What is the vibe like? Specifically, I'm wondering if any of you feel intimidated  or insecure or inadequte  as these woman have had sex with professionals, might be making a mental comparison between you and them,  and suchlike spirit-crushing thoughts.

I know I would feel totally intimidated in that situation.  But I would do my best to try to enjoy it nonetheless.  Especially if Kobe Tai starts providing.

FWIW, when I have seen reviews for Porn Star providers, most are very positive and most note that the lady in question made a real effort to put the gent at ease.  Has this been the norm?  Anyone have a contrary experience?

Any thoughts at all to share re this?

I doubt that these women are thinking about much of anything except the present moment .....

I cant imagine that they are comparing you to some porn dude.

On the other hand, if she is thinking about some porn dude as you are with her ... it is just going to make her wetter and hotter with YOU

SOOOO where IS the downside ?

xo Lisa



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I have never been with a porn star, much less been in a realationship with one, but I have dated several providers, and I had never thought about it that way before.

I like the way you think

It's an entirely different situation since it's one-on-one (usually). No "lights-camera-action", "Oh Baby..yeah...yeah" stuff.

Don't you think that this might be sort of a "Busman's Holiday" for them. Not nearly the pressure (or aerobics) involved. It's a limited private show solely for you.

For however long the date is, it's still people wrapped in a single fantasy, enjoying each others company to the best of their abilities. Or at least that's the approach I take.

do you mean "date" or hobby?  If you're talking about being in a session with a PS provider, I sincerely doubt that it matters.  We've already established that providers do not expect you to be the World's Greatest Lovemaker.  They're being paid for their time and they know the deal.

But if you're talking about dating a PS in her personal life, that's a different story.  Frankly, anyone who has what it takes to date a porn star is probably a pretty amazing guy in his own right.  It's like dating any beautiful woman, only harder.  If you talk to the typical beautiful woman, you'll find that they always ALWAYS have a few decent prospects sniffing around.  There's the Rich Guy, the Really Rich Guy, the Gorgeous Guy, the Super-Duper Well-Hung Guy, the Guy Who Owns The Club In SoHo, etc.  When you date a beautiful woman, don't ever assume that you're the only rooster in the hen-house, because odds are that you're not.  Just show her that you have what it takes to gain entry.  But a porn star is all of the above, plus she's flakey, famous, and she probably expects a wild time between the sheets, too.  So, yeah, I can understand being a little nervous.

"But a porn star is all of the above, plus she's flakey, famous, and she probably expects a wild time between the sheets, too."?

Have you ever considered the fact that some porn stars, just like many providers, are just doing a job?

porn dude after she has been with me.

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but in a nutshell, I've had great experiences with PSs... Ciera of Washington is maybe one of the most down to earth people I have ever met....  just a doll.... Stevie?  they don't come more fun... Angelica Sinn?  wow is all I can say...

so, the experience is mostly in your 'big head' and is it worth a premium price?  the ladies I mention are all reasonably priced and with each I requested more than an hour.... took pictures... and in general had a good time....  they are after all, porn stars.... super professional... in all instances they really do seem genuinely nice...  

For the most part I do recommend it...  but - there are nonPS escorts who provide an equal experience... and they too are not to be missed....

I've never been around the top tier ladies, but the ones that I've met have tended to be nowhere near the level of the well reviewed providers here.  Vapid, self centered and with a blank stare could be a good description for 99% of the ones that I'd met.  It's part of what got me out of that industry.

I've certainly never dated (or even met) a porn star before.  But I've known some guys who have.  And besides, if she were "just doing a job," she would probably just become a provider instead of a PS.  Think about it: not only does she screw for money, she does it in front of an audience of millions, knowing that her family will probably eventually find out, and potentially ruining her chances of ever having a vanilla civilian career in the process.  That's some serious flakey attention-seeking behavior!  There are tons of exceptions though (I would hardly call Asia Carerra a flake, for example).

And I can anticipate your next argument: the money is better in porn, right?  Not necessarily.  Most of these girls never make it to fame and fortune.  For every Jenna Jameson, there's 100 girls you've never heard of who just don't last.  Besides, if she has what it takes to get in front of a camera in a f*ck-flick, she probably has what it takes to be a very high-priced provider too.

I’ve met a few porn stars and have had an excellent experience with each one I’ve been with. Ayana Angel was very down to earth person and at no time did I feel intimidated in the least. Sierra also made me feel comfortable right away and was great and fun to be with. Porn stars are no different than any other providers I been with but I must admit it is a kick to be with one after seeing their movies. Look for a well reviewed porn star and have fun.

People end up doing lots of things that they had no idea they'd ever be doing. I'm not saying that no porn stars actually enjoy what they're doing, but I still think it's rather presumptuous to paint all porn stars with such a broad brush, especially since you admit to having no(zero) personal experience.

Reading the other responses, it dawned on me that since I never was around any of them as a client, I didn't get the view they'd give as a PSE provider.  A couple of them did provide, but I saw them mostly before "action" and after "cut", so my perspective would be quite different.