I'm sure that all of you genuinely enjoy the sex you have with your clients. After all, if you didn't like sex you wouldn't be in this business. But surely the degree to which you enjoy the sex must differ from guy to guy. A few providers have told me that most of their clients are decent guys, but admitted that they occassionally get a client who really turns them off (because he's grossly overweight, unclean, smelly, a jerk, scary, or just plain ugly). That's understandable.
But I'm wondering if you've ever had a guy walk in the door and think, "Man, I really want to have sex with this guy!!!" Of course you will say that you're excited to have sex with all your clients, but I'm asking if you've ever had a client that you were more excited about than normal (either because of his looks, or his charm, or because he's great in bed). I'm not asking about developing a crush or anything like that -- I'm talking just about sexual attractiveness.
This question came to mind a few weeks ago when I was reading another thread that was making fun of reviewers here on TER who boast that they were so good that they gave the provider a dozen orgasms and afterwards she told him she was one of the best she ever had. We all assume those guys are full of shit. Either the guy is totally lying, or maybe the provider did tell him he was one of the best, but he was too pathetic and naive to realize she was stroking his ego (it's like when a girlfriend tells you that you're the best fuck she's ever had -- she's obligated to say that, whether it's true or not!). But after thinking about it for a while, I realized that however unlikely it is that a provider who be genuinely super hot for one particular client, it may very well happen once in a very great while.
lover any of the ladies who have been lucky enough to see me have ever had.
I know how to make my assets work for me and I am the ATF of every lady I meet. I am their sunshine, their rain, their everything...
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Okay, now that you have stopped laughing hysterically...read on.
I am assuming that the ladies you see, like the ladies I see, are still human, so sure, they occassionally come across a guy that really gets their motor running, just like anybody would.
And there are some guys that they just don't click with, no matter how hard they try...it is just human nature.
I have found that remembering that the ladies you meet in this business are human beings, actually answers a lot of questions, if you think about it.
I have to say I have 8, no 9 atfs and I love to play with them Each are different and the sex and the connection between us is So very Unreal. Its so wonderful when I can see them and just be so absolutely Blown Away.
We I believe are very compatible with many different people. Finding them is difficult but as in this business, they tend to drop in your lap, so to speak.
I have found there to be a positive correlation not with penis size or technique and the satisfaction of my provoiders, but with the row of benjamins I place on the desk before whe go to rodeo. I have had some tell me I am the best lover they ever had, even before we start LOL
of course there are those select clients with whom i have almost instant intense sexual chemistry and who i get all hot and bothered just thinking about them coming to see me. but it's never purely a physical thing, it's about the whole package...the way a particular man carries himself, expresses his needs and desires, the way he looks at me and treats me, his scent and taste, everything. right now i'd say i have 3 clients like this.
i would never tell a man that he was "one of the best i ever had", because my mind just doesn't work that way...as a submissive my own physical arousal/release just isn't relevant to me. but i certainly tell those gents who send electricity up and down my spine that they are among my favorites.
I'm short, late 30's, carry about 40 extra lbs, pretty much blind without my glasses, and a technogeek. In fact they are probably relatively disapppointed.
However, at the end of the first date they are likely thinking, hey that wasn't so bad...he's clean, respectful, has a decent sense of humor, and genuinely wants to make sure I have a good time too...even if he's not "the best fuck I've ever had"...
By the end of the second or third date, when we've both relaxed enough and it gets beyond looks, they all adore me
My guess is that if you want an escort to genuinely enjoy the time she spends with you, it's not just going to be due to your looks. It's going to be because you treat her well, and are a repeat client who tries to engage with her as a person but who doesn't ask too much of her or ever expect her to like you back as anything more than a client.
Actuallly, I don't know how well that would work with escorts, but it's worked for me once or twice with strippers. The less burden you put on a stripper to like you back (or pretend to like you back), the easier it is, I think, for her to actually enjoy lapdancing you, if you happen to be likable in the first place.
Probly different with escorts though, cuz they can (potentially) be more selective with clients and proabably have to service fewer clients per shift, but much more sexually than strippers.
LOL I didn't read anything past the initial post so here is my answer.
HELL YEA I have had that experience. I met someone first online and we started to chat via yahoo about a year ago. There came a day when he got a web cam. Thats all it took and we have been seeing each other ever since. He was so damned hot I just HAD to get this guy to come see me. So his schedule finally meshed with mine and one night magic happened. He was incredible in bed and the way he kissed made me fall in love with him almost instantly. I kept thinking OMG this is a client and I set a strict rule for myself never to date one. What can I say he must have cast a spell on me because we have been seeing each other ever since and are getting married on the 20th of this month.
I will be retiring the end of this year but until then there is still time for other new gents to come spend time with me.
I think you said you didn't want to hear that part of it but this is the truth and this is how it eventually worked out between us.
congrats to you on finding a Gentleman who suites yuour fancy. It's tough, and to find one who accept you for who you are as well is amazing. well wishes...
we are all just woman. Like any other woman in most ways. Some more passionate than maybe your wife or your SO or maybe even more so than any woman you have ever been with, or maybe not. But we are woman and if you set an appt with someone you have researched on, read their reviews, and not just the numbers, really read the reviews...you will or should be able to find someone that can bring into your time together a great deal of what you are looking for. It is what you make it, this hobby. Choose wisely and be certain of what it is you want. If you do I believe you will not be disappointed. I see a great many Gentlemen whos company I have so deeply enjoyed in every way. I am selective as well and see only the Gentlemen who I feel fit well with my personality and my style. If I feel it is not a good match, I don't see them. It seems to work for me. I am sure it will work for you as well. Good luck.
Dear Sweet Nicole: I was just wondering what would the odds be that one would end up marrying or having a significant other that would be a client? Although you are extremely interested in people that are psychologically compatible to you, but when do you know when to make an exception and what are the conundrums that you entertain since it is against normal rules and regulations to be extremely emotionally involved with clients considering most women in the industry have an innate ability to compartmentalize?
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