In reading numerous hooker boards I've come to the conclusion that there are a lot of misguided guys/girls out there. Real GFE would be BBFS-CIP. Personally  I look for BBBJTC-CIM/SWALLOW since that's the closest I can get to real GFE sex. Kissing and daty is Ok but what good does that do if the blowjob is lousy?

and just who are you (or me for that matter) to call the psychological aspects "bogus"???

Personally I enjoy both the physical (boob play, DATY, scissoring, etc) but also I enjoy the chatting, cuddling and overall fantasy aspect of GFE. Is it all fake? Yeah....but who cares? We all know that we are paying for the provider to be whatever we want her to be for the time we've booked. It's not like she's trying to fool us with the whole GF act

Honestly, I believe we are beyond that days of calling a BBBJ a girlfriend experience. Same as calling GREEK a porn star experience.  

You'd know that just BBFSCIP doesn't mean much otherwise.  Shit...it seems to be quite the norm for many today again.  And they aren't BF/GF...just random hookups.

seems to be a recent overdose of those that are convinced that they are the only ones that know how to play and anyone who doesn't play the same way they do are deluded, stupid, wasteful, bogus.. (pick your adjective)... must be democrats; they seem to be convinced they have the right to tell you how to live your life... but maybe republicans; they seem to be convinced they have the right to tell your to live your sex life...

I like the porn star 'look'. DD's, long hair, model looks and wears very erotic clothes. To me, its more about the look. I get really turned on by a woman who is comfortable and can be openly sexy in slutty attire. Seductive and just plain hot. My real GF's did not like the idea of dressing like that, because they felt objectified. It was always about the romance to them, the build up to the sex itself.

I don't think it's an age issue....but that young dude couldn't take the boards for what they are.

If cuddling and spooning a fine specimen of womanhood makes you happy, and it makes me happy as all hell, how is the experience bogus?  It's what I as a willing buyer want to pay for and no different than some one who want to pay to get pegged, flogged or anything else that brings them release.

I'm not so naïve as to think that they person will want to do this minus the envelope, but the best gals have an empathy that makes me think so, at least for a little while, and that feeling is just so sublime that I can't get enough of it.

and let us know how your body responds to that BJ, OK?

some physical attraction does have to be there.   Without that, the psychological connection won't even happen.  However, physical gratification certainly can happen and be great without anything more emotional.

What does "bogus psychological aspects of GFE mean"? It seems a little "judgy". Not everyone wants porn star sex. I don't swallow in my personal life, so not in professional life either. Some people are STARVED for affection... for kisses and cuddles. Others don't like porn star sex because they associate it with disease or they are intimidated by being held to high performance standards. I once saw a man who had lost his wife to cancer. He had two children under the age of four to raise alone. He wasn't ready to date... still heart broken, but wanted to be held and made love to.

If your offering GFE in your session I feel it needs to be sincere... I tell all my clients feel like your visiting your girlfriend, hunny, lover when you cum see me..

by reading a few board posts. Your research methodology blows monkey scrotum (industry vernacular, sorry)

Every once in a while he surprises me and makes a lot of sense and then he reverts to form and we get this drivel.

Like it says, a girl friend experience but at a faster pace.  You're in the dating phase and she wants to wear sexy lingerie for you.  I also associate GFE with kissing but I do not associate PSE with kissing.  Swallowing or Greek to not make a date GFE for me, those are just added bonuses.

Every once in a while a blind squirrel finds a nut, doesn't mean he can see. And you and I are only misogynists to those who don't know us.

Debating it is a waste of time.

Well not quite yet at least, but when you get one we will know how fully committed to really being "Cait" you are. Nothing says commitment like getting your dick whacked of on purpose.

.....I have never seen the slightest sign of misogyny.
Or have you ingeniously hid all of the he-man-woman-hater posts from me?

Nothing like protecting a business when said business intentionally damages the meaning of a word they don't like.

I never said that you said "fucking hookers" was sad, what you said was "sleeping with hookers" was  sad. You also said that even if it only cost an extra $20 for a hooker to stay overnight with you that you wouldn't do it. Ringing any bells, oh judgmental one???

However you want GFE to be.

is far less important that what it isn't. It isn't robotic, it isn't bored, and it isn't rollover and start texting the next appointment right after the current one finishes. Beyond that everyone can define it as they wish and find providers who define it the same way. Such a simple thing but judgment threads on the topic are like a damn rash around here.

If she is beautiful high class fun to be around, the more you get the better for the fantasy.
with some of them, the GFE experience would be only in the bedroom.
I think DFK is most important for GFE, good blowjob got nothing to do with it, it's more of a skill.

and I very much agree with you.

Then a blow up doll would suit your needs and save you a lot of money.
I'm sure the hookers wouldnt mind.

but you aren't happy just speaking for yourself, you have to tell every other guy what's real, what's bogus, and just what the right way to fuck hookers is. You are the sad one here, even worse than the manginas and BSU's you claim to pity.

So you can't have a "GFE" without getting all up into their personal life?
WTF???

Many guys seek out GFE  for many things, but those looking for more than the physical don't normally nitpick over stupid bs in reviews. I have yet to form a connection in an hour, though there have been a hella sexual connections in that time frame.  

Yup, you did say that OTM lol. By the way, guys who book overnights are no different than guys we just fk in real life who happen to s pend the night. Both realize the shit ends come sunrise, and we both go on with our lives. Just because people like to spend time together so they can get more than a one and done, does not make them needy. Some are, but that is not the majority. Some feel they get their money's worth in an hour, and some feel ripped off if it's not at least 4-12 hours. To suggest that because they booker longer to actually experience other aspects makes them 'looking for love' is a bit naive. I can assure you, they know they are paying a hooker who probably has a boyfriend, just like they have a wife at home. You can't buy friendship, but they are sure as hell more likely to form in more than a damn hour.

Just Google "gif abandon thread" and there are tons of funny ones!!

Even the most sadistic, physical sex still involves the mind, will and emotions to some extent. If it was purely physical, why does a man under stress have erection issues? Why did it take me til 25 to have my first orgasm with a man, when I have never even come close to being sexually abused? Duh.. the shit is mental to some degree, always. Those seeking some type of connection can do so without falling in love. I do it all the time. It is the money quite frankly that allows us to be able to feel all we want, and stop when we should. It's really not all that complicated. If I know a man is married, though super hot, getting paid stops any real love from forming... that does not mean we can't feel for a few hours as if we are lovers, though.