why should she?  Drink Pineapple juice.

He's giving her money.