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Get to see a variety of women in terms of races, shapes and sizes. Also there are things my wife can't do and thing she won't do such as daty and greek.

I often wonder if men feel guilty... I know many will not respond to this or will try to rationalize it but ..you must feel guilty..don't you? I mean the men who are married or have gf's.  Just a question.

All the typical reasons, nothing at home, great variety of ladies, adventure, a few favorites, but mostly because I'm horny, and because I can.

My reasons are pretty close to the same. I love it, I can afford it, I love it, and I love it. Plus I'm single and I don't have to worry about cheating on anyone.

I'm sure that most of us, whether we can rationalize it or not, must feel a certain degree of guilt. The degree of guilt probably varies with the different reasons why we are here in the first place.

I'm equally sure that some have no guilt whatsoever, due to circumstances or the absolute absence of a conscience.

that I might as well say that 99% of the time I do not feel guilty and when I do feel it, it passes quickly, just like the niceness. Plus she is extremely conservative and has become a religious nutcase.  so I travel a lot.  boohoo hoo...LMFAO

But now no. I feel so good when I hobby. It is something that I look forward too. I have learned a lot more about sex, women, and myself in terms of sexual satisfaction. It is nice to be able to take things you have learned and apply that home with the wife.

too.  I agree with hungry's reasons except the one about nothing at home.  I'm single so there REALLY is nothing at home except porn and Rosie and her 5 daughters.  She gets boring sometimes as does porn.

Swim

She has breast cancer....no breasts now and really bad scar.....treatments killed her sex drive....but mine is still healthy....soooooo here I am.

Heres why

Clean car 15.00 Gas 30.00 Dinner/100.00 Entertainment 100.00 So 250.00 right. I get to do this 2 or 3 times. Ok we hit it off great. now I get to add breakfast and listen to all the BS. So I get fat too. Add in the hang-ups and no-nos an escort is a much better value.

Lets not leave out variety. How many times have you looked at another women when your with your girl and wondered what it would be like to have her. We can. We can have it all.

True, we have to give it back when were done but the memories will last a lifetime.  

     

I thought about this question a lot. I posted the following answer last September.

This may seem to be a question with a very obvious answer, but after a lot of introspection, for me there are multiple answers.  Some have more to do with psychological and emotional elements than anything else.

When I was young, I was horny, saw providers, got the physical satisfaction and release, repeated as necessary.

After being married for 28 years, another reason is that the SO is not as young or attractive as she used to be, and neither am I. After reading the forums on TER and seeing pictures of the many providers in the Los Angeles area, I was stunned at the sexiness and beauty of many of these women.  Spending some time with any of them would be a tremendous turn on after 28 years with the same person.

Another obvious reason is the age difference.  I am in my late fifties.  Almost all of the providers would be younger, prettier, sexier, more energetic and overall more desirable than someone my age.  Seeing a twenty-something provider is easy; in civilian life it would be almost impossible.

A less obvious reason is that over 40 years of male adulthood, there have been many "missed opportunities."  There were chances to make love to ladies that I did not follow up on because of shyness or inexperience.  I have seen pictures of providers who remind me a bit of some of my missed opportunities from the past. I would have a chance to revisit the past and "change history" for a better outcome.

My biggest realization is that many men spend much of their lives aware of the women that they cannot have.  These include celebrities, relatives, teachers, magazine pinups, your mother's friends, your SO's friends, your SO's sisters, the young and sexy ladies at work.... the list is endless.  There are dozens of providers in the LA area who could be substitutes for all of the above categories.

Variety.  Men seem to be programmed to desire multiple partners.  Many women do not understand this, but it is how I have always felt.

After a short fling with a coworker years ago, I discovered that I got a tremendous ego boost and sense of pleasure from being in public with a sexy, beautiful woman.  I have looked back on my time with her as one of my best memories.  Society  says that your favorite memories should be of your wedding day or the birth of your children, but this is not true with me.

I also have felt that I really have not gotten my "fair share" of erotic pleasure with women, especially the attractive ones.

I think that it is an ego boost knowing that I have recently spent at least an hour with a passionate, attractive woman when a good looking young lady frowns or turns away after you smile at her or say hello.  

I know that some men see providers to do things that their SO or girlfriend refuses to do.  This is not valid for me, although I think that it may be a compelling reason for many men.

The downside of course, is only having a limited amount of money to spend.