A little preface before I get to my question:  
I have been interested in this hobby for almost a decade, checking ads when time permitted some play. I’m extremely picky, so for years no one interested me enough to kick this hobby off. Finally, last month, one women toured through my area whose photos blew my mind. I ended up seeing her on 2 separate occasions, for a total of 6 hours. She’s everything I could ask for in a provider and we really seemed to hit it off, even communicating with me afterward. Then FOSTA passed the Senate, and all contact is now answered by her scheduler.  
I want to have a long, memorable date (24 hr) filled with food, wine, etc.. with her but my work/home life is pretty rigid so even if she tours nearby again, my ability to create such a date would be nigh impossible.  The only way for me to make this happen is to arrange it around my schedule and pay for her travel to my city.  The potential exists for such a date, per her scheduler, once I nail down a date.
Two remaining details, (1) I'd prefer to arrange this as an outcall at my residence (I have a clean, upscale house to enjoy and use as a base of operations) and (2) I have a SO, but the date will be during a time when she is travelling.

But that would be mean, so here are some actual thoughts.
There's an old expression: "Don't shit where you eat."  In this case it means, having this date at your residence is a REALLY bad idea.  First of all, how can you be sure your SO's travel plans may not change?  Second, if a nosey neighbor knows she's traveling and sees this other woman, how do you know he/she won't blab?  So if you really want this, spring for a nice incall somewhere else.
Last: this has nothing to do with FOSTA/SESTA.  Those bills don't mean there are new boogeymen hiding behind every tree.  LE is almost certainly not interested in busting you and an indy provider.

She will know!!!  Too often there is a clue left behind, whether a scent, your guilt, an item of clothing, etc.  Find a different location for the date!

I did some incredibly stupid things when I was younger.    

Good thoughts. I’ve been putting much thought into this. (1) I’d likely be the one driving SO to/from the airport, so I’d be in the loop. (2) Not that close with any neighbors, shades pulled, attached garage - no real chance to see anything.

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I say to you do not bring her into the home  I repeat  I say to you do not bring her into the home . Better for you and better for her. Get a nice 4 or 5 star room for the night. You never know what if the S.O. should come home. You surely dont know each other well enough to that.

I appreciate that. I’ve been making a list of things to check afterwards - wipe down shower and tub, check drains, change bedding before and replace after...  but I can’t possibly think of everything can I?

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Women have an amazing sense of smell, and I would also offer that they have a type of ESP whereby they can just sense that another woman has been in their lair.

Not crazy, however, very crazy to rendezvous, at least for an "overnighter"  
in your own lair.  

Thanks for the PS. Believe me, I thought the same at first, and you may ultimately be right although there is some evidence to the contrary. Besides, if that was the case I’d expect the scheduler to tell me to take a hike.

...coming on a f*ckboard to ask if you are crazy for trying to arrange something, and then systematically arguing the repeated (and unanimous) affirmative response.  

Hmm, I feel I’ve been receptive to the feedback so far. The only one I “argued” was responding to to specific situations that were posed. Feel free to think otherwise though.

Using your home address exposes you to a host of potential issues.  Just don't do it.

Funny you mention that. Read an article recently where 3 escorts interviewed one of their regulars with the same questions. When asked “Do you care about me”, they unanimously said yes. I don’t think there is anything wrong with caring about the people you cross in your life. I don’t think that necessarily constitutes feelings though.  

Message received.  Thanks for the advice - and for not calling me stupid. LOL

The switch to contact via scheduler has little to do with the new law, if anything. Angelina made some good points, and don’t dismiss them by thinking, “if that was the case, the scheduler would tell me to take a hike”.  The scheduler would do that if a client was a DNS kind of fellow.  In your case, it seems your interest in the provider was only leaning problematic, so the switch to contact via Booker is only a wisely employed preventative measure.

I think you'll be fine. Just be careful with the SO.

As I'm sure she is for you to consider such a treat.

You said earlier that you'll clean up your "crime" scene afterward. No matter how diligent you try there's always danger of something you overlook or miss.

It wouldn't be the first time a girl has had to pretend to be a booker to scare away a needy or pushy client, or to keep him at bay.

All the other posters have mentioned leaving a trace or the six sense. Holy shit. What about she knows where u live!! Not all things that start we’ll end well. What if she just shows up at your house one day!

Nah....hes gotta pay to get her there this time. Doubt she'll show up for free. Lol! But for Christs sake....get a damn hotel! When momma bear comes home, she's damn well gonna know that Goldilocks was sleeping in her bed and slurping poppa bears porridge!

You caught Jake on a good day . . . . but not me.  I won't say it ether.  I'll just think it to myself.  Lol

to add "write last will and testament" to your list.  You can check EVERYTHING afterwards, but you still can't protect yourself from a BSC provider.  I have had a few providers at my place, but 1) I'm single, and 2) I have seen them multiple times before somewhere else first. My MILFY neighbor is not an issue.  I PREFER for her to see women coming to my house, because when she saw the kinds of women I have over, she stopped hitting on me, at least for awhile.  

You mention that she is touring. Sometimes that means she is touring to your area from another state.  
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Which reminds of a story. The porpoises at the zoo were being particularly frisky and displaying behaviors not suitable for family viewing. The zoo keeper knew that he could calm them down with a meal of freshly killed sea gulls. The quickest route from the food prep area to the porpoise tank was through the lion cage. It sounds dangerous to carry fresh bloody kill near the lions but they were old, tired and well fed. The zoo keeper took the dead birds into the cage, hopped over the lions sprawled therein, scratched Leo behind the ears and proceeded to feed the porpoises who quickly calmed down. As he left the lion's cage to go back to the kitchen, he was cuffed and arrested.  "What's goin' on! What'd I do? What's the charge?"  
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"Transporting gulls across staid lions for immoral porpoises."  
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Eliot Spitzer had arranged to be visited at his DC hotel room by someone that would come down from New Jersey. He was being investigated for FINANCIAL crimes but they could have charged him like the zoo keeper. I do not think it is a problem in your case as she is making the trip to your area as a planned tour. You are just meeting her there (at a HOTEL, NOT at your HOME) and did not do anything with her travel.
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Any excuse to tell the staid lions joke. Thank you.

some mornings after a night of carousing with one of my favorite ladies.  If TER tries to ban you for posting a photo of another member, let me know and I'll speak to them about it just being a coincidence.  You had no idea.  

Some like doggie. Others prefer lionie.

You points are well taken. Didn’t mean to be dismissive with Angelina -  the “take a hike” comment should have been a question, which you have provided more insight on. TY.  

Her ph# was never posted, but was given to me. Our communications seemed mutually desired; she’d respond, sometimes with personal details. I was sensitive to the provider/client barrier, and at one point I told her to inform me if I should stop communicating with her since “I didn’t want to be that client that wouldn’t go away”. Our communication continued anyway until FOSTA past. Since then she has updated her site several times stating that her ph# is no longer active, now only keeps phone for personal use, etc.... Seems a long way to go to throw off a “needy” client - but I won’t deny the possibility.

Not sure what city you are in, best to take her to the hotel. Wives are mysterious creatures....they know when a random woman been in their palace....and they go hunting

The overwhelming majority of you have used words like “disaster”, horrible idea”, etc... to describe my plan. I thank you for your candor.  
To answer the question of why I am even considering it, it meets all the necessities for an extended date.  I have a guest suite with an attached bathroom for necessary personal time, and my house has ammenties (spacious rain shower, separate tub, wine cooler, whole house music system to set the mood and accompany activities) that pale in comparison to even a 4-5 star hotel. I’m aware that extended dates like this are about more than the obvious, so knowing my environment allows me to plan things to do in between.  Compared to hanging out in a hotel room all day, except meals, it seemed the better option. Afterward, my cleaning efforts would be limited to the few rooms used and my robot vacuum would do the heavy lifting for hair, earrings, etc.... A few hours of manual labor to clean/restore the house to normal seemed a small price to pay.  
It’s obvious that the risk goes well beyond that. Your comments have definitely given me food for thought.

Unlike you, however, I am single, and live alone.  Bringing ladies home, be they providers or civvies, may be noticed by my neighbors (most of whom are married couples, many with kids of various ages), but isn't going to cause a scandal because they know I am single, and never cause a ruckus.   Also, the fact that a couple of the ladies I have brought here in recent years were providers probably hasn't registered.  These ladies weren't third dates, but rather friends I have known for years.

This one time(not at band camp!) I was moving a soon to be ex gf across country to her new job. We had already broken up and I was out ther driving her in my rented car to her 1st couple of days at her new job from a short term rental until her truck arrived at her new place with her car and stuff later in the week. I had the days to myself and touristy things to do, distant relatives to visit, etc.

He can’t be freakin’ real.  

Why take the risk?

N2...
I believe the consensus is NOT to have an outcall at your place.  Both ladies and guys have stated, there are too many things that could go wrong.    
Of course, you are the one who ultimately makes the decision...
Good luck.

Is he serious?  I’m just saying...if he is why? Why when there are soooo many alternatives.

Get a room. don't take her to your place of residence. If you want things to do "in between", then go to a museum, a movie, the zoo, a night club, on a hike, whatever.... the list is endless. PDA's and flirting "in between" can be a very strong aphrodisiac and may help turn the fun times into fantastic times.

Rent the Taj

A fave of mine told me that she went to guy’s house.  The guy sits on a chair and she’s blowing him.  His wife comes home and sees this.
Needles to say the guy didn’t cum
I’da given $1,000.00 to have seen this!

A long time ago, we briefly had a young nanny who was (bleach) blonde and favored skimpy outfits.  It was late summer in the DC area, and that dress didn't stand out all that much (I thought). She was an incompetent nanny and she only worked for us for about three weeks. Fortunately, she quit before we had to fire her. However, as soon as she showed up, all sorts of neighbor women that I had never talked to before started asking me about her. They didn't come out and say it, but the implication of most of the questions seemed to be "are you banging her?."  

In this circumstance I totally agree. Sound advice...