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Re: Not only that, the term "blacklist" gets mis-used all the time.
Bendherover69 70 reads
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Is being blacklisted that serious? What if the provider feel vindictive? Seems like a load of bull. I’ve  been scammed before and maybe blacklisted! Anyone can make up a lie and try to ruin your reputation!

mpluver965 reads

I was recently contacted by someone asking about a girl I reviewed. He asked if I saw her at a specific address and gave expicit location floorplan and room details. I didn't see her anywhere near that address. However, I am now concerned for her safety as well as anyone else this person may try to see from this site in the future. What is the best way to report the user and also let providers/agencies know about this person? My guess is he is either LE or a stalker, he has posted no reviews and only one ISO on the boards.

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holystonethedeck43 reads

Use the "contact us" link at the bottom of each page.

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John_Laroche39 reads

Not much you can do to alert providers or agencies, but yes, at least report the suspicious contact to TER.

 
I'm curious if the provider you saw hidden her face on all ads and websites.  Maybe this guy is paranoid that his SO is a sex worker.

 
Too many truly odd and dangerous people out there.

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zenshouse45 reads

You can start by telling the provider you saw. Give her as much detail as you can. Then, if he does contact her and she gets more contact information, she can get it added to the secret escort balcklist.

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holystonethedeck45 reads

There's no single blacklist, and some are not so secret.

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inicky4667 reads

To some girls it means landing on their "Do Not See List." A true blacklist is a site where guys who've mis-behaved have their information shared so girls can avoid them. And if you're on one, you probably don't even know it.

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Bendherover6971 reads

Is being blacklisted that serious? What if the provider feel vindictive? Seems like a load of bull. I’ve  been scammed before and maybe blacklisted! Anyone can make up a lie and try to ruin your reputation!

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zenshouse44 reads

There is certainly a more popular one. I didn’t say it was the only one though. And obviously the secret isn’t so secret. Many know about it but providers still guard it like we don’t. So I was being a bit sarcastic. If it was so secret, I wouldn’t know about it and be posting it here.

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nudetonyc48 reads

I've heard of mrnumber and verifyhim. Any others? Supposedly guys can't use the sites but how they would know?

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mpluver44 reads

I told the provider and she has never been at that address before. She's not even the same ethnicity!

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mpluver49 reads

Thanks for the replies. I left one thing out of my initial post. The girl I saw was a different ethnicity than the one the stalker was trying to find and she said she had never been at that address before. The guy seemed unhinged. I already was going to report to TER but I didn't know how to alert the provider community.

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impposter55 reads

Be careful about volunteering information.  Your Interrogator wants info from You and may manipulate the discussion.
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I: Is this Mary a tall blond with a rose tattoo on her left shoulder, walks with a limp, has a French accent, ... drives an old red Citroen with AZ plates?
Y: No way! You have the wrong Mary. You are waaaaaay off base! THIS Mary is a short long haired brunette with blonde highlights, has a tattoo of her BF's initials on her ankle, no limp - fit as a gymnast, has a Jamaican accent because she is a black girl from Jamaica, but happens to live in Jamaica, Queens ... and she drives a fairly new blue Mazda with NY plates.  
I: Gee, I guess you're right. She is the wrong Mary. I am totally looking for someone else. I'm sorry I wasted your time. But thanks for your help. I can validate your parking for you.  
Y: No problem. Any time.  
Y leaves, but listens outside the door.
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I (talking on telephone): "Yeah, it's her. Alert the crew in Queens, NY!"  
Y: Uh oh. Did I say too much?

Posted By: mpluver
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Thanks for the replies. I left one thing out of my initial post. The girl I saw was a different ethnicity than the one the stalker was trying to find and she said she had never been at that address before. The guy seemed unhinged. I already was going to report to TER but I didn't know how to alert the provider community.

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