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Re: Not the same service??
mattradd 40 Reviews 363 reads
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It's most unfortunate to allow feelings of jealousy and/or envy to destroy the memories of the original experience, along with its pleasures. This can lead to something like having a bucket containing positive experiences, and then putting holes in it. The more envy and jealousy the more holes, and the more desperation to fill it up. Not a pretty picture.

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I recently saw a provider three days straight. She was just what I needed and I kept coming back. But after my trip was over I went to post a very favorable review and saw some other reviews had just been posted. I was peeved when I read them. This provider had given extra pops to all the other recent hobbyists but I did not get that pleasure. I'm a young and fit guy, and have been known to have go two or three time in a session.
Is this something I should request upfront. The other guys didn't write about asking and one of them even said that she wouldn't let him out of the bed until he popped again.

Advice?
Comments?

Take your reviews with a grain of salt...not everyone is the superhero they claim to be in their reviews, not everyone has a ten incher, and not everyone can make the lady O five times...although we all hope everyone provides an accurate assessment of what occurred.  For me I read the reviews more for atmosphere and attitude then keeping score of how many pops the lady gives.   Personally if you were satisfied until you read her reviews, I'd forget that you read them.

You'd be surprised the exaggerations that arise. Some men really go all out to make themselves sound like a stud when in reality, it was probably a lot different.

Also, there are some instances when chemistry really comes into play or she may have gotten extra. You never know what the deal is... it sounds like you had a great time as did she with your encounter. Next time, just tell her you'd like to try popping again and see what she says.

Did she give your your whole hour each time? (or whatever time you booked)- if not, find a new provider.  If she did, then you needed to have made your desire known early so she could time appropriately.  The majority of my providers have asked what I wanted up front.

When in doubt, I've asked AT THE BEGINNING if multiples are allowed.  It is important to let your requests be known early and to know her "rules" early.

Otherwise, you are both guessing what's on the other's minds.  If you say nothing and the end of the time is nearing, don't expect to be offered and really don't ask for a second pop.

Also, she doesn't know if you are good for multiples.  My best providers have asked early as it tells them how to handle the session.  If they know I'm only good for one, they string my joy out for a pop at the end.  

When we agreed multiple up front, she "went for it" early to allow rest then recover and up again well before the session was to end.

You got what you paid for, and were obviously more than satisfied, since you came back three days in a row. I'd say you were smitten until the moment you read her reviews. Don't let your emotions or feelings of jealousy interfere with the fact that you truly enjoyed your time with her. Do you really want multiple conversations just because some other guy got them? That attitude seems childish to me, and if you present it to her that way you will likely lose a great provider.

When the time is right, she may incorporate that into your time together. Maybe you simply wore her out and she didn't have the energy to go on... Or she might think you are a stalker weirdo because you came back every day for three days, and she is being understandably cautious. There are eight million reasons we do and don't do things, most of which are not personally aimed at you, the Hobbyist. Take it slow. You'll be fine.

You went and saw this woman three days in a row! I'm assuming that you enjoyed yourself. Did you ask for a second pop? Many women will go twice but few will actually offer it. It's up to YOU to initiate this sort of thing in most cases.
Another thing to remember is that guys exaggerate in reviews all the time with the intent of coming off as some kind of stud.

It's most unfortunate to allow feelings of jealousy and/or envy to destroy the memories of the original experience, along with its pleasures. This can lead to something like having a bucket containing positive experiences, and then putting holes in it. The more envy and jealousy the more holes, and the more desperation to fill it up. Not a pretty picture.

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